All we hear this Days is Sex,and more Sex,what about real Love and understanding?Is it there yet,or is it lost?
2006-11-27 16:05:07 · 24 answers · asked by karl s 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree, but there IS true love! God provides the perfect matches!
Love clearly exists! Embrace it! God did create sex for MARRIAGE, but sex should NEVER be the base of a marriage or be the thing holding it together. Get to know this someone first! Respect them! Take lots of time to form a relationship with them and experiences. Know they are the one for you. Do not rush into sex! And lust is cheap! Sex is a very important and sacred thing that is to be beautiful, lovely, and tender. Passion should have nothing to do with it. Love is still there yet. I see it in my grandparents! True love after so many years! A newly married couple just married this month at my church! It's there! "Some say those who have love have slipped in and out of heaven." Dont give up, and dont listen to everyones negativity who cower and choose nasty wims to fruitful (not to be mistaken with fruity) love, and cherrishment.
Read God's word! "Many waters can not quench love, neither can the floods drown it." Song of Solomon 8:7
God is the true poet and maker of love. He is the one and only God of love.
2006-11-27 16:48:13 · answer #1 · answered by Miss PIff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is still alive besides sex sex sex! I know this personally. I've been in my relaionship for a long time now and since day one it as NOT been about sex. It is not a number one priority. We have never put it first nor thought of it has a must have. We love eachother no matter how much or how less we do it.Love is still out there you jsut have to find the right person. Hope this has helped in some way.
2006-11-28 00:35:04 · answer #2 · answered by So you think you know me!? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is definitely important. Not saying about going all the way though. But at least to me, its important that I can feel some physical intimacy with someone in some way. A hug, a kiss, these are just human nature.
2006-11-28 00:07:50 · answer #3 · answered by ragdefender 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real love enhances sex. Without love and understanding you only get physical gratification but when you know there is a spiritual connection sex is another level. You are eager to feel connected to that person on a deeper level.
2006-11-28 00:16:23 · answer #4 · answered by JOELLEMICHELLE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel you. If your love is real then you can make it without sex. HOWEVER, you will eventually will want to share that special moment with the one you love. But it doesn't have to be an all the time thing. And you don't have to do it right away.
2006-11-28 00:07:29 · answer #5 · answered by Manita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is so over rated it's not even funny. Now making love thats something different you can only feel that when you are married and give yourself to your husband or wife in that special moment. If I could go back in the past I would have saved myself for marriage. If you are still a virgin. Just take my advice and stay that way seriously. It will be so much better if you do.
2006-11-28 00:11:04 · answer #6 · answered by christy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sex and love are two separate things but yet one in the same. And both very important in an intimate realationship. Love is not a feeling it is an action. If you love someone you show them not tell them. A realtionship based primarily on sex will not work.
2006-11-28 00:09:42 · answer #7 · answered by Deanniepoo 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think love can defiitely replace sex or at least make it less important. If a relationship fails because of a lack of sex then it isn't really strong in love.
2006-11-28 00:09:08 · answer #8 · answered by G/M P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I choose love and understand... I'd have sex with someone who I truly love then have sex with a total complete women stranger who will in the end steal my money and run away with another man...
2006-11-28 00:07:20 · answer #9 · answered by silvs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am one for real love.. my boyfriend on the other hand doesnt think so.. he says sex is how to show love.. he doesnt understand that I did it before and now I want to wait just cause a person doesnt want ot continue having sex doesnt mean they dont love the other.
2006-11-28 00:10:23 · answer #10 · answered by sweet_g_grl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋