is it wrong for my wife who is Bi-sexual to bring other women home after she has been out and not let me watch or join them
2006-12-09 02:32:34 · 25 answers · asked by seamanspraying 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
YES, it's wrong, because it doesn't matter if it's a man or woman she's having sex with, it's cheating. Personally she needs to give up this bi-sexual lifestyle, she's married to you, not these other women. And like I said, she's cheating on you, and your letting her do it. Be a man, put your foot down and tell her how you feel, because your letting her walk all over you. She isn't respecting you, and aas far as watching or joining them, don't because it would cause even more problems in your marriage. Just because she's bi-sexual, doesn't mean what she's doing is right, because she's having homosexual sex with another woman and homosexuality is wrong, and in my opinion uncaceptable behavior.
Personally I suggest that you both go to marriage counceling because there are issues there that need to be resolved.
2006-12-09 03:06:52 · answer #1 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crazy situation! This would be something that you need to discuss with your wife; guess set ground rules! As well, have you stopped to think that the woman she is bringing home may not want an audience nor participate in a threesome. You would have to consider everyones feelings and not just your own. Sounds like your wife enjoys being allowed to have 2 worlds. Good Luck
2006-12-09 02:40:21 · answer #2 · answered by chattylady47150 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it is wrong of your wife to have sex with other people. (weather or not your get to watch or join in) Your wife is cheating on you. Just because one is Bi-sexual does not mean that gives them license to have sex with the same sex outside of marriage.
When one is Bi-sexual and married one must control one's urges. Choosing one's spouse above ALL others is the base of marriage fidelity. If she couldn't do this, then she never should have gotten married.
2006-12-09 02:47:29 · answer #3 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I understand correctly, the problem is not that she brings women home, but that you cannot participate in anyway. Perhaps you are not on the same page as far as what you expect out this arrangement. You should both talk it out and come to an agreement.
2006-12-09 03:35:45 · answer #4 · answered by abraham_15221 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because she's bisexual doesn't mean she can't be monogamous! It just means she can be monogamous (or not) with either a male or a female. She has chosen a male partner. Obviously, you need to talk to your wife. Unless you had an agreement that either your wife, you or both of you could have extramarital sexual relationships, then it is wrong.
2006-12-09 02:44:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not involved, she is cheating on you and not committed to the marriage. If you went into this thinking she would share her exploits with you, then you need to have a serious talk and lay down some rules. She is not respecting you in bringing home her sexual partners and you're not respecting yourself in putting up with it. Remind her of why you got married and if she refuses to involve you in her sex life, then file the divorce papers and find someone who will appreciate you.
2006-12-09 02:38:05 · answer #6 · answered by Galoshes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a one night stand while you are there,,interesting! once more with the same person and it would be an affair,,,bi-sexual basically means you like either sex it does NOT give you license to cheat,,which it would appear she is doing. if you are part of a consenting threesome that is different but you have been cast aside for another so,,yes,,she is wrong.
2006-12-09 02:47:11 · answer #7 · answered by lex 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you're pissed that you can't have a three-some. You can answer your own question by asking if you would like if brought a man home and asked you to join in. If you say NO I won't do that, that's the answer about whether she should bring other women home.
2006-12-09 02:47:57 · answer #8 · answered by eleven 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You fail to mention whether there is a certain agreement between both of you or not. What her and your agreements are between both of you. Perhaps communication is the greatest of keys here. If there is a certain understanding, that has been acceptable between you both.
The question is do you feel it is wrong, and or does she feel it is wrong. It has to be discussed between the both of you in a calm and reasonable manner.
2006-12-09 02:38:58 · answer #9 · answered by Spirit_Rain_3-SunShineAries 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! That's cheating. Now if it's something that you 2 do together that's a different story. But, how would she feel if you brought someone home just for your self?
2006-12-09 03:21:40 · answer #10 · answered by Just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋