like this morning we got in a big fight over who was going to pick up dinner you see i can,t do very much i was through from a car window when i was like 6 and now i have alot of pain in my legs and back plus i have a glass eye so he seems to think that i don,t want to do these little things but thats not true i just can,t di then all like he can my parentes told me to leave him he doessn,t love me please help me to under stand whats wrong with me why can,t i make him happy i have to go back in the hosptal soon for another opration and he is afaid i could die please tell him i will be all right i love him so much an i think he does to
2006-11-27 16:54:00 · 5 answers · asked by dar 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He could be overprotective, or you could be stubborn in wanting to do things the hard way. Some men like to "fix" everything, and a few may do it to the point of getting into arguments. It could be that he is controlling too, watch for that. He probably needs to back off and let you do some things. Being helpless is not fun, so I can see you wanting to do things though it may be uncomfortable. Offering assistance is fine, backing off when you say you can do it is better. Explain to him that you don't want to be totally dependant on someone in this way.
2006-11-27 17:02:17 · answer #1 · answered by Mike H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men tend to show their emotions the wrong way. He is probably just really worried and don't know how to handle it. Hopefully, your situation should better after the operation. He is just scared like you said-sometimes, the smallest things get to men when they are under stress.
2006-11-27 16:58:08 · answer #2 · answered by RoxieC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either hes picking fights with you because hes scared that youre going to die and hes pushing you away so it wont hurt as much if you did.....or hes tired of being in the relationship and hes looking for the easy way out...you to break up with him... sit down and talk about it
2006-11-27 17:06:16 · answer #3 · answered by beb27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with you .just because you and your boyfriend argue doesnt mean that you dont love each other.at the end of the day you should base your decicions on your own feelings not your parents
2006-11-27 16:59:12 · answer #4 · answered by jez 13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WTF? Please learn how to spell before you post another question.
2006-11-27 16:57:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋