kkay. well i had this guy friend and we had an AMAZING relationship as like the best of friends. then like. we kissed and whatever, and we decidded to become a couple. (it lasted for like a month tho) it didnt work out. he was my first boyfriend. so we decided to go back to being best friends, but then we kissed and stuff again, and we just fought a lot so we decided to end our relationship as friends and bf and gf. i loved him so much, and it took me forever to get over him. now its been likea year, and ive moved on from him.. for sure and ive hooked up with other guys, but since we werent "together" anymore (as lame as this sounds) i feel like i havnt found ANYONE for like a boyfriend as close as him. like theres guys that wanna go out with me, and i do, but they never turn out as my boyfriends. i dont know whats going on.. maybe you do? ahh. any advice of how to get over this crap. thankss so much
2006-11-27 17:15:20 · 4 answers · asked by tortl :) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe you are still stuck on this one guy who was your first bf and such. yet you two made the decision to be a couple and so forth and i am sad that it did not work out but then you are friends yet you make out! wow, you sound like me and my bf after we broke up and we kept on kissing and going out on dates! my suggestion is that whatever you guys had after the breaking up was friends with benefits sort of string attached thing!you did that because you were not over him yet whoever you date as of right now should not be compared to him! because then no one will be good enough for you and you will miss out on a lot of chances! when you date someone yes it will be awkard yet maybe you are not helping either by coming with this much baggage in the dating dept! date someone, get to know them, and it takes time before things are what you want them to be! just have patience and do not do the friends wit benefits thing ever again!learn to live a little and have fun! date around and maybe you will find someone better than hm and with that person you can have a better relationship minus the agrguing! do not get your hopes up too fast and too soon! hope this helped
2006-11-27 17:28:16 · answer #1 · answered by icycrissy27blue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are looking for a boyfriend you probably shouldn't be looking for a hookup. Hookups never turn into good relationships.
If you want to find a good boyfriends go somewhere where good boys are. (or men as it were)
2006-11-28 01:19:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always go with the one you feel you would be willing to spend longer than a couple months with maybe even your life.
2006-11-28 01:18:42 · answer #3 · answered by KT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should work on your relationship. sounds confusing
2006-11-28 01:17:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋