i had a great night with him my new partner, we made love i havent had it for seven years and it was great, he said to me why me, i did not know knwo whta to say to this. i do worry though because i have had abusive relationships in the past, worry hes going to change. I want to be rreated as an equal and he to really love and respect me. i want to protect myself.
2006-12-09 02:24:56 · 14 answers · asked by denise g 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont jugde him the same as your ex. or else he will start acting like him
2006-12-09 02:26:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and answer his question. He asked "Why me?" tell him it's because you believe he treats you as an equal and respects you. Talk. Talk to this man A LOT. The best thing to do at this point is to get to know him. Talk to him a lot - and go forth with a positive but open mind. See the good in him - trust it. Also - don't be WORRIED - just be AWARE. It's important to stay aware of what he's saying and doing and how it is making you feel. If you start to feel like less than his equal - or disrespected - and it's not just one incident - get out. That's how you protect yourself. You cannot control anything this man does. All you can control is yourself. That is how you protect yourself.
I hope he's a wonderful man who loves and respects you! Good luck!
2006-12-09 10:34:50 · answer #2 · answered by liddabet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you want to know? I you have to carry on with him? If you can trust him? Well, I know from experience that trusting people us hard when you have been seriously hurt before. But really: it is worth it. I am in the most fabulous relationship right now, and this would not have happened if I didnt give him a chance. So, give it a go!
2006-12-09 10:28:34 · answer #3 · answered by MM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him because he was special to be the one after 7 years
2006-12-10 12:55:45 · answer #4 · answered by herosam2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait to be treated as your ex did maybe you've found a good bloke this time go with the flow and enjoy it good luck xx
2006-12-09 10:35:03 · answer #5 · answered by doozer_princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be funny about the answer, just tell him that you was horney and he was the closest one to you. Laughter is often the best remedy. ;-)
2006-12-09 10:27:36 · answer #6 · answered by blackpus88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not easy but you cant let the past ruin your fututre say to him you need to ask just because
2006-12-09 10:50:56 · answer #7 · answered by rabbit18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think because you waited with him, he will feel special and will appreciated that you waited.
I hope this works out for you. You deserve to be treated wonderfully!
:)
2006-12-09 10:27:43 · answer #8 · answered by Kels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm struggling to extrapolate a question here ... ?
2006-12-09 10:27:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him from ur heart how u feel about him
2006-12-09 10:28:00 · answer #10 · answered by a m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋