he got me alone for a hour and klissed me im not sure if im turning gay or im bi what should i do
2006-11-27 16:22:07 · 14 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you're asking.....You're gay!
2006-11-27 16:24:30 · answer #1 · answered by FRANKFUSS 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you can be turned gay, your either gay or your not. You should ask yourself these question...have u ever thought about guys in this way before? Have you ever considered pursuing a relationship with another male prior to this experiance? and of, course are you even attracted to males? Sometimes we can find ourselves attracted to people, maybe of the same sex, because we feel drawn to them. They could have strong personalities or have qualities we admire, this doesnt always mean we are gay. I think you should consider experimenting, but let your friend know you only want to test the waters, he has to know that if at any time you begin to feel uncomfortable he should back down a bit. I hope you figure things out!
2006-11-27 16:28:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You aren't turning anything!
You just may not know what you already are...
You should do some soul searching, and also find out how he feels toward you, and what he's expecting...
If you liked him kissing you, there's nothing wrong with it...
The most important thing is to continue communication...
since this involves both you and he, you need to discuss this with him...
Maybe you'll find that you want more than a friendship from him, maybe not, but that's up to you.
2006-11-29 20:16:48 · answer #3 · answered by Zack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you kinda liked it then go for it. You won't know for sure till you try.
Sounds like you're at the least Bi and uncertain.
But talk to your friend first. You don't want to start something you might not be able to finish. Maybe this friend REALLY likes you.
2006-11-29 03:22:36 · answer #4 · answered by mrspunkmeister2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's too bad that the bonding of men in our culture has got this threat of being gay hanging over it. You can have strong feelings for another man -= or even enjoy hugging and kissing without being "gay". I am gay and I enjoy physical contact with my (straight) male friends ( and their girlfriends and wives) we don't want to have sex because this isn't sex - it's love.
2006-11-27 16:34:50 · answer #5 · answered by Trader S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like it, but you still like girls too, sounds like you might be bi. If you're comfortable with that then why not kiss him back or date him? Have fun! Work out what you like best and go with it - you can't change who you are so you may as well enjoy it : )
2006-11-27 16:27:49 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may be just open to the physical but not the emotional. Just talk to him and be honest. U can have some fun playing around and it wont mean anything. Just don't lead him on to think u want a relationship if u are just doing it to have fun. There are many shades of sexuality.
2006-11-27 17:10:51 · answer #7 · answered by jtrompet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it either sounds like you are really good friends or that you liked it a lot cause if you were sure either way you wouldn't be on here, i say keep an open mind about it and just do what your heart mind and body tells you to, nothing wrong with seeing what may or may not work for you
2006-11-27 16:26:26 · answer #8 · answered by pimpmehard 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-13 15:33:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what ever feels right to you. See what happens. If you like how things are going, then continue and that must be what you want. It doesn't make you a bad person. Do what your heart, mind and body tells you...good luck.
2006-11-27 16:30:08 · answer #10 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"gay'" is just labelling people.
it is just an emotional acts...
you may see some male dogs kiss and tease each other
they are not gay dogs
2006-11-27 16:34:16 · answer #11 · answered by Steven A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋