You wanted to reunite with your ex-girlfriend and you have a chance to have a dinner date with her but she doesn't know you want to reunite again. What would you do to make an impact or to send a message or to simply let her know you want her back?
2006-12-06 22:18:57 · 13 answers · asked by imb 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her. If she feels the same way, she'll appreciate it and all will be well. Or if you are a little afraid, maybe you could subtly ask little little leading questions just to find out if she wants someone in her life and is not dating anyone special. If this coast is clear - then please ask for a second inning. For all you know, both of you must have realised that the break-up was unwarranted and that you belong to each other. Go for it !
2006-12-06 22:26:52 · answer #1 · answered by aurora 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother...you can never go home again. You just remind yourself of why she's an ex, enjoy the fond memories of the fun and good times you had together and maybe share a friendly phone call, but DO NOT try and go back. You'll just rekindle the bad things and leave another sour memory for you both to forget...
2006-12-06 22:24:59 · answer #2 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am definite she will. Simply do not preserve out on the "making it respectable", she could need more time after her ex, however there is a excellent threat you're only a rebound and she'll leave you when she finds anyone else.
2016-08-10 00:35:19 · answer #3 · answered by nikkel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was your ex and you dumped me. I certainly would not have you back.
If she dumped you, why would you want her back.
Just be friends. Don't say anything to her, you will know whether she feels the same way after a few dinners together, then it will just be case of 'stating the obvious'.
2006-12-06 22:47:28 · answer #4 · answered by Just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say is there any chance of us getting back together? Make sure you ask this before you go on a dinner date, it might save you some money
2006-12-06 22:21:54 · answer #5 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be frank. Relationship is about trust. Advise her that you would like to start a fresh relationship with her and ask if she'll give you a chance.
2006-12-06 22:21:58 · answer #6 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the imortal words of Damone in Fast Times at Ridgemont High "you have to act like you dont care if she goes stays lays or prays" Indifference is a powerful tool.
2006-12-06 22:24:33 · answer #7 · answered by crawler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. I would never date a girl that dumped me, I have to much dignity for that nonsense. But if I was the one who broke it off and realized I made a mistake, I would just honestly tell her I screwed up and beg for to come back and cook for me again.
2006-12-06 22:27:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just play it by ear. You don't want to rush those things. Take it slow, you can get he gifts like flowers, card or chocolate but you don't wanna seem desperate. Be casual and see hoe thing work themselves out.
2006-12-06 22:23:27 · answer #9 · answered by DLB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As they say it takes 2 to make any relationship work ,2 are involved when it breaks down just because you want to re-ignite the relationship does not mean the other person wants to too.
2006-12-06 22:25:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋