how can i overcome shyness? it affects me mostly with girls. also do some girls go out with shy guys, because i know some people who don't talk alot and they get the hottest girlfriends, why?
2006-11-27 16:53:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i am a shy girl.
it just so happend that i fell in love with a shy boy.
well your thinking how did that work well you have to take chances. i got the courage to talk to him and soon enough he asked me out and we've been together since. if you are really into a girl be yourself. if she doesnt like you for you then its not meant to be. you have to take risks. thats what life is all about. dont be afraid of rejection. theres plenty of girls out there for you.
just find the right one.
2006-11-27 16:59:41 · answer #1 · answered by Lacey. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being shy will cut your chances of meeting someone down a lot. Common sense will tell you that a shy person is hard to get to know because it takes a lot just to get a simple conversation out of them. Then again, if put in the right balance it can be a turn on. You dont want to keep your head down while your walking or dart your eyes at girls and then look away quickly. That kinda makes you come across as low self esteem. Try walking through one store. Say for instance, Wal Mart. Try it tomorrow. Before you get out of the car...pump yourself up like you just won the NOBEL prize . PIcture yourself being untouchable like you should be sizzling with every step and girls are just well not your type today. Keep your chin up ..look straight ahead and just walk around like you own the place. If a girl happens to notice you and you catch her looking..just give a half smile , look at her lips then back up to her eyes real quick without moving your head. This will give you the I got it going on look....Practice this...who cares what people think...then you will become a pro..
hope this helps
2006-11-28 01:03:16 · answer #2 · answered by princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shy guys i guess interest some girls. it makes some of us want to know more about them and want to talk to them. but that's just some girls. other girls want a guy to come right out and say it. to overcome it, tell the shy person inside you to shutup and let you have a life.lol. think about what awesome things could happen if you stop being so shy. that's what worked for me anyway. i told myself that i wanted to live life to it's fullest and not miss out on anything because i'm shy. hope i helped. :)
2006-11-28 00:59:51 · answer #3 · answered by lacy_mali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to put yourself out there more. I realize it's hard to do, but you never know how someone will react until you try. And sure, girls would definitely go out with shy guys, but there's a limit, at least in my opinion. He has to be comfortable enough around me to at least hold conversation, but when it comes to the outside world, it really doesn't matter.
2006-11-28 00:57:37 · answer #4 · answered by Allie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys maybe shy or they may not talk a lot but they are still confident
2006-11-28 00:56:12 · answer #5 · answered by girlwiththegoodies 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋