me and my friend both like the same guy but she doesn't know i like him. My friend likes him for the normal reasons,cute and funny.
I like him for a ton of different reasons. he doesnt know shes alve i caught him staring at me all the time.Help???????
2006-11-27 14:23:27 · 11 answers · asked by Kayla b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hhmm.. know what? that's also happening to me right now.. well.. not really that same sitch.. but it's similar.. i dont really like the guy at first... but my feelings just developed since my classmates teases me to him.. we talk alot.. the guy doesnt like my freind coz she's too much of a handfull(as in)... and the guy told me that he really doesnt like her.. well... all i can say is if the guys likes you.. and he doesnt like your friend.. then just let her be.. if she would hate you for that tell her that it's not your fault... you're just being true..
2006-11-27 14:31:55 · answer #1 · answered by FiLipina Lass^^ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about what is more important to you. If you value your friendship you wouldn't go out with him. If he asks you out don't tell him it's because your friend likes him (unless she is OK with him knowing).
If your friendship with this girl is more of an associate type thing (you only speak to her during school) then I would go for it. But if that is what you decide to do, let your friend know ahead of time so she doesn't feel as though you went behind her back.
Remember friends usually last a lifetime, whereas boys come and go
2006-11-27 22:30:09 · answer #2 · answered by queenzhottie78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, don't loose your friendship, just talk to your friend about it, see what she thinks, if you like him don't let your friend get in the way but dont loose a friend over a guy.
2006-11-27 22:25:43 · answer #3 · answered by Dillon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should talk it over with your friend so that there are no surprises and find out who would last a longer relationship with him. Like who loves him more towards who he is and not oooooo he's so hott!
2006-11-27 22:27:18 · answer #4 · answered by GuruV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him choose.
But never, ever let a guy get between you and your friend. Talk to her about it and see where she stands on the whole thing.
2006-11-27 22:26:45 · answer #5 · answered by Jayden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he likes you and not your friend and its not your fault he likes you and not your friend so your friend should get over something like that. Press the guy maybe he likes someone.
2006-11-27 22:25:56 · answer #6 · answered by pat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her about things ... not blunt as to lessen the blow. See how things go from there.
2006-11-27 22:31:44 · answer #7 · answered by crazee_gabby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you think it would destroy your friendship to date the guy, don't go there - would she date him if the tables were turned? but if he likes you and isn't in to her, its too bad for her. you can't control who he is attracted too.
2006-11-27 22:26:36 · answer #8 · answered by cami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol tat happened to me and my friend. I told her about it and she understood. i think you should tell your friend because the longer you wait da harder its gonna be.
2006-11-27 22:28:34 · answer #9 · answered by sebin c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you like him and go for it
2006-11-27 22:26:56 · answer #10 · answered by neun_und_sectzig 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋