Some men who are in perfectly happy, so they say, relationships spend hours looking at porn on the Internet. Is it just a man thing or do these men actually wish they were living a life with one of those females who don't mind if the whole world sees their ASSets. Answers from men would be appreciated or women who have solved this problem in their own lives.
2006-12-09 02:38:26 · 21 answers · asked by A B 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well im a married woman i have been married for 18 years and i think that men look at porn because its in their nature and also because they like loking at a women have sex with a men. its a turn on for them to lokk at that on tv or the computer. What you need to do is when he started looking at porn take your clothes off and start playing with yourself and being very naughty at the same time. he will take notice and pay more attenion to you. It works for me.
2006-12-09 03:04:37 · answer #1 · answered by Raynette S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-20 08:41:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, it is stereotyping to say that just men look at Porn; It stimulates the brain chemically. Men and women can be addicted to it. The pull can be alarming. The images, as many of you know who are reading this, are not erasable. Having a truly intimate relationship (physically and emotionally) with another does not include porn. Porn creates emotional distance and is the enemy of physical intimacy. Some people cannot make love to their spouse exclusively because the images burned into their brain are there during arousal. Sex would be healthier in our society not to mention more satisfying if porn was not so prevalent.
I take the subject seriosly,(can you tell) as I have known too many that have been hurt or hindered in their relationships because of Porn. I do, however, very much appriciate Doc's light hearted answer.
2006-12-09 03:20:37 · answer #3 · answered by Threeicys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Questions you should ask yourself: Why does it bother you that he spends time looking at porn? Do you come on to him? Flirt with him? Try to get him aroused? Have you lost interest in sex? In general or with your husband? Do you wanna have sex with him? I think most men look at porn online. Married or not. I believe you were wrong in telling him he is addicted to it. Try making suggestions. Try new things in bed. I hope this doesn't sound cold-hearted, I apologize if it does, but I have no other way to say it. Try giving him more sex. Even if you just lay there and touch his back, neck and arms while he does the work. It's good to be that close to your spouse. I don't mean to be rude, but the problem might not be him. You might have a low sex drive due to stress, age, weight, being tired, or other health problems. Men and women may have different sex drives, but 2-3 hours seems to be a bit much. One thing I will give you husband, better him watch porn and jerk himself off than have someone else do it for him. I wanted sex more than my spouse (*4-6 times in a day*), so I went out and found it. Not a good choice on my part. Now, if I wanna "do it" and he doesn't, I go to the bedroom and pleasure myself. Same goes for him. I hope I helped.
2016-05-22 22:49:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men, and women I might add, enjoy the stuff. It's a matter of how outgoing they are. Now, sometimes it's a little perverse. Just depends on how they act about it. Does he like to dress up as a woman? does he talk about children in a way that he shouldn't? think about it.
2006-12-09 02:42:43 · answer #5 · answered by phe_03 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before the Internet there was Hustler and Playboy. Get a skin flick and watch it together. The most special thing is to be able to share all with your spouse. See, back in the days of yore, women were taught that sex was ugly, something done to please our husbands. It is OK to experience things, new things with your husband. I'll; bet ya if you bought yourself a slinky nighty, got creative, and said 'hey baby, come to me", I will bet you he will turn the pc off :). Enjoy what God gave us. It is normal to fantasize, even for us women. Be honest with yourself, if you saw handsome naked man on the net or magazine, will you not look?? :)
2006-12-09 08:20:11 · answer #6 · answered by tootsie38 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because this is a way for men to experience things they cant in there real lives. All there fantasy's come to on-line. It could also mean there not getting enough satisfaction from there woman.
2006-12-09 02:43:25 · answer #7 · answered by snowhawk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is so accessible and anonymous. I do not think men have any idea the hurt this behavior can inflict on their spouse. I solved the problem by putting my computer on the desk in the kitchen.
2006-12-09 02:44:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think if a man is in a relationship and watched porn on his computer, he is cheating on his gf or wife. thats just like going to a strip club and sliding dollars on some naked ladies g-sting. the man is not happy with his relationships status and/or its sexual status and restorts to dirty porn. if you have a man that you are in a relationship with, and he watches porn, tell him to pick you or the porn. watching this stuff is unhealthy for the relationship and if you have kids or planning on the future with kids, it could be very unhealthy with their relationship with their father.
i hope this helps a bit...
2006-12-09 02:51:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's fun, exciting, and different. Would you rather we spend our time cybering with real women? Men are visually oriented.
2006-12-09 02:44:24 · answer #10 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋