please answer this question, because i do not understand something..why do love hurt, but yet make you smile? why are women so attracted to a few at a time, but when the decison comes down, we have to make the right choice who to choose but then why is it so hard for some men to be faithful to us women, is the choice that hard, if you really love that person? again why is love so hard to define.i do know love is very beautiful, but then why can't all people from all walks of life be happy?
2006-11-27 14:27:26 · 3 answers · asked by babytfromla 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A very complicated question(s), for a very complicated emotion.
What is love? noone but you can ever truthfully answer this.
Why does love hurt? because when you love someone, you open your heart to all of the emotions, good and bad. You give that persont he power to make you blissfully happy, yet at the same time, tragically sad. By their actions and words.
Why can't people stay faithful? Love is easily confused for Lust. Lust is all of the immediate feelings of love, but with none of the lasting feelings (no respect, desire for commitment, etc)
Why can't everyone be happy? Because we can't. It really isn't that simple. But if you were never tragically unhappy, how would you ever know what true, blissful contemptment feels like?
2006-11-27 14:36:29 · answer #1 · answered by evil_nykki 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As wonderful as love can be, it can also be equally treacherous.
I think it's an old celtic saying that goes "Every moment of pleasure in life is purchased by an equal moment of pain." Love isn't easy. It can be very difficult, but when it works, it's the best.
2006-11-27 14:33:00 · answer #2 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me if anyone could answer all those questions they would be a very rich person. People from all walks should be happy, we just haven't all worked out how to do it yet. If you find out please let me know.
2006-11-27 14:33:09 · answer #3 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋