I am very interested in Dom/sub lifestyle but I have come across a huge problem anytime I try to initiate this in a relationship.
The type of submission I am interested in is that of a Gorean pleasure slave (When I say "pleasure" I do not mean sex. A pleasure slave provides pleasure to her Master be it through cooking, cleaning, sex, or just plain being by his side. Only a sex slave is enslaved purely for sexual gratification.) In Gorean lifestyle, a Master is firm and strict, but is never to be cruel and demanding. What this means is that when a Master and his slave have the proper relationship, his commands and her reactions to them come as easily as a man asking a favor of his friend, the only difference being that she is disciplined if she doesn't submit.
2006-11-27
14:34:14
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Shel K
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My problem in the past has been one of three reactions.
The first is this: he thinks it is wrong for anyone to ever assume "ownership" or power over another's life and completely refuses.
Second: He accepts but is far too leniant towards me and for the most part unaccepting of all his duties as Master.
Third: He is far too rough and uses the oppurtunity to a power hungry, often sexual advantage.
So far, I have gotten lucky and with the latter two, they have been in trial periods.
How can I introduce this to some one and help them to understand and treat me the way I would like to be treated?
2006-11-27
14:37:32 ·
update #1
Ok, just to get this across.
In reality, the submissive or "slave" is not ENSLAVED. They willing offer it to their proposed Master/Dominant. I am giving up my freedom willingly, therefore, I am not being abused or mistreated if he accepts.
Please, do not answer this question if you don't have any kind of possitive HELP. I am not here to be told if my actions are appropriate in mainstream society. I am here to get help in making my proposed Dom appreciate me.
2006-11-27
14:47:01 ·
update #2