Okay, I've know this guy for a while, who yes, I do like, but I can't tell what he feels about me. He is a bit reserved, but whenever we meet, he always tries to get my attention if I'm talking to someone else. He flicks my hair, and he's generally really funny. But when I leave and try to hug him, he gets so akward, and sort of tenses, while when i hug the other guys, they don't seem to mind and just hug me back. I don't understand whats going on here! Usually I can tell if a guy likes me, but not this time. What does this mean guys?
2006-11-27 17:10:15 · 8 answers · asked by jemm4president 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also, guys, how should i approach him- i want to ask him out but don't want to freak him out!!!
2006-11-27 17:21:49 · update #1
I can't speak on his behalf. But from my personal experience, I can be social and jolly around girls I'm not interested in. But when there's a girl I am interested in I clam up, get shy, etc etc. So, perhaps, if he's similar to me then he likes you. Just ask the boy out if he declines, it's because he's afraid he'll disappoint you, so be persistent, I promise he will be the most loyal b/f you'll ever have in your life.
2006-11-27 17:24:53 · answer #1 · answered by Joonbug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if he likes you or not. But I can tell you I never felt comfortable hugging anybody including my own mom until I was 20 yrs old or so. I kissed girls I had sex w/ girls but I always had a hard time showing my affection. Maybe this guy is the same way.
2006-11-28 01:18:04 · answer #2 · answered by BluLizard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deep inside he is probly just a lil nervous or shy.
If u like him go after him, or maybe he is just a guy who likes 2 play but doesn't like gurls, kinda hard 2 explain. IT's kinda hard 2 tell cuz i have never met the guy, i don't know his personality, so i can't help u out much.Go with ur gutt instinct.hit me up, if u wanna talk.later.
2006-11-28 01:24:20 · answer #3 · answered by Compton,CA 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This guy probably really likes you and doesn't know how to show it. To be really honest those other guys are probably so comfortable because they just see you as a piece of @ss. They think "Yea, I'd hit that" but this guy really likes you and doesn't wanna mess it up.
2006-11-28 01:15:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is just shy. Next time, whisper to him that you only talk to people that allow you to hug them. Say it with a smile:)
Good luck
2006-11-28 01:15:26 · answer #5 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh come on, he's totally on to you. He's being clever though...
2006-11-28 01:14:30 · answer #6 · answered by devisional 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This means he loves you and you love him. Thats it.
2006-11-28 01:18:34 · answer #7 · answered by Karma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is shy
2006-11-28 01:13:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋