i like this guy but there are 2 problems.....
1. he has a girlfriend... but he doesnt even like her that much and he keeps saying he's going to break up with her soon but he never actually does.. (he doesnt know i like him)
2. my best friend likes him!! she's liked him for like 2 years
should i try and forget about him??
2006-11-27 17:14:46 · 20 answers · asked by nikki 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask your mother for some opinion
2006-11-27 17:17:44 · answer #1 · answered by KO 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If there is this much drama, chances are they're going to be much much more problems with ur best friend liking him, plus you already know he is a cheater (obviosly he has lead you on to believe you are in his league), my bestfriend is actually going through this, and let me tell you he has not broken up with her. Don't try honey, because its more likely that this relationship wont bring u happiness, but misery.
2006-11-28 01:20:05 · answer #2 · answered by Prncss 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends.....
What matters more to you, your friendship, or a relationship with this guy?
Even though he has a girlfriend that he says he will break up with, there is a possibility that they are just going through a rough patch and he is getting attention for assurance.
I would say give it some more time and discuss it with your friend who likes him too.
2006-11-28 01:18:46 · answer #3 · answered by gochiefs483 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the guy is in a winsome situation. and you're in a lose some. I don't think he is going to break up with the other girl until she finds you more worthy. your best friend's liking for him is also an obstacle, coz it's bound to ruin your mutual friendship....no matter which one of you becomes successful.
re valuate your relations, and then move forward. If the boy cares for you enough he'll come to you, otherwise he is not worth it.
2006-11-28 01:21:06 · answer #4 · answered by sameer s 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take it from a man who has been around a few times and have played this game before. If you are a nice girl looking to meet a nice guy then dont try for this one. If you just wanted to be the second hand girl then hook up and get ready for your heart to be broken.
2006-11-28 01:18:44 · answer #5 · answered by I want to know 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has a girlfriend...do not be a home wrecker... let him break up with her or her break up with him. If he does not then maybe he is really not for you.
Best Friend...there is not easy way to conquer that problem...but let him pick who he wants.
Be yourself !!!
2006-11-28 01:17:50 · answer #6 · answered by Danielle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look if the kid doesn't like his girl and he doesn't like your friend then damn get at him..maybe he will start to like you and leave his girl..and about your friend ..if he doesn't like her and she knows that maybe you should help her find a new man so she can get her mind off him..if you feel something special for him then go for it....you don't want to look back a year later and wonder how your life would be at that moment if you guys had became couple..your feelings are never wrong they might be based on a wrong idea but they are never wrong ...so go to your heart for answers
2006-11-28 01:22:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he is talking to you about breaking up with her, he probably wants you.
Maybe he is waiting to leave her for you. Tell him you like him.
Watch out for the friend though, she really might get upset.
2006-11-28 01:17:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him girl. I know it may be tempting to go after him. But whether he likes his girlfriend you don't want to mess with him. Karma's a *****.
2006-11-28 01:18:53 · answer #9 · answered by intangible_me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you go out with him, and he has a gf, and then he breaks up with her to be with you- you'll NEVER be able to trust him! Because some day you'll be the one he is tired of. . .
2006-11-28 01:28:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
uhg. Too bad your best friend likes him too. Neither one of you needs him. He trash-talks his girlfriend (think of it as if you were her).. and then he goes back to her, pretending to be her loving, caring boyfriend ... even though he's trashing her behind her back. That alone tells me he's a shi*thead.
2006-11-28 01:17:54 · answer #11 · answered by paddy w 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋