Family & Relationships - 27 November 2006

My husband just got his new job 6 months ago in Singapore and automatically we moved there. His job requires him to go on business trip a lot. Recently I caught a rare activity on our creditcard bills. Being a computer literate, I browsed and searched the brands and names listed on the statements. There were names shown a lot on the statements and when I searched for it on the computer it turned out to be a live chat with adult cam, it was like some sort of porno services. When I asked him about it, he admitted to it. I was so upset about it, but it wasn't the porn watching I was upset about. A long time ago, he once told me that a married guy who was looking for any sort of porn on the net was not happy with his marriage. My concerned about it was with what he said and what he had done when I was not around and thought to myself that he wasn't happy with me. He said he was trully sorry for disappointing me and he said he still loves me so very much. Is that ok?

2006-11-27 14:29:41 · 9 answers · asked by dimaharani 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just got married , i just wanted to know why do some men cheat? i don't ever want to be cheated on. I think that men cheat because they aren't getting their needs? is this right i want to be the perfect wife and i don't ever want to be cheated on .can someone please help me be the perfect wife and tell me how i can make sure that my husband will never cheat!

2006-11-27 14:29:32 · 13 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-27 14:29:21 · 8 answers · asked by blazianmixedcutie 2 in Singles & Dating

See, now i have a dark personality but could my thought for the future affect my love life(i want to be an Assassin)?

2006-11-27 14:29:14 · 18 answers · asked by Marty C(stalker of fear) 1 in Singles & Dating

They drink like every weekend now that they are in high school... There only 14-16 I dont think they should be getting drunk like every weekend what do you think?

2006-11-27 14:28:30 · 8 answers · asked by Megerzzzs 1 in Friends

well i was with this one guy but whille being together he got locked up... now there's this guy at school who's been after me for a pretty long time...i like him and all but i just don't know what i should do...?

2006-11-27 14:28:07 · 8 answers · asked by prettyface203 1 in Singles & Dating

my bf and i had sex for the first time, but he seems interested in this other girl....but he's staying, is he using me, how long do you think we'll last???is he just staying for the excitement of sex??

2006-11-27 14:28:03 · 22 answers · asked by Hootersbabe 1 in Singles & Dating

well my sis hates the guy im dating. wat should i do? she doesnt see him like i do, all shes judging is what she saw from him out side. its like every one else sees all his faults, but i dont even notice until they tell me. although im like that with everyone, lol. (unless its like really "in ur face") but i duno wat to do, i like this guy but i dont wanna hav an angry sis on my hands all the time. wat should i do?

2006-11-27 14:27:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

please answer this question, because i do not understand something..why do love hurt, but yet make you smile? why are women so attracted to a few at a time, but when the decison comes down, we have to make the right choice who to choose but then why is it so hard for some men to be faithful to us women, is the choice that hard, if you really love that person? again why is love so hard to define.i do know love is very beautiful, but then why can't all people from all walks of life be happy?

2006-11-27 14:27:26 · 3 answers · asked by babytfromla 2 in Singles & Dating

I used to pretend to propose to my fiance. When I actually did it; she kept telling me to do something "special on sweetest day". I had no idea. I broke my bank and borrowed 90 bucks from my grandmother to finish off the layaway, then told her that I want to go for a walk in the park. I then told her that I wanted to pretend to propose to her 3 times. The first two times i wanted her to say no, then the 3rd time I want her to say yes. So the first 2 times she said no and blew me off. however, the third time, instead of simply getting on my knee and asking, I wanted to pickup a leaf and pretend that it was a ring. so I grabbed one, and secretly wrapped up the ring inside it. I then got on my knee and "pretended" to propose to her with the leaf. I slipped the leaf on her finger as I said "will you marry me"; then i pulled the leaf back reveling the ring. http://www.sears.com/sr/javasr/product.do?cat=Bridal&pid=04420421000&vertical=JEWL&subcat=Anniversary+Bands&BV_UseBVCookie=Yes

2006-11-27 14:26:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Hello all. There is this woman i really really like. She has gotten under my skin like no one before. We dont meet together but i meet her regularly through work. I asked her out for a drink last week. She said she would like to go but that she was really busy with thanksgiving etc and to call her in a few weeks. She passed me her business card with cell phone written on the back. I am thinking of asking her out tomorrow. This is one week after i asked her out - hopefull she doesnt think im pestering her. Im woried that im wasting my time anyway - if she was really interested she would have accepted my invitation last week. Like i said im really into her - it will hurt if she turns me down. Any thoughts/advice would be welcome.

2006-11-27 14:26:54 · 21 answers · asked by Pa J 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm already sick, but well enough to go to school.
I need to finish an english project thats due tomorrow so I don't want to go.
Any idea how to fake sick?

2006-11-27 14:26:36 · 18 answers · asked by DisneyLover 6 in Family

My wife left me for another man after 6 years of Marriage. (Together for 8 since High School). She started seeing him in May when she decided we were separated and still living together. I moved out in July. She has since "broke-up" with him and wants our family back together. We have 2 kids that are 4 and 7. We both love each other very much but she is afraid of being in a relationship with me because she still has feelings for this other man. She doesn't feel like she's going to be faithful and that she'll "push me away" even though she wont go back to him. To make things worse she works with him and sees him everyday. We've discussed counseling but she says she can't talk about me to my face. Her intimacy comes and goes from day to day. She is also dealing with the death of her grandmother last year who was like a second mother to her (her grandmother lived with her all her life and helped raise her). She wants me but is afraid to get close to me...

2006-11-27 14:26:26 · 9 answers · asked by Matthew M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A 16yr old varsity gymnast that surfs and races cars?? Also, what would you do if your best friend hit ur g/f becuz he lost to her in a race??? My b/f wouldn't let me fight back, instead took over. Why do guys feel they have to protect girls?? I sooooooooo wanted to fight back. Does that make me firery?? What exactly does firery mean??

2006-11-27 14:26:16 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love someone but i am not sure that they love me but i think that they might what should i do. Should i ask her on a date? Or should i wait to see how things are going?

2006-11-27 14:25:44 · 16 answers · asked by matt f 1 in Singles & Dating

I know a guy that says it hurts when they put it in a girl whe they r tight is ti true

2006-11-27 14:25:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Tommorow my husband will be out of town for most of the day and now that my friend Jessica as living with me, I am able to finish cleaning the house and other household chores very quickly. My grandfather gave me a movie this past weekend called "march of the penguins". It looks so cute!! Its a movie about penguins and I just love animals. Unfortunately, my dad took back the baby sheep that were staying in our back yard and my grandfather took his german sheperd home with him so I don't have any animals to play with, but I think this movie will be a good substitute :) Unfortunately, my husband only allows me to turn on the tv and says that I cannot touch any of his other electronics. :( He is worried I will mess them up but when my cousin was down he showed me how to play a dvd and I just know I could wouldn't mess anything up if my husband would let me. Ladies, in the past was there anything you did to convince your husband to let you use the electronics? Maybe make a nice meal

2006-11-27 14:25:04 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a widow and I married a wonderful man (also a widower) . This will be our first Christmas together. We have opted to celebrate Christmas on Christmas day this year with any of our 7 children that will be able to join us. One of my stepsons is married to a woman that has caused my husband and I grief ever since we married. She has treated us awful and has been very bold in letting us know that she did not approve of her father-in-law marrying again. She is insisting that they come over and celebrate Christmas with us a week before Christmas so that they can spend quality time with my husband without any of the other kids around. They have been to visit one other time the past 10 months. I explained that we were extremely busy that weekend and still received an email from her stating they would be here. Am I wrong in replying that I am sorry they can not make Christmas, but the weekend before is not an option. Should I be expected to accommodate each family individually?

2006-11-27 14:25:04 · 12 answers · asked by Stressed stepmom 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

well i am recently married and i have no idea what to get a mother-in-law for christmas. any suggestions?

2006-11-27 14:24:57 · 8 answers · asked by melanie 1 in Family

eight months ago, I got out of an 30 year abusive relationship. I am starting to date, and I need everyone's help. How do I know when to believe someone when they say they are in love with me...what are the signs to look for when they are lying to me???? I have been out of this dating thing way too long and I am so scared.

2006-11-27 14:24:48 · 20 answers · asked by kb 4 in Singles & Dating

My BF and I stay far away.. Its a long distance relation.. but things are not working out as he doesnt trust me.. He thinks I am a flirt and goes around with guys.. which is not true!!

We have never had sex..and he is desperate to have sex with me as he loves my body.. so he told that he will come to me for one month, have sex, and then break up.. I too would love to have sex.. but should i have sex with a worthless person like him & loose my virginity??

2006-11-27 14:24:20 · 10 answers · asked by dina_6656 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been using Crystal Meth for about 8 months now, I can't stop using, and my brother drinks a lot. What can I do?

2006-11-27 14:24:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Our wedding is in June and we are having 2 flower girls and 2 ring bearers. We don't want the boys to be carrying the rings. What could we have them carry besides a pillow if they aren't carrying the rings? My fiance thought of a pail filled with cars to play with but I'm not sure about this. Any suggestions would be great! We are having an outdoor ceremony and it's fairly traditional. No themes, our colours are blues and pinks.

2006-11-27 14:23:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

me and my friend both like the same guy but she doesn't know i like him. My friend likes him for the normal reasons,cute and funny.
I like him for a ton of different reasons. he doesnt know shes alve i caught him staring at me all the time.Help???????

2006-11-27 14:23:27 · 11 answers · asked by Kayla b 1 in Singles & Dating

If you were out with your friends, male or female and you saw your boyfriend or girlfriend holding hands with another girl/guy, what would you do? would you go crazy and tell him or her off? would you run crying in the other direction, or would you ever come to blows with him or her if you are a girl or him if you are a guy? would you break up on the spot or wait till you calmed down to make a sound decision?

2006-11-27 14:23:06 · 6 answers · asked by MiaDiva28 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a best friend in school, who's female. She's not my girlfriend. I haven't seen her in a while because she had classes far away from mine, but she transferred to a class recently near one of mines. I want to go hang out with her somewhere, but I don't want to take her anywhere that'll seem "date-like". Where can we go to have fun that wouldn't seem like a date?

2006-11-27 14:22:51 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If you were out with your friends, male or female and you saw your boyfriend or girlfriend holding hands with another girl/guy, what would you do? would you go crazy and tell him or her off? would you run crying in the other direction, or would you ever come to blows with him or her if you are a girl or him if you are a guy? would you break up on the spot or wait till you calmed down to make a sound decision?

2006-11-27 14:22:21 · 4 answers · asked by MiaDiva28 6 in Singles & Dating

ladies! or guys..ive been with my man for almost 4 years. do you think thats a long time to date? my friend was with her man for 7 years before marrying...i feel like we wont get engaged for along *** time but, why do we wait so long?? i know money issues but...thoughts??

2006-11-27 14:22:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok Ive been in a relationship with a person i was 100% attracted.Our signs are both compatible, but for some reason we werent always fighting. we were together for 2 1/2 years..the best thing about our relationship was the sex. Now im in this new relationship and its prefect...hmmm almost too perfect and well the bedroom action is ok but not the same...What do i do?

2006-11-27 14:21:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm looking for a ring. im planning on proposing on our 2 yr anniversary which is on march 25, 2007. i love her so much & and positive that she is the only one i want to be with for the rest of my life. i've been looking for the right ring for a while, but only a few are popping out. i was just looking for some opinions. send me links or pics or anything. thanks :)

2006-11-27 14:21:13 · 17 answers · asked by Kay 2 in Marriage & Divorce