Family & Relationships - 27 November 2006

I like this shy girl and a few days ago, some of my friends made fun of her and i got so pissed off that i threw my sandwich on one of them and i threatened to not do the group photo wit them. Its likke im turning all my friends against me for just one girl, am i obsessed?. One of my friends told me that i wouldnt do anything to her if she talked crap bout my friends.

2006-11-27 16:57:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He isn't impotent or gay. He says that he is afraid to have sex and he is 30 years old. He attempted to a few times but he experienced pre-mature ejaculation before inserting his private part into the woman. When I ask him why (as a concerned friend) he never really answers me. I was wondering if he was sexually molested as a child and if the thought of having sex triggers what may have happened to him in the past.

2006-11-27 16:57:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what would i do?well,i would probablly go,rock climbing,all the adventourus things i could fit into 23 hours,then i would spend my very last hour,sitting in my room with my family,tell them all the lies i had ever told them,all the things that were most important to me,to tell them.Who would i hang out with?i would hang out with my closest freinds,ashlee,jaime,caroline,and katie,along with my whole family.for my very last minute,i would lay down in my bed,put on the song,"welcome to the black parade", and listen to the lyrics peacfully,close my eyes,and die...

2006-11-27 16:57:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-27 16:57:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

All the girls in my school are going out with some of the dumbest people, mostly jocks. I know everyone of these jocks I speak of and they are not the brightest people in the world. This makes me think that being smart is worthless, in a way of course.

2006-11-27 16:56:58 · 11 answers · asked by nitrusluvr3 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 16:56:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You talk to someone online or in a casual conversation, then the next day you realize what you said, think "oh my god they're going to rip me a new one!" but when you talk to them they're not even phased by it? But, but- you were expecting them to be wholeheartedly pissed off at you? (not over anything reallly hurtful just some really dumb conversation you have, or awkward convo)

2006-11-27 16:56:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am a nurse, actually a primary nurse for one doctor. I work for a private practice and enjoy it very much. Me and some of the girls in the office cut up and enjoy talking about guys etc. A few days ago something was mentioned about having a drink. My doctor mentioned that he enjoyed drinking. I couldnt believe it. He is soooooo uptight he should make noises when he walks. Well, tonight something was said just out of being funny. I mentioned that he should fix me up with a single rich doctor; his comment was...they are hard to find. ..then I said..well what about to use and just have fun with...and he said. Hey, Im up for that then he quickly changed it to if you have any single girlfriends who want to use a rich doctor lemme know. I said yea, but you're married...and he said soooo.....I have been divorced before....I kinda wonder if he is throwing hints that he wouldn't mind if I didnt..ya know? whatcha think?

2006-11-27 16:56:10 · 9 answers · asked by princess 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been with my fiance for eight years and we are finallygetting married. i want to have a wedding with our families there. and he says whats the point and that we can not afford one but ifeel that we have two kids together and i have been very patient with him asking never pushing the issue. i've never realy asked for anything else and feel that i have earned a wedding and that he should relize this and not withdraw all together when the subject comes up. any indeas a fresh input could be very helpful

2006-11-27 16:54:55 · 17 answers · asked by ANGIE C 1 in Weddings

Ok so over the long weekend me and my exs at the time best friend did stuff and my ex found out about it and was mad at us both and then yesterday my ex told me she wanted to fix things between us. I asked her why did she give me another chance and not her friend and she told me to leave it and be happy. So today her ex best friend starts hitting on me again telling me how she always wanted and stuff. I dont get caz two months ago she was calling me names and saying she wasnt impressed with me. So why now, why the changed in attitdue about me? Why is she trying to get me to be her bf? What should I do?

2006-11-27 16:54:41 · 3 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Singles & Dating

This girl knows i like her, but she call me just to mess with me and joke around, what does it all mean

2006-11-27 16:54:01 · 11 answers · asked by keithr2003 3 in Singles & Dating

like this morning we got in a big fight over who was going to pick up dinner you see i can,t do very much i was through from a car window when i was like 6 and now i have alot of pain in my legs and back plus i have a glass eye so he seems to think that i don,t want to do these little things but thats not true i just can,t di then all like he can my parentes told me to leave him he doessn,t love me please help me to under stand whats wrong with me why can,t i make him happy i have to go back in the hosptal soon for another opration and he is afaid i could die please tell him i will be all right i love him so much an i think he does to

2006-11-27 16:54:00 · 5 answers · asked by dar 3 in Singles & Dating

One of my close friends has a crush on my boyfriend. Im the type of person who would rather see my friends happy, even if it doesnt work out for me. I still REALLY REALLY like him, but should i dump him and let them be together?

2006-11-27 16:53:59 · 5 answers · asked by Megan_016 1 in Singles & Dating

how can i overcome shyness? it affects me mostly with girls. also do some girls go out with shy guys, because i know some people who don't talk alot and they get the hottest girlfriends, why?

2006-11-27 16:53:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how can i express wat i feel to a girl i like?

2006-11-27 16:53:09 · 15 answers · asked by joserules66 1 in Singles & Dating

interested in the truth about this subject.
like to watch? turn on? turn off? views on actors/actresses

2006-11-27 16:52:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend who i love to death has a problem her feet stink realy bad for some reason....at thanksgiving it was embarassing she took her shoes off and my grandpa just look at me with a weird look on his face and i could see all my family members talking and looking at us so i knew they were talking about her feet....i feel bad telling her but im going to make it a joke and buy her somthing for xmas that has to due with her feet but girls what can i buy here that makes your feet smell good?

2006-11-27 16:50:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

up every couple of years to "keep in contact"? how do you think this girl would feel if she wanted a mother, but her mother didn't really want her? how would she show it when her mother came arround?

*note, this isn't my life, i'm writing a novella and i'm not sure how to show the main characters feeling and issues with abandoment because i really wouldn't know...... thanks for any insight :)

2006-11-27 16:50:17 · 4 answers · asked by kiss the cook 4 in Family

marrying a man 18 years of gap, would that be okay?

2006-11-27 16:50:07 · 18 answers · asked by gin 1 in Weddings

im a guy and have gotten pale over tha winter season due to the decreased sunlight from moving to ga from california... should i tan? my soon to be girlfriend and exes of mine said its alright for guys to. its not like i would tan every day for a hour at a time. just to darken up a bit... should i? if not, tell me why plz

2006-11-27 16:50:03 · 8 answers · asked by toreyjw1 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm thinking about quitting my job so I can spend more time at the casinos.
I might have to borrow a hundred bucks every now and then,
but I'll pay you back when lady luck leans my way again.

2006-11-27 16:49:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

people thought he was using me in this other question, what do you think?

sorry its so long


This past long weekend I left a message for my guy friend that I have a crush on. He never called me back. Jerk! What kind of friend doesn't call back?

I took this as a sign that he did not like me as much as I thought so at least I know. then I decided to try to back off and disconnect my self so I can move on and just keep him as my friend.
When I came back to school I tried to distance myself but he looked so good that all my feelings came back and I find my self head over hills for him.

He keeps sending me signals that he likes me but he never makes a move so I want to move on.
Why are boys so hard to read?
What should i do about him, try not to like him?
(the call was kind of important because i was going to tell him i wanted to get closer to him and ask him to the movie)
he talks to me and makes me feel like the only person.
when we talk he looks into my eye

2006-11-27 16:49:13 · 13 answers · asked by Angel 3 in Singles & Dating

OK, he's awkwardly different than me, and we both love outdoors--he's army fatigues, I'm Swiss gear; he's ATV, I'm XC naturalist. Big 2 hour ordeal to commute 8 miles home tonite. He hasn't replied to 3 phone calls. Dump him? He'll say it was unfair. Whaddaya think folks?

2006-11-27 16:48:44 · 5 answers · asked by Yenelli 2 in Singles & Dating

Am I just stupid?

I don't want to 'make him' divorce her. I would rather he do it because he doesn't want to be married to her anymore.

I've talked to him about it and he says that he should get working on it but then... nothing happens.

Again...am I just stupid?

2006-11-27 16:48:03 · 28 answers · asked by jjoct18 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, I met this guy through activities at school about 3 months ago. First I was like oh he is shy and cute. Well, someone told him that I liked him, which wasn't the case, and then he asked me for my number and to go to a movie. I told him that was fine, it was just during the day..no harm right? At this point I had only known him 2 weeks. That night he left me a note and roses all over my car at my job. I was a little weirded out because the note said how he wanted to be in a relationship and I was so beautiful and wonderful etc. when he did not know anything about me. Well I told him I was "too busy" with school to be in a relationship. Well, he still constantly asks me to do stuff and tells me we need to get "closer" when I obviously don't want anything in return. He comes up to my job often and my co-workers said he will just stare at me (I have only noticed once or twice). I just do not feel comfortable around him.

2006-11-27 16:47:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 16:46:29 · 16 answers · asked by Ivory_Flame 4 in Singles & Dating

i have been with my fiance for eight years and we are finallygetting married. i want to have a wedding with our families there. and he says whats the point and that we can not afford one but ifeel that we have two kids together and i have been very patient with him asking never pushing the issue. i've never realy asked for anything else and feel that i have earned a wedding and that he should relize this and not withdraw all together when the subject comes up. any indeas a fresh input could be very helpful

2006-11-27 16:46:22 · 18 answers · asked by ANGIE C 1 in Weddings

Doesn't it seem like he is really not into being in a commited relationship if he thinks it sounds fun, even though he hasn't suggeested actually doing it?

2006-11-27 16:45:55 · 25 answers · asked by schweetums 5 in Singles & Dating

Okay, I really like this guy a lot. But ever since I found out that he might have asked out this girl, and she rejected him, he's been flirting with me and I've become a little less interested. I STILL REALLY LIKE HIM! But, now I think I nmight like this other guy... Which one do I focus on: the one I've liked longer than the other one, or the other guy?

2006-11-27 16:45:40 · 4 answers · asked by Katiee 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 16:45:08 · 14 answers · asked by jacqui h 1 in Singles & Dating