Family & Relationships - 27 November 2006

My boyfriend of 1 1/2 years have been talking about moving in together. I live in an apartment by myself and have a hard time making the bills, he is going to school in a town 40 minutes away. There is a campus in the town which I live. We plan to get married in June. He stays with me Fri night through Sun night already, should we just move in together or wait until marriage? We have a very comfortable relationship, no bickering, no fighting, no arguing, nothing to overcome in that respect....give me your relationship ladies and gents!

2006-11-27 17:07:00 · 9 answers · asked by wonderfulchscjc 1 in Singles & Dating

My mother asked me if I wanted children and I replied, "Maybe." My partner and I don't want children, but I wanted to see what her reaction was without upsetting her.

She started talking about different ways to have children (adoption, sperm bank, etc etc) and mentioned how no one's life is complete without having a child. She also said that she really wants to be a grandmother. I'm her only child, so therefore the 'grandkids' burden is placed on me.

I know I shouldn't, but I feel terribly guilty, like I'm making her miss out on an important stage in life. How should I deal with this? It's bothering me so much that I'm considering toughing it up and having a kid, despite knowing that I didn't want to raise a family since I was a teenager. Please give any advice that may help...

2006-11-27 17:06:35 · 17 answers · asked by Clare 1 in Family

any ideas? girls, how would YOU like a guy to tell you that he likes you?

2006-11-27 17:06:03 · 5 answers · asked by beachbum 1 in Singles & Dating

well i don't see the point in saying try it free and maken someone pay money for it it is ******** free if you have to pay for the retarded sh-it

2006-11-27 17:05:28 · 4 answers · asked by satan 1 in Friends

i need to write letter in the company where im working now and it goes like this...

To whom it may concern;

I, Tom Beganda working as waiter assigned in room service is requesting to your good office to provide my vacation money. I am now working for 2 years and 8 months since the last time I had my vacation.

Your necessary action with this matter is highly appreciated.

Please make some correction with this letter if you think its not good.The money i am talking about is that my company should pay me because i did not avail my vacation this year.

2006-11-27 17:05:28 · 5 answers · asked by krungkrung 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-27 17:04:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is the single, most important thing women look for in a guy?

2006-11-27 17:04:43 · 19 answers · asked by bryan 1 in Singles & Dating

hey i was just jokin just checking if anyone is alive out there.

2006-11-27 17:04:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

To the millions of people out there what are things you do when you’re nervous?
More to a dating angle..

2006-11-27 17:04:02 · 9 answers · asked by B to the E 1 in Singles & Dating

there is this guy that is younger than me that i go to school with i have liked him for a while but i dont know if he likes me or not i mean he smiles and gives me hugs all the time and also walks me to my classes i dont know if i should tell him how i feel what should i do???

2006-11-27 17:03:37 · 3 answers · asked by Angel H 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't know why, but I really want to "fix" him. He seems so broken. His heart was destroyed years ago by the only woman he ever loved. He refused to get into any new relationships. But he seems like a nice guy, and he needs to get some. I wish I could act as his counselor, but he barely gives me the time of day.

He's uptight, and he treats his brother (my boyfriend) like crap. Even after we bought him a $65 shirt for Christmas last year because we knew he'd love it, he still acts this way.

Why is he like that?!

(I know you can't necessarily answer this question without all of the background. I'm more just venting!)

2006-11-27 17:03:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

too, we just met at the internets, and we are really half world apart having different nationalities...help me please, shall i continue with him...or just forget about him? I have no idea if he has a plan to make formal divorce from his ex...my feelings of meeting him one day depends on this.

2006-11-27 17:03:07 · 26 answers · asked by Nami 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Many people are telling me its wrong to tell two guys I need to think about which one I need to choose..am I wrong I think its just be honest..

2006-11-27 17:03:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I care for my husband but I have no love for him. He degrades & belittles me in front of anyone including strangers. He also does it in front of our kids!! So now its not just him its my 3&5 yearolds too.Is it really worth this much pain & heartache???

2006-11-27 17:02:05 · 17 answers · asked by jessieslast2 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It its unholy to have have anal sex with your wife? no pun intended

2006-11-27 17:01:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We broke up 2 weeks ago. She got a new boyfriend like the next day. She did not even tell me why she wanted to break up. I really love her and I always thought she woul be my wife. I don't know how I can get her back. I have always been a good man to her. I do so much for her I dont know what else I can do for her. I really need some good advice. Please no stupid answers.

2006-11-27 17:01:42 · 12 answers · asked by Jesse 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my mum wants to ask muta'ah from my dad,now tat he has money but they've been divorce for more then ten years. y she didnt ask for it before,its bcause my dad didnt have money.she was given 3 talaq,as my dad wanted to marry my mum's best friend.both r married now.so is it possible ?

2006-11-27 17:01:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Breaking up is tough, usually unexspected, and often unwanted, how did you cope with the loss? Did you morn for days, maybe years or were you healed by positive influences? What advice would you give someone going through a break up?

2006-11-27 17:01:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he's been "Naughty" and i dont know how 2 "Punish" him ~giggle

2006-11-27 17:01:06 · 8 answers · asked by NiChkoLe 2 in Singles & Dating

hey should i get hooked up with a guy who is 30 considering i am 18. i don't want to play around i want to take life seriously and i also don't want to settle down meaning getting married and having kids and stuff like that. i want to know cause my freinds think it's not gonna work out cause of the age difference
and cause he is not a muslim.
and also cause i am an afgan and he is from Mastadonia.
what do u guys think.

i want positive answers!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-27 17:00:50 · 18 answers · asked by Hally berry 3 in Singles & Dating

im currently studyin med in my final yr and i cant seem to get my butt to class...i strted ckipping chroniclly wen i went into this depression phase wen i broke up wt my ex,but its bin ages since then n im so over tat,but i still cant seem to get myself out of bed!!

2006-11-27 17:00:46 · 10 answers · asked by kibzy82 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-27 17:00:05 · 9 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

I am a girl with traditional back ground and I am engaged now. My would be invited me to meet once and i went there. we had a nice time ofcurce. but later he is telling that i was not up tho his expectations but he assures he love me still. he dont tell what was he expecting. infact i kept away from much romatic activities except talking. was he expecting that ? when i asked about that he said u shud know it well. and shuld not be like this. do i need to do any thing more..litle confused

2006-11-27 16:59:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I recently met this girl at a club who told me she was going to go away overseas for a month in a weeks time. So I went on a movie/coffee date with her a couple of days later, and she messages back afterwards saying thanks for the day and that she had fun. I then reply saying that it would be good to meet up with her again, and she replies saying that she won't get a chance to see me until she gets back from overseas (when she wrote the msg she only had 2 days till she was to leave), but that she'll keep in touch with me.

2006-11-27 16:59:42 · 16 answers · asked by hegimony1 1 in Singles & Dating

Now that Im about 150 pounds and being noticed more often by people, I will notice a guy who seems to notice me, I wont go up to that guy cause Im not sure what to say, but it seems that they wont approach me because they either are shy or I feel that maybe they think that Im intimdating, what is a good way to approach someone or to have someone approach me?

2006-11-27 16:59:24 · 5 answers · asked by Dani021 2 in Singles & Dating

I had this boyfriend. He is really good and ideal. He makes everything perfect to me.But his not as handsome as with my crushes. And I am afraid that my classmates will see us walking together and they will criticized him or us.

2006-11-27 16:59:09 · 11 answers · asked by Diana 1 in Singles & Dating

She doesn't really need clothes, jewelry or handbags. Not much room in very small apartment. She's not able to get out much and can't drive. Also, I need to spend as little as possible as my financial situation not that great. Please help with any ideas.

2006-11-27 16:58:39 · 9 answers · asked by tagsfan 2 in Family

Sign as in whether she likes me, or is trying to push me away etc...

Ps: She a close friend...or should I say good friend...

2006-11-27 16:58:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous 2 in Singles & Dating

So i have these 3 best friends. Weve been friends for quite a while. Well 2 of them decided that they were tired of our other friend. So for the last couple of weeks they've been totally ragging on her and leaving her out of everything and making me part of it. I still partly want to be friends with her. But that means losing 2 friends that im even closer to. So should i dump one friend.... or lose 2? Help!!!

2006-11-27 16:58:18 · 7 answers · asked by Megan_016 1 in Friends

ok... well recently i've moved all d way to canada from europe.. and staying here for more opportunities.. bt my bf back in europe who i really love and i knw he loves me, been together abt a year and so... he's gna come and live here and find a job... so he can be with me... bt recently i jst miss him so much and its taking him so long to sort everything out there to come here... and im jst getting frustrated coz i miss him so much bt i jst seem to put the anger on him mostly and we jst get upset and have fights we always make up and he understands wot im going thro rite now bt i keep wondering y i am doing this! its driving me nuts.. am i such a bad person or is it jst natural to be so confused???

2006-11-27 16:58:15 · 6 answers · asked by xxshoppoholicxx 2 in Singles & Dating