Attracting wrong kinds of men... Sorry had to repost?

Question

I've noticed a trend about the type of men I date: they all have one issue or another. And I'm like a damn social worker, always trying to help them get it together. And after I've gone on an emotional rollercoaster, I always end up dumped. I just got out of a "relationship" where the guy constantly lied and has cheated on me several times. All of this after I helped him get situated in graduate school. (We're both in the same program so I don't know why he needed my help. One of his family members is a dean at our school.)

I don't understand it because I am attractive, intelligent and outgoing, yet I keep attracting men with emotional/mental issues. Why do I keep attracting these kinds of men and how can I stop?

Answer 1

I'm sure you're "attracting" all kinds of guys.

You're just saying yes to the "drama-kings"

Try getting to KNOW guys longer before you go out with them.

Answer 2

Maybe ur afraid to commit emotionally, so you defer to physical, or intelectual challenges.
Set a goal, no more loosers, don't be afraid to date a man more intelligent then you, start looking for what a relationship can do for you, not what you can do for it. Some reverse Kennedy there sweetheart, never fails.

Answer 3

You don't attract them, you are attracted to them. Most men don't want to spend the rest of their life with someone who wants to mother and care for them and you appear to be searching for that role to play. You need to take the responsibility for the men you chose.

Answer 4

i know exactly how you feel. i only wish i knew the answer to this one. but i do know there are a lot of other girls experiencing the same thing.

Answer 5

sorry cant help you out i have the same problem if only we knew