Family & Relationships - 6 December 2006

I'm married to a wonderful man, he is caring and supportive, I love him and he loves me but in the last time I've been chatting with my first love, he is also married and with 4 baby girls. I was really in love with him, actually I waited years for him and 2 weeks ago (after 17 years) he confessed that all these years he has been in love with me and he still is, but never proposed because he didn't want to be between our dads' friendship. I am not going to leave my husband, he will not leave his wife and girls neither. We live now very far away from each other (he in America, I in Holland) but he has proposed that when I go to visit my family we can have an affair.
I like this guy a lot, he is really hot, but in the other side I love my husband and I am not going to play with my marriage.
Since he confessed that I day dream with him ... one part of me wants to have that affair but the other one says no. I have not told my husband and I will not do, but I feel guilty.

2006-12-06 22:23:36 · 18 answers · asked by anneke 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i got this boyfrined, im 16 and hes 17.5, ive never kissed a guy before and i no hes experienced, weve been datin for a month so now wat? i no hes gunna kiss me soon wat do i do? i wanna kiss him just down know how.

2006-12-06 22:22:47 · 14 answers · asked by :ME: 2 in Singles & Dating

my bestfriend is a playboy.
He has a girlfriend whom hes been with for almost three years but he continues on courting other women.
There is this one girl that i like so much , he knows i like her so much
but i heard he's courting her also.
what should i do?
i am so disappointed a.im working with him every single day, how can i not show my fustration.Or should i
get even with him?

2006-12-06 22:21:15 · 17 answers · asked by chase 1 in Friends

Would you ever consider become a prostitude??? an what do you consider NEEDing as??? I mean you would consider becoming a prostitude because you needed money for.........

Next for the men, do you think that if you found out the person you fancied HAD (not is) been a prostitude would that put you of them. No silly answers
love M -x-

2006-12-06 22:20:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You wanted to reunite with your ex-girlfriend and you have a chance to have a dinner date with her but she doesn't know you want to reunite again. What would you do to make an impact or to send a message or to simply let her know you want her back?

2006-12-06 22:18:57 · 13 answers · asked by imb 1 in Singles & Dating

bleed! Do i look like a vampire now?
any opinions

2006-12-06 22:18:54 · 8 answers · asked by Robert P 1 in Friends

who i am very fond of but i need to take the next step but am afraid she will be disserpointed i have problems due to childhood trauma and it is affecting my relationship im 39 and should be able to deal with this but i cant what advice do you have for me

2006-12-06 22:18:39 · 15 answers · asked by Ricky S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband passed away in 2004 and one of his good freinds is trying to start a relationship with me. What should I do?

2006-12-06 22:16:57 · 8 answers · asked by Nana 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Was in long distance for 3.5 yrs and I kissed another guy because I was confused. It was just one kiss and months later I broke up with my BF and had a 5 month relationship. Got back with him and went through same confusion again. I love him but he's been so angry lately and we were on a break and I made out with another guy but its not cheating in my mind as we were broken up! He found out and got so angry that he threatned to kill me, I know he said all that cuz he was angry but should he be that angry? I didnt cheat it was just a kiss! I have now known him for 6 years now on and off...we are broken up this time for sure but just want to know if his reaction was valid at all! Comments?

2006-12-06 22:14:34 · 26 answers · asked by Curious George 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

They love challenges, they love to be teased and they love mixed signals. Right or wrong. You women like it when the man isn't interested.

2006-12-06 22:14:07 · 15 answers · asked by BRN305 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 22:13:48 · 8 answers · asked by s p 2 in Friends

well we are friends, she has a someone in her life. Although i like her but i don't want to distroy her life so i am trying to be just friend, but i lately i have noticed her feeling for and she confessed me, and she says she can't help it.

2006-12-06 22:13:42 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am pregnant and i cant get my head around sex i feel really uptight and uncomfortable about doing it i love my partner and we still cuddle and kiss but i just cant have sex i am really scared it will hurt and i cant relax into it help.

2006-12-06 22:13:29 · 4 answers · asked by rachrara 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My girls and I can't figure out what to get our guys this christmas! We don't want to get them cologne! But could you please give us some ideas! Thankyou!

2006-12-06 22:12:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 22:11:19 · 22 answers · asked by mdzfia 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I worked in one county and dated a girl there for almost two years. I was very happy with her and most of the time I thought I loved her. We spent wonderful time together. My project was over and I had to go to other mission in other country. My girlfriend loved me very much and she wanted to leave everything and come with me. But I did not feel ready to marry her or to take her everywhere I would go, I did not want to take this responsibility and I am not sure whether I really loved her. The fact that I didn't want to marry her, I accepted as an indicator that I did not love her. So I broke up with her and we both felt very bad. I wanted to keep in touch with her as a friend, but she told me that she wants to forget me and asked me to stop any contact. It is very painful, because she was very close to me. What do you think I broke up with her because it is not true love or just because of my fears of responsibility? (I believe that if I really loved I would not hesitate).

2006-12-06 22:11:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what makes one in particular stand out?

2006-12-06 22:10:50 · 10 answers · asked by solaralley 2 in Singles & Dating

As my screen name defines me, I thought I would ask a question based upon my observations of other questions on here like; "Where are all the real men?" etc.... So.
My perceptions of a gentleman are as follows:
A man who considers the thoughts and others before those of himself and treats people and especially those closest to him in a manner that they would wish to be treated.

What are your perceptions of a 'Gentleman'

2006-12-06 22:08:33 · 22 answers · asked by Boring Old Fart 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

A woman will get into a serious relationship with a man she is sleeping with, but isn't as likely to sleep with a man (fast) who's trying to get her to fall in love...

2006-12-06 22:06:41 · 12 answers · asked by BRN305 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 22:06:39 · 12 answers · asked by sandeep s 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 22:04:03 · 32 answers · asked by Nana 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 22:03:11 · 11 answers · asked by deepaklbhatia 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I’ve known my best mate in Singapore for four years, and she recently immigrated to Italy two months ago. Italy has most of the wonderful stuffs over there. It seems like she’s able to get what she wants. And Christmas is coming, I seriously have no idea what can I buy in Singapore and send it to her.

2006-12-06 22:03:10 · 2 answers · asked by Sam 2 in Friends

I got pregnant 3 months after dating my bf, we are stationed in germany(ARMY), he said he wanted the baby and that we could make it as a family. He got out the army and went back America now he has been gone 10 months, he keeps saying he will be back this month but somehow he always has other excuses, he has not even seen his son, i know he is down about it and i also know that he has debt that why he cant afford the ticket, but how do i know when its time to just give him up.

2006-12-06 22:02:25 · 14 answers · asked by dchica85 2 in Family

i have a 15 year old cousin and i have not long known him because of family problems. I have found out that he fancys me even tho he knows hes my cousin

2006-12-06 22:02:20 · 10 answers · asked by Laura lvz david 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-06 22:01:18 · 4 answers · asked by manju 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 22:01:07 · 23 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 21:59:24 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I ll be going clubbing with my girlfriend first time this weekend. only problem is that she is bound to get lots of attention from guys around and she told me straight up about it. i am the one who is usually sitting and drinking. so how do i deal with all the guys who try to get along with her? i dont want to look insecure.

2006-12-06 21:58:04 · 3 answers · asked by AshNZ 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 21:57:31 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating