MY boyfriend is a grade ahead of my but the other guy i like is in most of my classes and is in the same grade as me!! i don't know what to do and i don't know what to tell them. and i really don't want them to be mad at me!! what should i do and what should i tell them?
2006-11-27 14:33:15 · 15 answers · asked by help me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take a moment and think about what YOU really want. If either of them are the "right" guy you'll just know it. I met my soulmate about a year ago and it was just an "aha" moment.
True love is out there - trust me - you'll know it when you see it.
2006-11-27 14:36:33 · answer #1 · answered by ALLaboutDC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you have a boyfriend, you need to leave the other guy alone. It is ok to like him as a friend only. If you want more than friendship, you need to break it off with your boyfriend FIRST. It is only fair. You cannot have both. You wouldn't want your boyfriend to start dating someone else and not at least be honest with you and tell you he wanted to date other people. It will hurt, but it is honest and he will respect you more for it.
2006-11-27 14:38:30 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not mature enough to be having a boyfriend. Cool your jets and what's your hurry. Get your head out of your pants and into your studies is what you need to be doing. You need an education a lot more than you need a boyfriend because you cannot even make up your mind. You are not ready yet.
2006-11-27 14:35:52 · answer #3 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is hell when you go though it trying to please everybody. Stop it! Whichever decision you make, try to be kind to both guys and wait between to give yourself some perspective. And you never know when you will be on the receiving end.
One other thing, try asking your parents. They love you and they want to help no matter what it looks like
2006-11-27 14:47:21 · answer #4 · answered by Goodmomma1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump the older one and stay single. enjoy it while it lasts lol. eventually if u want to go out with the guy in ur grade. but the shift from schools will b hard if ur still dating the older guy.
2006-11-27 14:36:31 · answer #5 · answered by marshall s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your boyfriend that you are not interested and that you think that you should see other people then give the situation a rest and then go out with the guy you like
2006-11-27 14:36:17 · answer #6 · answered by lavenderlovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to be honest, just play them both for now, then when you decide who you like best, then end it with the other person. If you have enough game, then you should be able to pull this off.
2006-11-27 14:36:13 · answer #7 · answered by Jagged Edge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel i had a boyfriend a year younger than me and i liked somebody else but just stay together, trust me
2006-11-27 14:36:07 · answer #8 · answered by The Sun Still Sleeps... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do both of them. Going with one person is old hat. If you enjoy the company of both, then why not enjoy both.
2006-11-27 14:40:45 · answer #9 · answered by Hooch A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay faithful. You shouldn't just backstab your boyfriend.
2006-11-27 14:35:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋