my bf and i had sex for the first time, but he seems interested in this other girl....but he's staying, is he using me, how long do you think we'll last???is he just staying for the excitement of sex??
2006-11-27 14:28:03 · 22 answers · asked by Hootersbabe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I doubt it'll last long if you already have your doubts. I'm not ragging on you for having sex at 15 (as long as it's safe and you really honestly think you're ready for the consequences if something happens), but not many ppl know what they want at 15. Best wishes and please be careful.
2006-11-27 14:31:46 · answer #1 · answered by Suse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all I won't preach to you about sex at 15 because then I'd be a hypocrite, but it sounds like he is not in love with you, and he is still searching while being with you, he is searching for another girl who he can share "excitement" with, and its not cool that he's doing this to you, and it does seem that he is staying because you are giving him what every young guy loves, and thats sex, try not having sex with him for a while and see how his behavior changes, and then you'll have your answer...hope that helps.
2006-11-27 22:49:18 · answer #2 · answered by narcsenforcelaw 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes he is using you. Now that he got what he wanted from you he is ready to move on. he will linger as long as you still have sex with him but he is no longer into you.
You are too young to be having sex. Guys will use you for it and say anything at all to get it. You need to concentrate on getting your education and stop this before you wind up getting pregnant by some guy who will run a mile when you tell him. Have more respect for yourself. Any guy that really loves you will wait until you are old enough and married.
2006-11-27 22:34:14 · answer #3 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's 15, he's most likely looking. As long as he's getting it from you, I doubt he'll trade you in unless he's reasonable sure he can get it from someone else. If sex is all that's keeping you together, you're better off without him.
On the other hand, if sex isn't important at all, he wouldn't mind holding off for a week... or a month.
Finally, let me tell you to be careful. You probably shouldn't be having sex at 15 at all, but if you are make sure it's safe.
2006-11-27 22:32:27 · answer #4 · answered by Danny Boy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm not going to say u should be having sex because the people who told you that you shouldn't b having sex did it u should live you life why u young...you & ur bf had sex for the 1st time i time he using u 4 the sex but u ask him do he love u or and see what he say if no move on if yes love him back.
good advice here!!!!!!!!
2006-11-27 22:38:49 · answer #5 · answered by Handsome808 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and this is why you need to only have sex when you are in a stable long term relationship. 15 is too young and you both are not mature enough to handle. one. we dont know if he's using you. how long have you been togehter? if he's interested in another girl then leave him b4 he hurts you of uses you even more. sex is a very emotional thing. not a hit it and quit it deal...........but we all dont know what your relationship is like.i hope you are using protection. so we're ot sure if he's staying for the "excitement" he might be....since he is so young...you both are too young
2006-11-27 22:37:48 · answer #6 · answered by laa dee da 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WTF?? you shouldnt be having sex at 15! and the reason for that is well...YOU'RE 15!!!..and Im sorry to say, but at your age theres no way he's goin to stay with you, sorry to burst your little bubble hun, but if he's already interested in another girl, your little romance is goin to be short lived. You should have waited until you were older and in a real relationship where it actually meant something. You just wasted it on someone who is goin to leave you, and yes, he's just staying with you just for the sex. Thats all I have to say to you.
2006-11-27 22:40:23 · answer #7 · answered by gremlin1422 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only 15!!! Sex isn't for immature children. You could do some serious emotional damange to yourself. Guys at that age are always looking for a free ride, he's using you. Find someone who will respect you!
2006-11-27 22:36:49 · answer #8 · answered by Imogen F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the person. not sure for guys (but pretty sure) as with females, there is a "HO" period. thats where u will or want to do it with whomever u wish. even if ur with someone.. u cant keep someone with sex though ..just dont happen. and u never stay with ur first anyways. so if he leaves u, dont harp on it, plz, just go on with life. its not the end of the world
2006-11-27 22:31:32 · answer #9 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, he's staying for the excitement of sex. You don't have to sit there like a bump on a log, you can look to date other guys too, don't forget, you are not married to him.
2006-11-27 22:30:44 · answer #10 · answered by Jagged Edge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋