2006-11-27 15:58:57 · 8 answers · asked by Baby I'll stay, heaven can w 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Try not to be phony.
Find other people likeable, and if you don't find someone likeable find something about him or her that is.
Be thoughtful, friendly and nice. If you think of something a little funny say it, and make someone laugh once in a while.
Being likeable involves not being nasty, mean, crummy, selfish, cruel, etc. It isn't so much adding something to someone's personality. It is making sure the negative stuff isn't there - and if it happens to be then you have to hide it. Even if you try to hide the nasty stuff, though, people sense it.
Generally, most people who have "decent hearts" are likeable. People just need to be themselves and make a little extra effort once in a while.
2006-11-27 16:29:17 · answer #1 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Depends on who you're asking. You really have to be a good reader of other peoples' personalities because the key to being "likeable" is knowing what makes others tic and avoiding said habits. It is probably impossible to be "likeable" to everyone because what pisses one person off might not even bother someone else.
2006-11-27 16:02:57 · answer #2 · answered by jaded1004 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-07 21:44:00 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to be the kind of person you would want to be around yourself. Be kind and thoughtful, smile a lot, be clean and as attractive as possible. Try not to ever hurt anyone's feelings. And try not to be an angry, jealous, nasty person ever. Be glad for the good fortune of others. You get the point, I'm sure.
2006-11-27 16:05:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been told that I have a like able personality. I smile most of the time, and I like dealing with the public.
My x-girl friend once told me that I could not go anywhere without someone not liking me.
I just tell people that you need to be honest with them, treat them the way you want to be treated, and be yourself. Do not try to be someone unless you want to change yourself to be that someone.
2006-11-27 17:10:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile at all times,listen with interest even if you have to listen for hours,talk less bout yourself,and always give sincere praises to those who loves it.Be honest,and don't lie.
2006-11-27 16:03:54 · answer #6 · answered by ike mie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was the kid throughout grammar school, and high school that nobody liked. Picked on, made fun of, called a "fag". I even had thoughts of suicide. A couple of years later, I thought to myself, "it's not my job to worry about who likes me, it's everybody else's job to worry about whether or not I like them". Ever since then, it just seems that people like me. (It's so wierd, but I kind of like it).
2006-11-27 16:19:00 · answer #7 · answered by David D 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well dont be selfish, always think of others try to hold yourself confidently but not snobishly, be interested in what others are saying and well thats about it i hope it helped
2006-11-27 16:02:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋