had a three some in the past with a married couple,(still friends with over a decade older) how would you feel if he hadn't dolged on if it was for the woman or both partners. Would you be shocked if it was man/female/man kind?
Women only please, and if you has this occure
2006-11-27 16:00:48 · 10 answers · asked by Juleette 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there over a decade older no this wasnt 10 years ago, there old enough to be parents
2006-11-27 16:05:03 · update #1
the man im with has never had a three-some, but i have...twice...
he doesnt know all the gory details but he knows most. it doesnt seem to bother him, and if it bothers me......not at all. it was with two men. one was bisexual but the other was straight. they didnt touch eachother....thats probably the case with your man as well.
if it happened over a decade ago, you shouldnt let it bother you, it happened before you.
personally i think guy on guy action is hot, so i wouldnt get freaked out if i found out that my boyfriend did another man in his past.
2006-11-27 16:11:05 · answer #1 · answered by beb27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you don't want guys to answer your question which I honestly find a little odd. I guess you just want to know how other women would feel. Well you are missing a large perspective that I'm going to give you anyway.
I've experimented with men and I'm not gay. I am sure of that whereas most men cannot say this. I tried it and didn't like it. If he played around with them and it was just sex, but he's committed to you now then don't worry about it. The girls that spoke before me are right. Let the past be the past. He didn't even have to tell you about it and he did. Good for you for having open communication.
2006-11-28 00:08:34 · answer #2 · answered by Straight but not narrow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would need to know everything. How safe were they?,who did what to who?, and how?, etc. Its not shocking, its just important to know what you're dealing with. I think the man sandwich [been there(2g/1b)], seems more acceptable, but that's up to individual taste. And if they're all still friends, was this a one time thing, or what? Is he expecting you to join next? Think about it.
2006-11-28 00:08:18 · answer #3 · answered by bb4pb510 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you asking? If this is in the past why are you so concerned. If it is happening now and you don't like it, dump him. If you want him to have a threesome with you, just ask him and find a willing friend. If you think he is gay or maybe bi, leave now, unless you are into such things.
2006-11-28 00:05:28 · answer #4 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as it's in the past and doesn't want you to want a three way with u, unless you want one. But it's in the past.
2006-11-28 00:06:37 · answer #5 · answered by already_enuff_spice_in_this 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happened in the past leave in the past. deal with your present and future with him
2006-11-28 00:03:00 · answer #6 · answered by Abby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The past is the past, If you sleep tonight or not you cant do anything about it. And it wont change, Just put it behind you.
2006-11-28 00:04:51 · answer #7 · answered by dontknow86 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im not sure i understand your question "if he dolged? what? i hate for you to use more points but are you thinking he may be gay? i know of threesomes with two guys and " a girl" and they didnt do it for each other AT ALL. is that what you think? maybe you could redo your ?
2006-11-28 00:07:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd go ew. I dunno... I wouldn't really like it. But there's also the fact that past relationships are past relationships.
2006-11-28 00:02:58 · answer #9 · answered by wolfgirl1987 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
eeeeeeeeekkkkkkkk......... yuck !!!! and NO way would I tolerate such a thing........ God bless
2006-11-28 00:04:18 · answer #10 · answered by Annie 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋