My husband passed away in 2004 and one of his good freinds is trying to start a relationship with me. What should I do?
2006-12-06 22:16:57 · 8 answers · asked by Nana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you would like to date him that go ahead if you are ready to move on. good luck and sorry for your loss.
2006-12-06 22:24:48 · answer #1 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband is gone, dead. Iam sorry for your loss. However, their would be nothing wrong with this type of relationship, I would assume that the two of you are friends, have been since the relationship with your husband. It really all depends on how you feel about him, you know him I would think quite well. If you are attracted to him. There is nothing wrong with this, he is already a friend and your husband is gone. He is dead, it is not as though you are cheating on him. And I would not think since your husband is gone he would want for you to be in pain and grieving him the rest of your life. What matters is how do you feel about it. No one elses ideas or opinions really matter. If you think you could be happy with this man and he is single, go for it. You did not die, your husband did, you still have a life to live. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-07 06:22:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's start with asking a question to answer a question...What kind of relationship? Just sexual? A caring relationship?
If you know him well enough then he may just want to "bed" you...to experience what your late husband slept with.
If he was truly a good friend to your husband, perhaps, maybe he wants to continue with having something from your husband in his life.
Do what you think you should do...if you care for him, you might try it. Follow what your heart tells you to do.
You can actually only be the one to answer your own question.
2006-12-07 06:58:47 · answer #3 · answered by Magicman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I stick to my original answer.
Has this guy been there for you the whole time?? Are you even ready to move on?? Would your husband want you to find happiness in his absence?? Would this guy make you happy?? If the answer to all of these questions is yes, then I say go for it. If you are scared, it is okay. Take it slow, and in the end you will know the right decision to make. Good luck Darlin'.
2006-12-07 06:21:01 · answer #4 · answered by mizbehavingirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're interested in him, then there's nothing wrong with pursuing a relationship. Enough time has passed, and I'm sure that your husband would want you to be happy. Good luck!
2006-12-07 07:27:51 · answer #5 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you do is totally up to you. If you are interested in this man show it.
2006-12-07 08:35:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it if you feel comfortable with it
2006-12-07 06:19:45 · answer #7 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does your heart tell you
2006-12-07 06:19:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋