This person is supposed to be my best friend as of lately our relationship has been feeling...a bit lacking. We were going to hang out this weekend after I got back from my vacation from Florida to try and fix it. She never called me. And here we are two days later and she still hasn't called me. I call her house and cell phone. No one picks up or returns my calls. I'm not very popular could it be that she traded up for better friends? Any advice as to what could possibly be going on would be greatly appreciated. Thanks a bunch
~senge~
2006-11-27 16:12:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I know that she's home because she keeps getting online.
2006-11-27 16:12:46 · update #1
try and contact her on-line, and hey dont be hard on yourself you sound like you have low self esteem, dont let her bring you down. sometimes you may be trying too hard and pushing her look for other friends and she"ll come around when youre not expecting good luck and remember you always have US
2006-11-27 16:17:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would send her an email asking her if there is something that she is upset about. Maybe she was misinformed about something and is holding a grudge for no reason. If she doesnt respond to that I would just move on. If she "traded up" then she is not worth your time. If that is the case she really didnt trade up if she is now friends with people that would judge her based on who she chooses to be friends with. That is her problem though, not yours---some people care way too much about what others think. People change. Find new friends that have similar interests as you--maybe join a club or sport.
Don't worry, you will fall out of friendships throughout your life. Those that stick around are your true friends and only time can let you know who they are.
2006-11-28 00:19:40 · answer #2 · answered by c m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
senge, why do you act as if this the only person who gives substance to your existence?
It is clear from what you said that htis person isno longer interested in being your friend, but that she does not have the decency or guts to tell you. She does not deserve your friendship.
there is so many other people out there who can become your best friends.
Also do not allow friends to define you, for they are mere mortals who will fail you at one or the other time.
I would like to introduce you the Best Friend man can have - his name is Jesus Christ and He never fails or forsake us. He is always the same and He really cares for us - more than we can hope or think of! He is always available and never gossips or backbites. You can discuss everything with Him - for there is nothing He does not know! He is ABSOLUTELY AWESOME and offers PURE LOVE in return. All that He asks, is for you to surrender your life to Him, for in Him you will find true life!!
Let go of your friend and try JESUS! He will hook you up with people who will truly love you and care for you and treat you with the respect that you deserve!
2006-11-28 00:21:23 · answer #3 · answered by godshandmaiden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't sound like she is being a good friend. You would think that she would at least call you back. Just smile and be friendly with people, you will find friends. There are many people that claim the the number of " true friends " you find throughout life will never outnumber your fingers. Good Luck.
2006-11-28 00:19:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is getting online but not answering your calls she is either trying to upset you, being a bi1tch, or doesnt want to be your friend anymore. If thats the way she treats her "friends" you are better off without her. You not being very popular shouldnt stop her from still being friends with you. IF that is the reason, you surely dont need her. I would bet that there are other people that would love to be friends with you. Please dont get hooked on that "being popular" stigma. In 100 years, who is going to care????
2006-11-28 00:17:08 · answer #5 · answered by shirley e 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She's ignoring you... let it go...
I also used to have a super close friend and promises were always broken and ffs he was guy omg! Guys are meant to be super loyal to their friends and it's odd to see backstabbing in the cirle of friendship withint guys...
Anyways for girls... god you'll change friends faster then you'll change shoes! Gossip is all over the place! You should find a friend who will stick by you no matter what...
2006-11-28 00:15:30 · answer #6 · answered by silvs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just stop calling if i were you. im sure you can find better friends than her. she doesn't seem like a good friend if she can't even return phone calls, the least she could do is tell you whats up. idk, maybe she could be having personal problems and just doesn't want to talk to anyone for awhile. i would just give her her space and see what happens.
2006-11-28 00:17:22 · answer #7 · answered by jillrm_03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I don't think she's a true friend or else she won't act so bitchy. You didn't do anything for her to act that way and you certainly haven't done anything and now you're sucking up cause.....
My advice is to let her go she's not worth the tears.
2006-11-28 00:53:01 · answer #8 · answered by sweetdivine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like she's much of a friend.! Try to talk to her! If she ignores you or if she doesn't respond that means she could of moved on! And u can 1! Try to move on!!! HANG IN THERE I KNOW U CAN MAKE IT!!!!!!!!!
HOPE I'VE BEEN A GREAT HELP!!!
2006-11-28 00:42:48 · answer #9 · answered by LiL Ms Cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like she's much of a friend. She'll call when she wants to talk. Be honest with her and tell her how you feel when she does.
2006-11-28 00:16:15 · answer #10 · answered by Deanniepoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋