Two days before thanksgiving I called this man that I was intrested in and we started seeing each other, I felt that we connected in a very special way and he even commented on how rare it is for two people to connect to each other in the way that we did. I had just ended a 11 year relationship with a man whom for the past 8 years was more of a friend and roomate than lover. If we had sex once a year I considered myself lucky. He would never explain to me why he did not want sex. I was very happy and felt whole once again in my life. My former live in found out about it and verbally attacked each of us, myself and the new man I connected with. The former and the new man knew each other. I question how well since the new man knew my former live in by his nickname but did not know his real name until just last Saturday. I am really upset with the situation and the new man no longer wants to see me. I miss him a bunch. I thought for sure he was the one for me. What can I do to get us back
2006-12-09 02:27:32 · 3 answers · asked by barbara o 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would move on and find someone else and leave that situation altogether! You have to look for the man for you and he isn't it !
2006-12-09 02:58:55 · answer #1 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe if you completely let go of the other man....
it might work for you. then-again...it could be the
one man wants and connects to the one he thinks
he can't have...need to think more on this one before
you make up your mind.
2006-12-09 02:32:32 · answer #2 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient if it was real than he will be back...Men don't like a whole lot of drama...
2006-12-09 02:30:50 · answer #3 · answered by Mechelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋