Family & Relationships - 27 November 2006

i've been debating on different things to do and places to go

2006-11-27 16:27:35 · 5 answers · asked by PJ 2 in Singles & Dating

about 7 years ago i began a pen pal relationship with an idian man and i am an american well about a year after we had been talking he flu over to america to see me we hung out and talked and it was almost 4 years pasted before i heard from him again and this was just last mounth. So we have been talking and i cant seem to get him off my mind he makes me happy but i know in my heart that with him being indian and me being american it wouldnt work or would it what do you think. I mean he is a well know man in indian a lawyer in fact and he has stolen my heart and it hurts because we cant be togeather because we live two diffrent lives and he has totally diffrent belifes then i do. I dont think his parents would like him to be with an american girl could someone in india help me on how people feel about american girls with indian men??? thanks for your time

2006-11-27 16:27:27 · 15 answers · asked by April A 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

All she does is hang out with her friends. She is never alone. Almost everyday she is with them during and after school. If I was to go out with her i would want it to be just us, not them.

2006-11-27 16:26:53 · 8 answers · asked by nitrusluvr3 1 in Singles & Dating

I can bring them to you,
All you have to do is ask.
Have a nice day.

2006-11-27 16:26:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am going out with this 1 guy and he said he didn't want anything 4 christmas and were both in 6th grade and he don't like the colors purple and black!!!!!!!!!!!! HELP PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-27 16:25:41 · 5 answers · asked by Nelly ;) 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have recently taken on my two nephews whom have been in such a bad situation for so many years and now i really have nothing for them...i have a child of my own but she is 9 and most likely nothing of hers will be suitable for them...i don't recieve any kind of assistance for these two boys and they don't ask for much but i am having a hard time getting some things together for them with the holidays arriving soon.....if youi can help i know these boys would be most gracious...thank you for your time

2006-11-27 16:25:27 · 4 answers · asked by mslady28123 1 in Family

How do guys have fun shopping?
i know its a brutal question

but how can i make sure my bf has fun

when i take him shopping!

2006-11-27 16:24:54 · 9 answers · asked by kizsescoco13 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my sister do get along. I am the most honest sbiling to her, and I have her back but if she is wrong I will tell hershe is. She is always there when I need help, but she always want to make me look bad toward my parents and siblings. I will be the first person she disregard in the family, but I will never do that to her. She claims I do not give her respect, but I think maybe my honesty is misunderstood by her. I sick of tired of being treated this way. What should I do? Should I stop being honest to her? I confronted her about this issue and she will not change. Maybe my honesty is looked as being rude. How can I avoid this conflict?

2006-11-27 16:24:48 · 9 answers · asked by Lisa 1 in Family

I am a current sophomore, 19, at a University here in California. I absolutely adore my math professor, 31. He is funny, knowledgeable, and friendly. I periodically attend his office hours and chat with him. He and I have become quite friendly with one another, often emailing each other asking how our weekends have been, sharing a funny video, etc. Although the emails are usually initiated by me, he seems to enjoy getting them. Is it against any policy to date your professor? The class is almost over, and I do not plan on taking anymore classes taught by this professor. I am also wondering how to express my feelings for him. I know he feels an attraction towards me. I do not know what to do... Also
He is not married. I know that for a fact. And he is currently single. I know he is at a different stage in his life right now, but I'm willing to get to know him better, and become friends with him in the least. He does not talk to any other student that I am aware of...

2006-11-27 16:24:01 · 6 answers · asked by GinaValentina 2 in Singles & Dating

I am currently in my 3rd semester of college, maintaining a 3.4 GPA while taking a full class load. I am also working full time. I also have 2 kids, ages 6 and 8. I have primary custody 70/30 and it all seems to be going alright, but everyone keeps telling me I need to lay off school and go part time. Problem is, I would like to graduate before my kids are teenagers. My degree will allow me to finally get a job that will allow me some financial freedom so that I don't have to struggle so hard to stay afloat right now. I am not on welfare. I do get child support. My kids are very happy. I am stressed out, but would be more so if I weren't doing anything to get myself out of my current status (Low skill, low paying job, tiny apartment, stuck). It took me 10 years to finally get here because my ex wouldn't let me go to college, so why would anyone think that I need to stop now? Am I insane? I am happy for myself, what is wrong with going back to school?

2006-11-27 16:23:24 · 21 answers · asked by asleep 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I met one is the most wonderful men about a year ago he was here visiting for business, we bonded and became really close sadly after about seven months of happiness he had to go back home we still kept in touch and talked to each other every now and then and he even helped me out finacially when i needed a loan a while back ago, about a month ago i founded out that i would be having to moved to the city where he lives and i couldn't have been any more excited about it, when i called and told him he told me that he was in a relationship that he hated he said that the only reason him was still in this horrible relationship was because he didn't want to be alone and that he was sorry for not telling me earlier, after being hurt for a long time i forgave him because i can understand about not wanting to be alone in life, he still doen't talk about his girlfriend he told me that his girlfriend knew about me the whole time i would like to know how do i handel this after i move

2006-11-27 16:22:16 · 11 answers · asked by pimpmehard 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

he got me alone for a hour and klissed me im not sure if im turning gay or im bi what should i do

2006-11-27 16:22:07 · 14 answers · asked by ? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok this I told this guy I like him and he gave me his cell phone #. I just talked to him today. He said he cant go to the dance because his mom wants to do christmas shopping. Ok where esle can we go on a first date. BESIDES THE MOVIES!!! We're in jr high and dont know each other so we need to get to know each other on the date too. Where can we go? PWEASE TELL ME!!!! Thanks for all your help!!!!!

2006-11-27 16:21:51 · 1 answers · asked by lauranakf 2 in Singles & Dating

...hating her more

My aunt is being totally unfair.
She insults me right in front of me in another language (thinking I’m too dumb to understand)
She pretends she's innocent and never bad-mouthed me before
She thinks her children are perfect (when they're not)
She assumes she's the smartest
She spreads untrue rumors about me


I can't believe I’m related to her

2006-11-27 16:20:57 · 6 answers · asked by New football fan 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been divorced for a long time and I have a lot of contact with her, I would like to get back into a relationship with her but her own kids dislike her very much and she's get back into dating. I don't know If should go for it or just let it go?

2006-11-27 16:20:25 · 9 answers · asked by nsdq95 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Kissing on the neck?
Closing eyes while getting kissed on the lips?
Suddenly forcing tongue inside your partner's mouth during making out?
Biting?

2006-11-27 16:20:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

they never work for themselves they just always asked help whenever they need one.

2006-11-27 16:19:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a 16 year old guy in high school, and I have confirmed that I'm gay. I have begun coming out, and have told my closest friends and my immediate family. However, I would like to be open with some of my casual friends as well, but don't know how to break the news to them. What would be the best way to tell them that would be the least offensive? (e.g.- How would you prefer to have a friend tell you he/she was gay? One-on-one conversations, emails, hearsay from another, AIM, what?)

Also: if I have a crush on another guy, but don't know if he's gay or straight (assume straight, but only because it's the social norm and everybody HAS to act that way), what is the best way to tell him without causing hard feelings if it turns out he's straight? (e.g.- Guys, if a person you knew told you he had a crush on you, how could he tell you so that you would not feel like you had to break the friendship off?)

PS- I have no intention of acting differently (flaming) to come out. It's not who I am.

2006-11-27 16:19:16 · 9 answers · asked by psychic42 1 in Singles & Dating

I've noticed a trend about the type of men I date: they all have one issue or another. And I'm like a damn social worker, always trying to help them get it together. And after I've gone on an emotional rollercoaster, I always end up dumped. I just got out of a "relationship" where the guy constantly lied and has cheated on me several times. All of this after I helped him get situated in graduate school. (We're both in the same program so I don't know why he needed my help. One of his family members is a dean at our school.)

I don't understand it because I am attractive, intelligent and outgoing, yet I keep attracting men with emotional/mental issues. Why do I keep attracting these kinds of men and how can I stop?

2006-11-27 16:18:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok this I told this guy I like him and he gave me his cell phone #. I just talked to him today. He said he cant go to the dance because his mom wants to do christmas shopping. Ok where esle can we go on a first date. BESIDES THE MOVIES!!! We're in jr high and dont know each other so we need to get to know each other on the date too. Where can we go? PWEASE TELL ME!!!! Thanks for all your help!!!!!

2006-11-27 16:18:20 · 1 answers · asked by lauranakf 2 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy online and we hit it off instantly; talking for hours at his place daily. I started spending the night and having excellent sex with him. He was excited to introduce me to his family, who in which liked me. We hung out like this for about six weeks. The problem was my ex-bf calling me non-stop and even calling and texting this guy. I even went up to visit the ex because I felt bad. The new guy's last relationship of four years ended with him walking in on his friend and gf, so he is afraid of being hurt and thinks I may go back to my ex. And doesn't know what he wants in life. So, over the past 4 weeks, we haven't been hanging out much, but have had sex a few times. I think it may be a booty call, but we hang out first, and cuddle, and kiss, and when we have sex he looks me so deeply in the eyes. And I'll spend the night. So...is this a booty call? Think he still has feelings for me, or should I move on? I really like him, but don't want to get hurt....

2006-11-27 16:18:19 · 31 answers · asked by Krystal H 1 in Singles & Dating

A friend that I really care about has a hard time with our relationship sometimes because she believes that I do things for her but she doesn't do things for me. It makes her feel uncomfortable that she feels she can't reciprocate. For example, today I was going to run something that she needed by her house (it was more or less on my way home) but then she called me and said that it made her feel uncomfortable. I think she thinks she's taking advantage of me, but I care about her and want to do things for her. Besides, she does do things for me, but she just doesn't recognize it.

In my way of thinking, friendship isn't about counting how many favors each person has done for the other and making sure they are equal. I consider it a blessing to me to have opportunities to help her out, and I'm sure that she would do the same for me if I needed it.

How can I help my friend to see this?

2006-11-27 16:18:04 · 3 answers · asked by drshorty 7 in Friends

As in when you're in love as a teenager would you want sex with that person or is that just lust?

2006-11-27 16:17:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if im 14 and i know a guy thats 18 but i turn 15 on april 28 and he turns 19 on May 15 then exactly how much older does that make him?

2006-11-27 16:16:59 · 12 answers · asked by KB 4 in Singles & Dating

I am going to suprise my boyfriend by giving him a kiss, but we haven't been going out for a week or two? I don't if I should do it. Can I get everyone's help? Be nice please.

2006-11-27 16:16:22 · 11 answers · asked by Tempest6768 2 in Singles & Dating

i know its a brutal question

but how can i make sure my bf has fun

when i take him shopping!

2006-11-27 16:16:14 · 3 answers · asked by kizsescoco13 2 in Singles & Dating

From your perspective, where is the most romantic place that you want to be?

2006-11-27 16:16:04 · 18 answers · asked by Infinite 4 in Singles & Dating

Stay with men who dont treat them right? i have seen my friends be in some not real good relationships and when thier BF leaves them they get all upset and says things like " i can not live without him" or " whats wrong with me" I try telling them that there is noting wrong with them and that thier ex bfs where no good for them.

2006-11-27 16:15:05 · 9 answers · asked by carriec 7 in Singles & Dating

which one is better? my prefernece is combine em- with nerd so u get
dnerk!!!
i would be that!! at times only durin stressful times- such as final exams which are on right now for me- so i am a dnerk!!

2006-11-27 16:13:51 · 16 answers · asked by shrimpy 3 in Singles & Dating

When all you want to do is pick up the phone and call him when you know it is not right to call and especially when you know he is going to give you every excuse in the book not come and see you and do things with you; when he is being asked, but when it is on his terms I usually go and do things with him. And I try and do things around the house to keep busy or go out with friends to keep my mind off of him but it doesn't seem to help. But when I go out and he is working he gets pissed off when other guys hit on me?? And we are technically not in a relationship we are trying to get back together after 5 yrs. apart. And I Love him with all my heart.. We split up due to a misunderstanding and it took 5 yrs. for him to understand why?? I feel that this is not going to work out cause we have been apart for so long..

2006-11-27 16:13:33 · 12 answers · asked by Ms. Daisy_Duke 1 in Singles & Dating