people thought he was using me in this other question, what do you think?
sorry its so long
This past long weekend I left a message for my guy friend that I have a crush on. He never called me back. Jerk! What kind of friend doesn't call back?
I took this as a sign that he did not like me as much as I thought so at least I know. then I decided to try to back off and disconnect my self so I can move on and just keep him as my friend.
When I came back to school I tried to distance myself but he looked so good that all my feelings came back and I find my self head over hills for him.
He keeps sending me signals that he likes me but he never makes a move so I want to move on.
Why are boys so hard to read?
What should i do about him, try not to like him?
(the call was kind of important because i was going to tell him i wanted to get closer to him and ask him to the movie)
he talks to me and makes me feel like the only person.
when we talk he looks into my eye
2006-11-27 16:49:13 · 13 answers · asked by Angel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is not using you because you haven't given him a chance to. The way you write your letter sounds as if you think he is teasing you. Boys are hard to read because you are not getting any feedback from him. You should back off. If he really wants you, let him make the first move. If not, then you know it wasn't meant to be. Now, if you are absolutely sure he wants you as much as you want him, and you are not afraid of being embarrassed or turned down, then make your move. Just be sure to have a handkerchief with you for the tears you will be shedding. And FYI... Friends do and say the things we need the most. And don't mind a bit. Because they are your friend. And sometimes friends get too caught up in their own lives to return a phone call or text msg. So give him a little space. You should really get your feelings in check before they wreck you. Just "Be Cool".
2006-11-27 16:59:59 · answer #1 · answered by Ice Princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to say; he may just like you for a friend right now and not ready to move on the the next level, it may be emasculating him if he feels like he is not the one "in the lead" or in control, or it could be he loves being wanted but not really wanting to be loved.
Best thing to do is to try to continue to just be his friend with no further expectations, keep your options open and get active in things you like to do, whether it is atheletic, artistic or intellectual. TThe most desireable people in the world are those that have passion in their life and pursue it...be a passionate person and enjoy your life. If it is meant to be with him, it will happen, if not, if you are pursuing your passion it will lead you to someone that has the same interests that you do.
2006-11-28 00:58:45 · answer #2 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just don't understand why people, both guys and girls are afraid to walk up to someone and ask what they have in mind. I understand it may be difficult and maybe scary, but you will learn that nothing happens unless you let your desires be known. Sure, sometimes you won't get the response you want, but at least you will know and not have to wait for months to find out he or she has no interest. Just like a salesman, you can live with the Yes and No, but not with the Maybe.
God luck
2006-11-28 00:57:03 · answer #3 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well from what you've said all he has done is given you signals...and they can get confused very often so he really cant be using you if nothing has happened. I think its a good idea that you still want to be friends but yes you should try and distance yourself it doesnt sound like he's interested. just be polite and nice to him but give yourself as much time as you need to get over him
2006-11-28 00:57:36 · answer #4 · answered by carolyn t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as you get older you will learn that this young man like almost all men just don't know whar thier doing. it sounds like he wants to get closer to you but he really doesn't know what to say or do next.so maybe you should back off a little bit, one thing is for sure they love a good challenge........ let him come after you. if he thinks you may have lost interest it will turn him around and he'll be after you!!!
2006-11-28 01:01:18 · answer #5 · answered by maybe_baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont run after him, tht makes u seem desperate n pushy...try to back off and not talk to him as much n watch he'll come running back to u...trust me....it wrks :) good luck...!
2006-11-28 01:01:51 · answer #6 · answered by blue rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel, don't hint around cause maybe he thinks you are doing the same thing. You are sending mixed signials by not telling you how you feel about him.
You have nothing to lose cause you don't have anything right now.
2006-11-28 00:55:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You both are at very tender age and have to be shy initially , take your own time and enjoy . Now just relax
2006-11-28 00:54:14 · answer #8 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try ignoring him. He'll come around if he likes you. Don't be pushy.
2006-11-28 00:53:49 · answer #9 · answered by prarierosebud 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-11-28 00:50:57 · answer #10 · answered by princess 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋