I broke up with a guy, and have moved on since then. I never meant to tell my new love that I liked him, because I was a bit scared and confused. My new love and I are great friends...today he asked me who I was crushing on, and after ALOT of hesitation, I finally admitted it was him. I don't want this to change our friendship in any way...is this possible? Plus is he going to be acting weird now that he knows I like him?? Or is he going to pretend that NOTHING was said? He told my friend that me and him wouldn't make a good pair....so, should I also pretend that nothing happened since he isn't interested???
2006-11-27 17:21:04 · 8 answers · asked by HAPPY <3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Guys are not anything like the complex, confusing, and often frightening female of the species, so keep it simple. Sit the boy down, look him in the eye, and say ...
"Listen. I like you. I don't know how you feel about me, so I want to clear up any confusion before our friendship takes a header. If you think we aren't a good match, or you're just not interested in me 'that way', I understand, that is your right. Personally, I think we could have beautiful children who would grow up to be doctors, world leaders, Amazing Race winners, or really good computer programmers, but I can understand if you need some time to think it over. Just let ME know when YOU know. That way I don't wait around for something that is never going to happen, or on the flip side, we don't waste any time gettin' our groove on."
Let me know how it goes.
2006-11-27 17:37:21 · answer #1 · answered by Todd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's not interested in being more than friends, there's a good chance he might start acting wierd. Not to worry, though! You made your feelings clear, thats nothing to be ashamed of. Continue to be the confident and sassy girl that you are. Just call him on his ******** and tell him not to worry either, you can stick with just being friends.
If he continues to act wierd, just continue on your merry way. Keep being happy, confident and busy. The only reason guys get all wierd is because they are scared to DEATH of hurting a girl, especially one they are good friends with. So as long as you show him you're tough and can move on if he's not interested, your friendship has a chance.
Good luck!
2006-11-27 17:44:33 · answer #2 · answered by SummerPixie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welll.. u first hv to ask yourself... do u want him as a bf or just a close friend... the answer to this question.. will let u decide how u want this relation between u and him.. if u want it to be as it was before telling him.. then just carry on as nothing happend.. but if u want this guy 2 b intrested in u and becme your bf... then... work on it dear.. don't care abt the causual remarks u once heard abt him telling something to another guy...u r only as beautiful and atttractive and as confident ...as u think u are...It takes more than looks for a guy to love a girl... work on the relation, feelings and doing simple things that make the fondness grow more.... good luck !
2006-11-27 17:31:32 · answer #3 · answered by Circles S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you guys are such great friends you should go up to him and talk about what happened. If the friendship is real he'll understand. Just say that it is a small crush and that it is normal at any one point in a friendship if either is hot. Good luck!!!!!
2006-11-27 17:46:58 · answer #4 · answered by Violet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you are not sleeping together. If you are he is using you for sex. If he isn't interested in you. I wouldn't say anything just stay away from him. If he ask why your staying away from him. Tell him the truth of what you heard. The truth will make you free. He is not worth it. If he does not like you. Don't feel bad, that's just life. Good luck!
2006-11-27 17:35:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be his friend if he would like. But, don't waste anymore emotional stress on him. But, remember you gotta kiss a lot of frogs to get to that prince. Just consider him a frog! and be on your marry way.
2006-11-27 17:28:24 · answer #6 · answered by docie555@yahoo.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next move belongs to him but from the little that you have said you both seem too immature to have a relationship.
2006-11-27 17:24:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its going to be weird
2006-11-27 17:25:16 · answer #8 · answered by tracemiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋