Hi all !!! nowads in today's generation girls virginty in danger , if i am?

Question

doing arrange marriage how to find out my arranged wife is virgin ?

Answer 1

my dear friend, plz understaand one thing a marriage works only when there's trust. how does it matter what your wife's been doing before she met you as far as she is loyal to you after marriage.

however coming back to your question, there's a popular mis conception that a woman bleeds during her first inrecourse. it is believed that the heymen (that's a small tissue of skin that covers the enterance of the vagina) breaks and hence the bleeding. however it has been proved that hymen can break even if a woman has no sexual contact (eg: by indulging in sports or any other physical activity) so there's no way that you can proove a woman's virginity untill he herself tells you.

I you still are uncomfertable then answer just one questio of mine. how will you prove that you are a virgin of your wife asks you? if you want her to believe you, then it's better you too believe her.

Answer 2

You're right Lisa. Back in the day it was a real put down to not be able to speak the language properly. Every region had it's twang of course. In the U. K. also there were a lot of different accents. But using proper grammer was very important if one wanted to get ahead in life. So it was drummed in to our young heads from the first day of school until we graduated. I can remember when you could get a slap on the wrist or back of your hand for using the word "ain't." Even the poorest kids wanted to sound sophisticated. Oh, of course we had our slang words, but again that was mostly regional, except for the words that came out of the movies. Taking English Literature was a required subject all the way through school. And spelling bees were a really big deal back then. Orwell, in his book 1984 talked about a time when the society and the government would use "new speak." I think that time has arrived.

Answer 3

Hi,
Even if she is not virgin what is the problem?
You be sincere she will not leave you . After all life is for another 30 to 35 years dear. Out of that only 15 years you may enjoy sex.
love never die. Think in this manner . God will bless you with a virgin girl.

Answer 4

Girls belonging to a decent family (less modern and having their own customs and traditions) and with strict parents is a good option, cause in most cases like this the girls will not compromise their virginity and will never dare to bring the honour of their family in shame.

Answer 5

Ony she or God knows about it. The only way is to ask her. But do you think she will tell she is not. So don't bother about her virginity. Try to be loyal and loving, she will surely reciprocate.

Answer 6

Spend some time with her ask her abt her likes & dislike then if u feel that she's perfect girl for u then make her ur wife....All the best!!!

Answer 7

do you think not a virgin is no match then you think virgins are all sincere. forget it buddy. if she's not a virgin there are chances she has learnt from past mistakes and won't be stupid ever in life again.

Answer 8

r u a virgin if not then dnt expect her to be b a little broadminded there is no way to tel a girl is avirgin unless u ask her

Answer 9

I dont think virginity matters as much as the love you share.

Answer 10

Don't go looking for trouble. Assume she is, behave as if she is, honor her as if she is. Be faithful to her, be close to her, be kind to her and never speak of this again. I knew she wasn't when we married, but I did the same that I'm advising you. We were very happy and when she died, so did a part of me.