I met this guy online and we hit it off instantly; talking for hours at his place daily. I started spending the night and having excellent sex with him. He was excited to introduce me to his family, who in which liked me. We hung out like this for about six weeks. The problem was my ex-bf calling me non-stop and even calling and texting this guy. I even went up to visit the ex because I felt bad. The new guy's last relationship of four years ended with him walking in on his friend and gf, so he is afraid of being hurt and thinks I may go back to my ex. And doesn't know what he wants in life. So, over the past 4 weeks, we haven't been hanging out much, but have had sex a few times. I think it may be a booty call, but we hang out first, and cuddle, and kiss, and when we have sex he looks me so deeply in the eyes. And I'll spend the night. So...is this a booty call? Think he still has feelings for me, or should I move on? I really like him, but don't want to get hurt....
2006-11-27 16:18:19 · 31 answers · asked by Krystal H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
deffinately BOOTy CALL
2006-11-27 16:19:52 · answer #1 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 2⤊ 4⤋
If your looking for a long commitment relationship, an idea would be is, become a friend before a lover. You'll get better resultes out of it. If your only in it for the SEX then yes it most likely a booty call. Take my advice, what's the worst that can happen, if all fails at least you'll have a good friend.
2006-11-27 16:26:30 · answer #2 · answered by Gilly 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Booty call. Sounds like a situation I had going. It went on for about a year until I told him off after meeting the love of my life. Talk with your male friend. If he doesn't want to call you his girlfriend and doesn't want you hanging out except with him, it is most definitely a booty call. Guys don't usually admit when it's just about the late night hanging out and sex. You're a warm body and something to cuddle up next to.
2006-11-27 16:22:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Can you be trusted? This man has been through an emotional ordeal with his past girlfriend and need someone to be there and help him trust again. Doing this will not be easy and you must put yourself in his shoes and keep a very open communication on both sides.If you really care for him and want to be with him then help him trust again....if you have any interest being with someone else then be a friend he can trust in....I think you are both just trying to give comfort and love to each other...call it what you will but I think you have something deeper than a "Booty Call".
2006-11-27 16:29:27 · answer #4 · answered by ~MEEEOW~ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your life is way too complicated. First, I would have ended the relationship if my new guys ex was calling all the time.
Two you can tell when a relationship is progressing and it sounds like your relationship has started to fizzle out. If you feel the relationship has regressed then yea its time to move on.
What exactly are you looking for? If you are looking for a husband you will need play a little hard to get.
2006-11-27 16:27:12 · answer #5 · answered by Just ME 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
in this case you are not a booty call, right now he's just scared of getting hurt all over again. you need to do everything that you can to reasure him that nothing will happen between you and you ex until he stops worrying. stop talkin to your ex all together, erase him from you phone, etc... and if he keeps bothering you block his number, etc. If he still hangs out with you first, and cuddles and kisses, he's still very much interested.. you just have to get the ex out of the picture for good.
2006-11-27 16:24:58 · answer #6 · answered by gremlin1422 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you have no idea of what you want. forget the ex. forget him and stop being stupid. Go with the new guy and stay with him if you like him, but dont waste other peoples lives by playing games, or you will end up being a booty call for heaps of guys and then no one will want your used body.
2006-11-27 16:22:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You screwed up by hanging on to your previous boyfriend. No guy wants to hear from an ex-boyfriend. Tell the ex to get lost for good and then let mr. right know that he's the one. Hope for the best.
2006-11-27 16:22:47 · answer #8 · answered by jack w 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sex in a relationship is just sex. You must dig deeper, you must know more about each other. You both have to fall in love with one another. Don't worry about ex. boyfriend. He maybe just jealous. Remember just because you have sex, it doesn't mean love, now days. He could end up being the right guy. Don't give up!
2006-11-27 16:31:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No it doesn't sound like he looks at you as a booty call. But you on the other hand aren't being very true to him with all that ex-bf bullshit. Come clean or let the poor guy go to find a women to treat him with respect.
2006-11-27 16:22:24 · answer #10 · answered by Deanniepoo 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Sounds to me like you're both still testing the waters ... you're both single and no-one else is involved so no-one else is going to get hurt .... if you really are over your ex and want to be with this new guy .,.. tell him so ..... you won't know how thing will work out unless you try
Good Luck :)
2006-11-27 16:22:02 · answer #11 · answered by deadkelly_1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋