my bestfriend is a playboy.
He has a girlfriend whom hes been with for almost three years but he continues on courting other women.
There is this one girl that i like so much , he knows i like her so much
but i heard he's courting her also.
what should i do?
i am so disappointed a.im working with him every single day, how can i not show my fustration.Or should i
get even with him?
2006-12-06 22:21:15 · 17 answers · asked by chase 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She's obviously not your girl yet. Ignore him. Stake your claim...talk to her!
2006-12-06 22:24:29 · answer #1 · answered by wittmasterjay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He really isnt your best friend if he is goin to go behind your back and court someone that he knows you like. Talk to him about it and tell him that he already has a gf leave the other fishes in the sea for people who dont have any. And dont waste you time getting even with him cause what goes around comes right back around. And talk to the girl and tell her how you feel about her before he takes her away.
2006-12-07 00:07:38 · answer #2 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girl is fair game, from what you've said it doesn't seem like you're making enough (if any) effort in courting her. So it's really silly for you to be upset at someone trying to claim something you don't even have. If you want the girl, go for it. The whole idea of courtship is a game of sorts, you need to start playing it.
But in any case, this friend of yours isn't much of one if he had such disregard for your feelings. I'd distance myself from him.
2006-12-06 22:25:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this girl really your girl or you just like her? If she is really your girl, tell your friend to back out and let him know how you feel. Dont just sit for some one to take your girl she might be the only one for you. Good luck
2006-12-06 22:24:58 · answer #4 · answered by Queeny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is there to get even over??? Does he know you like her? have you approached him? At this point honestly there is no harm no foul UNLESS you have already approached him on your interest. If you have then he IS NOT a true friend, and if you haven't...well all I can say is sorry
2006-12-06 22:24:30 · answer #5 · answered by Stuck in MA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont get worried about your friend. Let him do what he wants. But you get worried about your girl friend whom he is trying. Find out from her how her attitude is towards you whether she is sincere to you and serious about you. your friend cannot do anything with her. So stop worrying and give time to your girl friend and try not to be suspicious but be shrewd.
2006-12-06 22:27:02 · answer #6 · answered by Kumari V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her first! do not get even. tell him instantly on that he needs to take his tender-communicate elsewhere because she's YOURS. and its organic to tutor frustration. do not enable it conceal. he needs to carry close that he's being a finished loser and also you aren't from now on satisfied about it. if he asks you what's incorrect, it really is even extra perfect.
2016-11-24 20:39:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you mean by getting "even" if its something illegal I wouldn't do it. Anything else is fair game, such as seducing his girlfriend.
2006-12-06 22:23:33 · answer #8 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the woman in question how you feel about her, before she takes your friend on.
2006-12-06 22:23:43 · answer #9 · answered by Feeling new @ 42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must courting to her sister or girlfriend.
Be brave and do as I tell
2006-12-06 23:42:44 · answer #10 · answered by nimmy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋