ok... well recently i've moved all d way to canada from europe.. and staying here for more opportunities.. bt my bf back in europe who i really love and i knw he loves me, been together abt a year and so... he's gna come and live here and find a job... so he can be with me... bt recently i jst miss him so much and its taking him so long to sort everything out there to come here... and im jst getting frustrated coz i miss him so much bt i jst seem to put the anger on him mostly and we jst get upset and have fights we always make up and he understands wot im going thro rite now bt i keep wondering y i am doing this! its driving me nuts.. am i such a bad person or is it jst natural to be so confused???
2006-11-27 16:58:15 · 6 answers · asked by xxshoppoholicxx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are confused as i was when i was reading your question! girl you should be happy that you have someone who cares enough to come all the way from Europe to Canada to be with you! i know that you want everything to happen fast and for you to see him but it is called patience and obviously you do not know how to take your emotions therefore you take it out as anger and release it on him! that is not good because you are pushing him away a little bit at a time and do you honestly want to argue with him all the time? if you keep your attiude as of right now there is a chance that you will push him and you two might break up! try to think positive and how luck you are to have a bf who does that to be with his gf and how many other girls would want that too! be thankful for what you have and not what you do not have-your bf in Canada-and remember that all good things come to those who wait!
2006-11-27 17:06:03 · answer #1 · answered by icycrissy27blue 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's normal. Moving from Europe to North America is a major move! Not to mention a major step in your relationship...all of that is incredible stressful! Both of you under huge stress, missing each other, and trying to make it all work...chances are you will fight until he gets here, gets settled, and then you two will be happy and calm and laugh about all the petty fighting. Just try and not let all the stress get to you too much...it will all work out. Good Luck!
2006-11-28 01:02:27 · answer #2 · answered by kayth1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be natural to feel the way you are feeling in the situation you are in. I think that once he is able to get over here to be with you things will settle down. Try not to take it out on him I am sure he is trying as hard as he can to be with you. Instead spend your time on the phone talking about your plans for the future and how much you love and miss him.
2006-11-28 01:01:24 · answer #3 · answered by Becky R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u need to chill a little bit. It takes a lot to sort out everything to move that far. Just dont think about it, wait. Give it time. And everything should work out OK.
2006-11-28 01:01:00 · answer #4 · answered by Megan_016 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear friend
Please control your ego.
to maintain any relationship there has to be certain amount of compromise with own ideas. but this has to be from both the partners.
All the best.
A brother.
2006-11-28 01:03:32 · answer #5 · answered by Soul_infinite 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he moves to canada to live with you, then it's really serious ....And your not a bad person, just human
2006-11-28 01:02:26 · answer #6 · answered by keithr2003 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋