2006-12-09 01:31:21 · 23 answers · asked by Chrissy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Make him some meat and potatoes for dinner, get him a beer, and then rub his feet! My man loves that...
2006-12-09 01:34:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Go back to basics, What were those things you used to do when you first met that made him happy? Take a moment and list a few, then try them out again consistently. The other side is those things you know make him unhappy, stop those now never do them again. He will soon see you are sincere and start trying to make you happy again, Good luck !!
2006-12-09 01:41:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good question.But first think if he make you happy too.Then,you need to think about what he like : as food,sex,how you wear,if you are sweet,good listener,good communicator,etc.Marriage is about everything,not only sex.That mean,a relationship in a marriage is about personality,personal behaviour,how you talk (with good words,never bad words).If you have time,you can find some books at the library or something about this subject in the Internet.Good luck.Happiness in the marriage is the key,to have a success marriage.Good question.
2006-12-09 01:56:41 · answer #3 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope you are just asking this question and he hasn't said to you that he is not happy. Sometimes when the husband starts saying he isn't happy; what it means is-he is having an affair.
2006-12-09 12:49:49 · answer #4 · answered by Tgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Invite a girlfriend over that he likes and have a threesome, and
2) Oral sex.... okay, that's my fantasy. But seriously, just you being there should make him happy. If you think he's not happy (probably why you are asking the question), then you need to have a heart to heart with him and ask him about it. Good communication and trust is the basis for every strong relationship. Ask him the same question, and he will tell you.
2006-12-09 01:38:58 · answer #5 · answered by joe d 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You cannot "make' him happy. His feelings are not your responsibility to own.
What you can do is figure out how to make yourself happy. If your happiness in turn makes things better in your relationship, you have succeeded in your goal.
What's more, if he is in some way depending on you for entertainment, care-giving, emotional validation, whatever, this needs to be curtailed if possible. He needs to find for himself what brings him joy, and what it takes to do this for himself.
In the end, if you both are more self-actualized and self-sustaining, your relationship will be stronger, healthier, and long lasting. If not, you may continue to spiral into co-dependency
2006-12-09 01:40:34 · answer #6 · answered by john k 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. Do what you did initially. Dress nice - always. Smile, be gentle. Be kind. If all that is happening & he's still unhappy, you have to ask him what's going on with him.. it may be work's getting him down, or it may be that there is a genuine problem in his life and he's afraid to tell you. Staying gentle and kind will give him the confidence to express himself. Take it from there.
2006-12-09 01:34:39 · answer #7 · answered by Sugar 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry I agree with kitkat. You can't MAKE him happy he has to be happy with himself to live a truly happy life.
2006-12-09 01:37:28 · answer #8 · answered by DEBBY'S BABY 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about the first time the 2 of you met, and what would happen if one of you would die. People usually don't appreciate what they have.
2006-12-09 04:44:56 · answer #9 · answered by kayef57 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not your job to make anyone happy. stop trying to be a control freak. if you want him to be happy....you be happy! it starts with you!
2006-12-09 02:01:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't, only he can do that. You can show love and make his life with you pleasant but he is responsible for his own happiness.
2006-12-09 01:33:54 · answer #11 · answered by kitkat 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋