up every couple of years to "keep in contact"? how do you think this girl would feel if she wanted a mother, but her mother didn't really want her? how would she show it when her mother came arround?
*note, this isn't my life, i'm writing a novella and i'm not sure how to show the main characters feeling and issues with abandoment because i really wouldn't know...... thanks for any insight :)
2006-11-27 16:50:17 · 4 answers · asked by kiss the cook 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Feeling so empty, lost and alone. Trying to live life even though there is something major missing, mum. Wondering how long it is going to be until they "pop up" again in your life. Wondering if they have any soul to leave you hanging there for years at a time. Trying for years to get in contact with her and never getting anywhere. After linking up with their mother and happy to look after them and finding themselves in a situation where they are bending over backwards to try and make up for their mums stuff up only to be let down again and again. In tears when they do finally stand up to mum, only to be shut out and then feeling guilty because they want answers. When their mum finally gives them some answers and breaks down and calls themselves names because of what they have down. Then have the daughter turn around and say "Hey it's ok, you're not like that. Things happen for a reason" because it breaks their heart to see their mother upset like that. Then the daughter somehow feels like the weight on her shoulders she has carried for so long has lessened, although she still has a lot of healing and somehow, in all of that mess, feels comfort that her mum does feel guilty. Now the daughter is a mother and loving her children so very much and making up for her lost childhood and making sure her children never go through what they did. I hope this gives you some insight.
2006-11-27 19:41:53 · answer #1 · answered by suzieq30aussie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would really depend on the circumstances surrounding the reason that the mother comes around every couple of years. What other dynamics are involved?
2006-11-27 16:59:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This lady is for sure in contact in you. Are you usually a shy human being? it style of appears like you're. once you spot her in college in January, strike up a communique which include her, ideally making use of a few humor. Make some remark like "we would want to end assembly this way." i recognize that is corny and that is effective that that is corny... see you later as you are able to snicker at your self. purely save it mild and get to carry close her somewhat. If she isn't into talking to you in college, ask her about getting jointly to benefit for something or perhaps purely having espresso. the right thanks to attraction a lady is to apply humor... no longer something vulgar (a minimum of until eventually you recognize what her experience of humor is like)... and ask her questions about her existence and her pastimes. don't be stalkerish... if she blows you off, stroll away with dignity. You not in any respect get something until eventually you're trying.
2016-10-07 21:45:27 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this was me, I'D go see a movie when she comes around
2006-11-27 17:00:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋