Family & Relationships - 27 November 2006

Okay I have been Married 2 Years Dec 2nd And my wife wants to have a child, but not with me she has told me she wants a Interracial Baby, We are both White and she wants a African American-White Mixed Baby. She also has addmitted that she has been having sex with Black Male Friends(not with STD's) Unprotectedly. She maked me wear a condom because she doesnt want a White baby and hopes 1 day maybe there will be 1 race and having a non racist world im guessing. So i exchanged so no so good words to her making her really upset with me and i feel bad 1 because i upset her and 2 because im Mad myself She says she loves only me and only has sex with Afrian's until she gets preagnet? what should i do im so Sad and Depressed right now, How can i Raise another mans baby an i dont know the father?

2006-11-27 16:13:28 · 19 answers · asked by Dog209 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This person is supposed to be my best friend as of lately our relationship has been feeling...a bit lacking. We were going to hang out this weekend after I got back from my vacation from Florida to try and fix it. She never called me. And here we are two days later and she still hasn't called me. I call her house and cell phone. No one picks up or returns my calls. I'm not very popular could it be that she traded up for better friends? Any advice as to what could possibly be going on would be greatly appreciated. Thanks a bunch

~senge~

2006-11-27 16:12:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

her "b!tch" in front of her girlfriends?

2006-11-27 16:11:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ears or neck, etc.....while flirting or kissing.

2006-11-27 16:10:25 · 19 answers · asked by PinkWaves 2 in Singles & Dating

Myself, I got down on 1 knee, and had the ring on the chain of a necklace that I gave her, that was inside a rose shaped case.

2006-11-27 16:10:12 · 4 answers · asked by Bryan M 5 in Marriage & Divorce

"Don't let someone become a priority in your life, when you are just an option in their life...Relationships work best, when they are balanced.

2006-11-27 16:08:19 · 20 answers · asked by Electric 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

This past long weekend I left a message for my guy friend that I have a crush on. He never called me back. Jerk! What kind of friend doesn't call back?

I took this as a sign that he did not like me as much as I thought so at least I know. then I decided to try to back off and disconnect my self so I can move on and just keep him as my friend.
When I came back to school I tried to distance myself but he looked so good that all my feelings came back and I find my self head over hills for him.

He keeps sending me signals that he likes me but he never makes a move so I want to move on.
Why are boys so hard to read?
What should i do about him, try not to like him?

(the call was kind of important because i was going to tell him i wanted to get closer to him and ask him to the movies)

2006-11-27 16:08:15 · 15 answers · asked by Angel 3 in Singles & Dating

i need all ur guys' pinion. would u rather have ur girlfriends pubic hair to be shaved, or left normal?

2006-11-27 16:07:53 · 12 answers · asked by KO 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a lot of trouble talking to women in general. i really like her but when ever im near her i can't make eye contact and i turn into jelly what should i do

2006-11-27 16:06:53 · 5 answers · asked by Mike C 2 in Singles & Dating

first met it was all good. Then he started tripping. All of this happened when I became pregnant. He started to go out a lot and stay out later a whole lot. He is married and he says that he is getting a divorce, I don't think that it takes this long. We recently broke up because just couldn't take it anymore. I have a new baby boy and i'm putting up with his crap. So I left. Now he wants me back. I'm hopefull that we can be together and raise our son. I just don't want to waist my time, but I feel I have to try. I can't trust him it isn't the same. Give me some advice.

2006-11-27 16:06:42 · 9 answers · asked by texasgyrle 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am not saying that i do or don't
so spare me the rude answers that "assume"
things... but.. I was just wondering
does everyone out there shower every single
day? even if you don't get dirty?
just wondering....

2006-11-27 16:06:21 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He is 30. We have two children. We have been together for 4 years. He works a lot and has to travel a lot as well.

2006-11-27 16:06:12 · 5 answers · asked by Angela 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

When I was younger I was bullied and teased alot and had low-self esteem,but as I got older I overcame this only to enter a emotional verbally abusive relationship later.I sometimes feel insecure.The emotional verbal abusive relationship happened a few years ago but I still find myself feeling stressed out and hurt inside.I do not want to feel this way and I try to brush it off but I feel like Im not good enough when Im in a relationship.my question is even though I dont think about my past relationship where I experienced the abuse why do I feel this way.wouldnt I have overcome this.It happened in 2002-2003.I was called alot of horrible names and other things that I care not to mention.

2006-11-27 16:05:18 · 6 answers · asked by TrueWoman 1 in Singles & Dating

All we hear this Days is Sex,and more Sex,what about real Love and understanding?Is it there yet,or is it lost?

2006-11-27 16:05:07 · 24 answers · asked by karl s 3 in Singles & Dating

Why is he telling people that

2006-11-27 16:05:01 · 11 answers · asked by Chy M 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 16:04:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do girls like about it? what do guys like about it? what's this "daddy" thing all about? whats your theory on why people like spanking?. Do you like it and why or why not? Just curious... Is it hot or not?

2006-11-27 16:04:17 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what are the basic signals a guy likes u

2006-11-27 16:03:28 · 14 answers · asked by fabstar15 1 in Singles & Dating

what makes the very few high school sweethearts actually marry one another?

2006-11-27 16:03:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he doesn't talk to me or try to when were not together.. it's so weird, it's been like that since we started going out but i mean wuts up with that?

2006-11-27 16:03:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 23 year old but my boyfirend is 56 year old, he said that if i was only 30 plus of age surely he will marry me. i don't know what's the difference if am 30 plus year old or 23 year old

2006-11-27 16:02:56 · 14 answers · asked by cuty_casper 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well i'm 10. when i get ready in the morning i always wash my face, brush my hair and teeth and get dressed all cute and properly 4 the weather. she has noone 2 take care of her 2 much. i try but she doesn't listen 2 me. she is 4. my parents sent her 2 school 2day and it was freezing. we live in la. it was 55 degrees or something. i don't know. and then she was wearing a longsleeved shirt and sweats. no sweater! and her hair looked like a tornado had hit it. i try to help but i don't know how. wen i do my mom tells me i don't have 2 worry about it cuz i am not her mom. she insists that i stop. what should i do????!?!?!?!? plz help! i feel horible 4 her. she was so cold 2day. wen i picked her up with my nanny her lips were almost completely blue! she feels neglected!

2006-11-27 16:01:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

it seems like agter i graduated high school i lost all my friends. some went to college or the army but i stayed here (working on transfer degree from community college to OSU) and another friend stayed as well...now i dont even talk to him. i am all alone with out even a girl friend...do all your friends normaly leave after high school and your left all alone?

2006-11-27 16:01:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

if so please watch this video and think of going to your local animal shelter 1st these babies need a home filled with Love

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nb4Jcws6VdI#N6rFHhdXkwk

2006-11-27 16:01:19 · 1 answers · asked by katlady927 6 in Family

had a three some in the past with a married couple,(still friends with over a decade older) how would you feel if he hadn't dolged on if it was for the woman or both partners. Would you be shocked if it was man/female/man kind?

Women only please, and if you has this occure

2006-11-27 16:00:48 · 10 answers · asked by Juleette 6 in Singles & Dating

in my last question i asked if i should tell a guy i love him. i think i will, but what kind f reaction should i expect from a 13 year old. (i'm 13 too, nt a pedifile), (and dont say its just puppy love plz)

and any ideas on how i should tell him would be nice.

2006-11-27 16:00:24 · 8 answers · asked by R ♥ I ♥ P ♥ Casey Calvert 3 in Singles & Dating

Move in with bf or not?
ok so my boyfriend and I want to be serious and eventually get married but right now we live several hours apart and it's very hard. We used to live in the same town but his job moved him. He now lives in the same town as his parents... they adore him and like me as well but went ballistic when his sister moved in with her now husband before they were engaged. Now my bf is worried about what his parents will think but still wants me to move there. He wants me to live with him, but his parents want me to get an apt. I can't afford that. Should I chance it and go or not? I love him and want to be with him but don't want to cause problems in the family!!

2006-11-27 16:00:15 · 11 answers · asked by Dakota Country Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 15:58:57 · 8 answers · asked by Baby I'll stay, heaven can w 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Just bored and wondering, I am a 25 year old black male. I was raised in a military background. I LOVE women. It doesnt matter if your black white, asian. whatever. A pretty face is universal. I know some peole dont agree, but it seems most people my age grew up in a time, when interacial dating was being seen more. And know I know a lot of interacial couples who are in serious relationships... Just wondering what everyone else thinks about it. I guess I am biased because, like I say, I have dated all kinds of women.

2006-11-27 15:58:55 · 17 answers · asked by ucfmanic 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 15:58:44 · 22 answers · asked by s1 1 in Singles & Dating