Calling All People! : ) what should I do about this guy?

Question

This past long weekend I left a message for my guy friend that I have a crush on. He never called me back. Jerk! What kind of friend doesn't call back?

I took this as a sign that he did not like me as much as I thought so at least I know. then I decided to try to back off and disconnect my self so I can move on and just keep him as my friend.
When I came back to school I tried to distance myself but he looked so good that all my feelings came back and I find my self head over hills for him.

He keeps sending me signals that he likes me but he never makes a move so I want to move on.
Why are boys so hard to read?
What should i do about him, try not to like him?

(the call was kind of important because i was going to tell him i wanted to get closer to him and ask him to the movies)

he talks to me and makes me feel like the only person.
when we talk he looks into my eyes
gives me little silly pictures
he walks with me instead of his friends
I like him as a friend for sure.
it's not his looks that make me like him its his peronality, how he views the world and how he makes me laugh

today i did try not to talk to him as much and not get all gogo about him and latter in the day i felt that he was trying to be with me. Am I crazy

we been friends for the past 2 1/2 years

thank you

is he using me?

Answer 1

maybe he was with his family for Thanksgiving and never got the message.

Answer 2

What I'm going to tell you is hard to understand when you're in the middle of a crush, but I wish someone told me this when I was younger.

For the time being, do everything you can to put him out of your mind! It's not because he is bad, but because you have too much emotional energy wrapped up in this guy. Your hopes and expectations are too high. Even if he does start to show interest you'll quickly grow bored of him because he cannot meet these expectations.

You did good by calling him. Now call 10 more boys, and get to know some of them. If you're friends are not calling you psycho for talking to so many boys at school, you're not trying hard enough.

Answer 3

Maybe he was just suprised about the message besides important things like that should never be left as a message it should always be said face-to-face even though it might be discomfortable besides If he's sending you signal that he likes you then he probably does or is starting to be crushing on you give it time and if by then it still doesnt work try to move on remember take things step by step dont try to rush it and before you know it you might go out with him

Answer 4

This is easier said than done but I think you need to just ask him the next time you talk to him. Let's consider the worst outcome, you two never speak again. This will hurt for a while, but someone else will eventually come along and you have to think it was never meant to be. However, If you don't ask and both of your feelings are never fulfilled, you may spend the rest of you life wondering, "What if..."

Take the plunge and ask him. Be bold in life and don't be afraid to "jump." Hold you head up high and say, "I'm a sexy goddess and can have any man I want. And if they don't want me, then they have NO taste in woman what so ever."

Answer 5

Well if he didn't call you back its probably bc he didn't feel the same way. Or not exactly the same way. this is going to sound harsh, but you can bet what he DID do was call all his buddies right away and tell them. Its possible that he has feelings for you (youdidn't give any examples of the mixed signals he is sending), but I would just move on. Forget how he looks....just play it cool...and move on. It will be tough...and you will fool yourself into believing you have moved on, but when you actually do...you will be amazed at how much nicer he becomes. It will, of course, be too late for him at that time.

Answer 6

Don't make the mistake of letting looks control you! If you do then you'll lose it every time he comes around. And for that matter any guy you find hot. Eventually they'll start to take advantage of you! Just because they got gear, doesn't mean that they got heart. Be smart and move on!

Answer 7

Frankly, I dun think that he is interested in you romantically... maybe he just has the habit to boost his own ego, wanna feel he can attract girls' attention. Just feeling that a girl's attention is on him makes his day. I think you should just have a sudden change in behaviour, completely avoid his eyes and pretend he dun exist. Then maybe that'll surprise him and humble him a little. Who knows he'll start talking to you then, and you can fin out whether he's worth it or not? :)

Answer 8

I know it's hard cause you see him and you like him , but you need to try to distance yourself from him as much as you can.
Right now he has the upper hand cause he knows you like him and he's gonna play you, as much as he can ( that's what guys do best ) Try not to cross paths and try and make yourself busy if ever he needs something from you ..It's gonna be hard but you will get his attention like that..
Best of luck to you=)

Answer 9

Move on there are so many more fish in the sea that will treat you with respect. Let them chase you! Don't throw yourself at a guy, they don't like that either.

Answer 10

Maybe he feels shy and got shock about the message... some boys are shy to show their feelings for the one they love. if you think he likes you why don't you make the firt move...