I have a long time friend, who constantly and intentionally falls "in love" with men who are openly gay, or in the most recent case "privately gay" to other people but not her (he uses her to take home to families). I meet most of these guys who she adores, who are great, smart and fun men, BUT... they dont have an interest in a romantic relationship with her for obvious reasons.
The recent one uses her to take home to his family, as well as uses her for money. He invites his male "Friend" over to stay at her apartment (the two guys live on the other side of the country).
I'm tired of it... do you think she should get counselling? How do I convince her, that the reason she hasn't had a boyfriend, is because she's too scared to date someone who's straight? She's 25 and never been in a relationship. She's really tall, kind of chubby and awkward. How can I help or support her? (without freaking out on her and this abuse).
2006-11-27
14:36:15
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