Family & Relationships - 27 November 2006

I broke up with a guy, and have moved on since then. I never meant to tell my new love that I liked him, because I was a bit scared and confused. My new love and I are great friends...today he asked me who I was crushing on, and after ALOT of hesitation, I finally admitted it was him. I don't want this to change our friendship in any way...is this possible? Plus is he going to be acting weird now that he knows I like him?? Or is he going to pretend that NOTHING was said? He told my friend that me and him wouldn't make a good pair....so, should I also pretend that nothing happened since he isn't interested???

2006-11-27 17:21:04 · 8 answers · asked by HAPPY <3 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I broke up with a guy, and have moved on since then. I never meant to tell my new love that I liked him, because I was a bit scared and confused. My new love and I are great friends...today he asked me who I was crushing on, and after ALOT of hesitation, I finally admitted it was him. I don't want this to change our friendship in any way...is this possible? Plus is he going to be acting weird now that he knows I like him?? Or is he going to pretend that NOTHING was said? He told my friend that me and him wouldn't make a good pair....so, should I also pretend that nothing happened since he isn't interested???

2006-11-27 17:19:47 · 10 answers · asked by HAPPY <3 2 in Singles & Dating

Why do you do this? How does it make you feel? And if she returns the intense gaze and falls in sync with your breathing and intense staring, how does that make you feel? It drives me crazy in a very good way, why don't more men do this?

2006-11-27 17:19:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 17:19:03 · 16 answers · asked by Juan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-27 17:19:00 · 9 answers · asked by Donna 1 in Friends

I'm fresh from my Air Force basic training and tech school and I noticed that the civilian chicks dig all my male military friends. Do guys dig military chicks as well or would they be intimidated? I sure as hell don't want to scare off a good guy with "I'm in the military"! Lol.

2006-11-27 17:18:18 · 18 answers · asked by Nadia 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 17:17:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm signed in on my Boyfriends name and I told him after he gets out of the Marines he should try to model. To see his Pic better click on 360 profile. Please be honest!!

2006-11-27 17:17:22 · 11 answers · asked by Mr. Cub 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and I have been dating a short period, about 5-6 months and the holidays are right around the corner so of course I want to buy him something great, but I don't want to get him something "too serious" does that make sense? We do love eachother so I want to get him somethign that says i love you but we don't have tons of history together yet so i'm not sure on what to get him. I think it's way too early to buy anything after $300-500... I was thinking of buying him so nice bedding. Is that lame? Hahaa, he has such a great place--it's his first condo--but he has such shitty ugly sheets and NO comforter, just a blanket. Do you think buying him so some nice bedding is boring?

2006-11-27 17:17:08 · 3 answers · asked by midwest! 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 17:17:04 · 15 answers · asked by just_tasia 1 in Singles & Dating

kkay. well i had this guy friend and we had an AMAZING relationship as like the best of friends. then like. we kissed and whatever, and we decidded to become a couple. (it lasted for like a month tho) it didnt work out. he was my first boyfriend. so we decided to go back to being best friends, but then we kissed and stuff again, and we just fought a lot so we decided to end our relationship as friends and bf and gf. i loved him so much, and it took me forever to get over him. now its been likea year, and ive moved on from him.. for sure and ive hooked up with other guys, but since we werent "together" anymore (as lame as this sounds) i feel like i havnt found ANYONE for like a boyfriend as close as him. like theres guys that wanna go out with me, and i do, but they never turn out as my boyfriends. i dont know whats going on.. maybe you do? ahh. any advice of how to get over this crap. thankss so much

2006-11-27 17:15:20 · 4 answers · asked by tortl :) 3 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy but there are 2 problems.....

1. he has a girlfriend... but he doesnt even like her that much and he keeps saying he's going to break up with her soon but he never actually does.. (he doesnt know i like him)
2. my best friend likes him!! she's liked him for like 2 years

should i try and forget about him??

2006-11-27 17:14:46 · 20 answers · asked by nikki 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok here is my dilema......I am getting married in March of 2007 but I am having 2 ceremonies (religion issues...long story) any way I already have a dress for my second ceremony but I want another dress for the church. Something simple maybe knee length or a little below the knee. Any one have any suggestions?

2006-11-27 17:14:38 · 9 answers · asked by evrythngpooh83 2 in Weddings

He likes to watch her on cam do sexuall things.. she dosnt mind it she loves the guy who is 2000 miles away never met in person they just play on cam.. heres the deal tho.. she has talked to him on the phone..and has pics of him fully dressed...BUT he dosnt have a webcam its always her showing him she has never seen him nude at all..... he only comes around when he wats the cybersex other then that he kinda is rude to her.. but she loves the guy and she is by no means dense.. my question is if this is goin on for 8 months why has HE not bought a cam to play with her back??Nor has he sent a pic of his privates .. what is he hiding.... she does anything he wants on the cam yet has never seen his openis..i tell her i think she is entertainment for him and prolly others..but if he loves her and he says he does..what would keep him from showing off his body for her..or coming to meet her or gettin a cam that he can show off on for her... whats up with this is it not healthy for her

2006-11-27 17:14:24 · 10 answers · asked by DudeeE! 2 in Singles & Dating

When your own mother is mad you and when you called her she would'nt even talked to you on the phone, And she still contiues not to talk to you. What do I do

2006-11-27 17:13:45 · 14 answers · asked by Baby Girl 1 in Family

My father was an alcoholic, and my oldest sister (in her 50s) is following in his footsteps. My father never tried to justify his addiction, but my sister does. First she said she had to give it over to God. Then if she took one sip of a drink, she could not control anything after that. When she was pressured to stop, she began to take drugs. She blamed everyone who tried to make her sober for her drug addiction. Then she literally blamed anything for her to get drunk.
Now she claims there is a special gene, and she is destined to always have her addictions. I do not understand it at all, being her sibling. Yes, I could move back in with mom and dad too, and say such things like she does. I do not want to do it. I cannot imagine sponging off my parents while going through menopause.

2006-11-27 17:13:22 · 13 answers · asked by Too Curious 3 in Family

2006-11-27 17:11:36 · 9 answers · asked by sagnasty35 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-27 17:11:32 · 5 answers · asked by avinash c 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have two baby girls, and I am almost 19. I am married to a man I have been with for 4 years. We have been married almost 2 now. I just finished my 1st semester of nursing school, and it has been really hard. My husband doesnt help at all. Granted he works, but I go to school FULL TIME, and I am a full time mother. He comes home from work and then goes out, comes home and does whatever he wants. I end up being up til like 3:30am every night studying, and cleaning, and taking care of the babies...because he doesnt want to help out at all. He is also very verbally abusive, no he has never hit me, but he as soon as I ask him to do ONE thing he just flips out. He never use to be like this. I am just very frustrated, and whoever attends nursing school would know how very hard it is. Plus having 2 tiny babys on top of that. I have tried talking to him about this,but he doesnt listen. I have done EVERYTHING to try and work things out, & I feel like the only thing I havent done is leave him.

2006-11-27 17:11:21 · 32 answers · asked by kimmylou1988 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've had a crush on him soooo bad. Is he liking me now? Or do guys just offer to spend money all the time? The gift was a stuffed animal penguin dressed as Santa. It seemed like an impulse offer to me. Y'all tell me your experience.

2006-11-27 17:10:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Right now i feel like i have no friends. Over the summer my best friend for 6 years told me she thought i was a Royal, self-centered, selfish, bossy, know-it-all, *****, we talked about it and i thought it was worked out but now she never talks to me. all my other friends say that they've never thought anything like that about me and don't know where she got it from but then again none of them would talk to me unless i drifted to their various groups throught the day. so in school i don't talk any more b/c i have no 1 to talk to.
At home my dad bitches at me 24/7 for things that arn't my fault or that i didn't do. i can't take it. he makes me feel like i'm good for nothing and like i can never do anything right. they my cats sick and every day he tells me how close he is to just shooting it i've had my cat for 8 years and i can't imagine loosing him
I cant take my life right now and i can't live like this any longer i have nothing to look forward to and no reason to get out of bed

2006-11-27 17:10:26 · 17 answers · asked by Gotwater402 1 in Friends

Okay, I've know this guy for a while, who yes, I do like, but I can't tell what he feels about me. He is a bit reserved, but whenever we meet, he always tries to get my attention if I'm talking to someone else. He flicks my hair, and he's generally really funny. But when I leave and try to hug him, he gets so akward, and sort of tenses, while when i hug the other guys, they don't seem to mind and just hug me back. I don't understand whats going on here! Usually I can tell if a guy likes me, but not this time. What does this mean guys?

2006-11-27 17:10:15 · 8 answers · asked by jemm4president 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay, I got to know this guy for a while now... We have been playing phone tag for over a month now and will we tried to meet up a couple of times, but he either never showed up or didnt even bother to call saying he wasnt going to show up...Then he doesnt call for almost two wks and wants to meet up again cause he's going to be in town...So we make plans to meet up again, and will he didnt show up again and then he text messages saying that he's not going to show up half an hour later...SO I need hepl, he says hes sorry and that hes going to change and do better after that 3rd incident....But here's the thing he stood me up three times and everytime he says he's SORRY and that he doesnt want me to end our relationship....What do I do and say to his guy that I had enough it and make him get it into his big head... I really need help what do I do......

2006-11-27 17:10:07 · 5 answers · asked by krb h 1 in Singles & Dating

ok I am 38 5'9 205lbs short brown hair and blue eyes and yes this is me in the picture. I am half white and hispanic, but look more white

2006-11-27 17:09:03 · 19 answers · asked by Big Steve 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi, I am a beautiful woman (so I'm told by just about every man I meet) with a great smile (also so I'm told by men) and I can also hold my own in a conversation, I'm intelligent and not up myself, I am successful in my career. Problem...I have trouble meeting nice, intelligent and successful men and the ones I do meet are all taken and I usually only meet them in the first place when I'm out with my more bold friends who happily approach strangers. Am I just being too shy? Why dont any men that arent drunken creeps approach me?

2006-11-27 17:08:47 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A guy I dated briefly years ago is back in my life.
When we dated it was innocent, no sex.
I am moving 100 miles closer to him by pure chance to be near my parents & work. I wont be moved home for a couple of months though.
He keeps taking about us being friends and finally doing you know what.
But he's brought up being friends with benefits a couple of times.
I know he's single and is looking for a serious girlfriend.
Should I feel insulted by his suggestion ?
I told him that I have self respect & that would never interest me long term.
Told him Id like to be friends first, maybe even do 'it' but never be just friends with benefits in long run.
He didnt protest or acknowledge what I said.
Should I be insulted by his suggestion ? Does that mean he doesnt see me in the girlfriend category ?
If so Im just going to move on, I have good self esteem and won't waste the pretty on lamo friends with benefits forever. :)

2006-11-27 17:08:38 · 16 answers · asked by I♥agoodhug 1 in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend is so upset. Lately she and her fiance have had little time to spend together and communication between them comes few and far
between intervals. His cell phone isn't working and he doesn't get to come online much. Yesterday he left he an offline message and apologized for not catching her online and after he got ready to sign off he said" I miss you Beth"...not her real name. I asked her why she was upset and she said because he used her name instead of the usual pet names he calls her such as pumpkin or sweetheart. I told her maybe he just wanted her to realize how serious he was about missing her and didn't feel it was appropriate to use a cutesy name at the moment. She is so worried he doesn't love or care about her the way he used to. I disagree and told her to stop being so negative, but I would like some other opinions on this matter. Thank you all for your help.

2006-11-27 17:08:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guys-do y'all like hugs from girls? Do you usually hug girls you have only known for a month unless there is some kind of attraction? Do you like to give full on hugs or only hugs to the sides. Would you ever hug a girl if you did not like her in the least? THANKS!

2006-11-27 17:08:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If my 16 year old daughter chooses to not see me, must I continue to pay child support until she is 18 years old?

2006-11-27 17:07:23 · 29 answers · asked by tnzbobz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-27 17:07:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating