Family & Relationships - 26 November 2006

My b/f was gonna propose to me b4 but then I got the phone call about my g-pa dying. It has been about a month and now I find out I am pregnant with his kid. He's gonna propose today, his friend told my friend. We are in love and he knows about the baby and says it should bring us closer together. We are 19. He'll be 20 next month. My parents don't know about ne of it. We have been going out for 4 years today.
My friend is putting doubt in my mind. Here are my questions:
Would he have stayed if he didn't care??
Can this work?? Will the marriage last??
Will this ruin my entire life or make it better??
Will my parents want to disown me??
Why am I nervous and he's ok with it??
Please Answer. Thanx!!

2006-11-26 08:32:40 · 6 answers · asked by Hott Gymnast 1 in Singles & Dating

my mom is suddenly attractive and we went 2 ihop 4 breakfast and a guy walks up 2 her and gives her this piece of paper with his # on it!!!!!! I'm happy 4 her but she hasn't dated since i was born and i'm 13!!!! what should i do????

2006-11-26 08:32:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok say my sister is a drugie and im not promoting it but maby she comes home stoned sometines and i dont want her to get in trubble so is there a way to stop being hi? (hypethetical)

2006-11-26 08:31:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-11-26 08:31:10 · 28 answers · asked by mdygsj 1 in Singles & Dating

My cousin (11 years old and male) wanted to see if he could set a record. He wants to see if he could set the record of having your feet tickled for the longest time. I told him he can't, because of the fact that someone who is not ticklish could say they are and last forever having their feet tickled. He refuses to admit he is wrong, but I do give it to him, he has really ticklish feet and can last a while. I can't even touch his socked feet without him giggling. He had his sister tickle his feet (with him wrapped in a blanket with his socked feet sticking out of one end) for 5 minutes and 32 seconds and he was in complete hysterics, his eyes were watering. I just want to know if the public can tell me how long their kids, cousins, or brothers can last having their feet tickled and how ticklish they are. Just to see where my cousin is at (Even though I still think its a pointless record) I WILL GIVE 10PTS TO ANSWER WITH GOOD OPINION AND PERSONAL EXPERIENCE WITH TICKLING KIDS

2006-11-26 08:31:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-11-26 08:30:28 · 6 answers · asked by kate 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My cousin (11 years old and male) wanted to see if he could set a record. He wants to see if he could set the record of having your feet tickled for the longest time. I told him he can't, because of the fact that someone who is not ticklish could say they are and last forever having their feet tickled. He refuses to admit he is wrong, but I do give it to him, he has really ticklish feet and can last a while. I can't even touch his socked feet without him giggling. He had his sister tickle his feet (with him wrapped in a blanket with his socked feet sticking out of one end) for 5 minutes and 32 seconds and he was in complete hysterics, his eyes were watering. I just want to know if the public can tell me how long their kids, cousins, or brothers can last having their feet tickled and how ticklish they are. Just to see where my cousin is at (Even though I still think its a pointless record) I WILL GIVE 10PTS TO ANSWER WITH GOOD OPINION AND PERSONAL EXPERIENCE WITH TICKLING KIDS

2006-11-26 08:30:07 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm having my first anniversary, and I want to have a party for my friends and family because most of them were not at the wedding. I want to have things like roti and borritos, things to show how different but at the same time how similar we are. I have 3 months, please help.

2006-11-26 08:29:51 · 5 answers · asked by Angi S 2 in Weddings

ok she is hot as hell lol i am very comfortable with her and so is she. we like to play around and well since we are so comfortable with her, we usually make out (not for sexual causes but because we love each other) ( we are 16). and occasionally i put y hand on her a*s*s and she smiles and just goes with it. and then she gets real close. now is it ok to get "feel good" with her. as long as it doesnt lead to sex? i mean, can i touch her a*s*s as long as it doesnt elad. can we touch each other as long as it doesnt lead to somethin else?

2006-11-26 08:29:50 · 7 answers · asked by Que Pasa Mufasa? 1 in Singles & Dating

What can i do? I see him at school everyday for seven hours but next year i will go outside my country to study. He is so nice and so calm. He wants me from September but i don't know if i like him too. And yesterday he told me:''I love you, more than anything in this world". Help, please?

2006-11-26 08:29:06 · 20 answers · asked by music princess 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey,

My girlfriend says we're moving too fast ( I mentioned that I would like to get engaged to her and move in together - After we've been together for more then 1 yr). We've been seeing each other for 5 mths now. We told each other we love each other. She was happy that I wanted to get engaged and live with her. Last week everything was fine but a few days later this happened. She won't answer my calls and wrote an email telling me she considers me one of her best friends and she can't bare to talk to me about this. I left a msg. on her ans. mchn. telling her I'll give her some space, I care deeply for her, I consider her one of my best friends, and that I want to talk this through. No ans. (been 3 days). My friend was telling me to wait it out and let her call but I don't think she can since she fears confrontations. She was the one who originally pressured me into a gf-bf relationship and then told me she wanted to get married. What's going on and what should I do?

2006-11-26 08:29:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If he does, what would you do because I love going into girly stores and looking for clothes. For some odd reason I love to bowl and roller skate, but bowling is to dumb to do for a date you know>?

Help me please!

2006-11-26 08:27:50 · 15 answers · asked by bad_kittie001 2 in Singles & Dating

What is the ideal height of a man for a woman?

2006-11-26 08:26:46 · 19 answers · asked by Misty 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriends mom is a total B$%^ and I cant believe her she treats me like crap all the time because I told him about his mother talking badly about me to one of my friends. He went and well told her off for it. and now she is treating me even worse. She has never liked me and then when I got pregnant she got worse.And then she treats him horribly, screams and haulers at him, tells him he's not gonna get very far in life. Is there something I should do? Im no kiss ***. I just want to make it a little easier for him and her to get along. He is even afraid that she will kick him out. Its getting to the point where Im afraid that she is going to take it out on my baby. And I dont want my baby to be around that much haustility. Anyways Please I need advice on what to do with all this. Should I just leave it alone or so something about it?

2006-11-26 08:26:13 · 5 answers · asked by lil_frosty93654 3 in Family

boyfriend they have been together for like 3 years and and it is not getting any better they fight all the time they fight so much she is just completly used to it now like she expects it. What is she thinking she says that she is still with him because she thinks it's just easier to stay What can i do or say to get her to realise that she could make a different choice and be happier i mean she probably already knows it but what could motivate her more to make a change

2006-11-26 08:24:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we just met online and he keeps saying that he loves me over and over again and again .i think i do like maybe even love him.he's a christian

2006-11-26 08:24:28 · 18 answers · asked by ·.·•ς๏ς๏•·.· 1 in Singles & Dating

I really really like this guy, but i am soooooooooooo shy whenever i am around him. He used to like me too, but i don't know if he does any more. I am always thinking about him and i don't know what to do. I could never tell him, or anybody else. What should i do????

2006-11-26 08:24:19 · 26 answers · asked by Mals 1 in Friends

Just curious as to how many people have a livejournal. I know a lot of people have a MySpace account, but I don't know as many people with a Livejournal.

2006-11-26 08:23:53 · 1 answers · asked by Jennifer L 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I started seeing this guy a few months ago.... after hanging out for a couple of weeks he freeked out and broke up with me because he thought I wanted to get serious.....I explained to him that I didn't want to get serious...I don't really have time for that right now... I just thought it was nice to have someone to spend time with occationaly and if I got laid to boot, so much the better. so we started hanging out again but now he's acting weird...like he wants to be serious.... he get all poutty if I don't snuggle with him, and he always tells me that he just want's to spend time with me.... I'm just trying to get some and he wants to cuddle!!??? what the hell?? I wouldn't mind being serios with him, but why tell me you don't want to and then act like a girl!! any ideas?

2006-11-26 08:22:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Future mother in law has always disrespected her son. She knew his step father was abusing him, but she made my bf out to be a liar to everyone back then. Today, she is the most manipulative and controlling woman I know! Since she has never given him respect, she NOW disrespects the whole family. He has complained to her about it. She kept doing it. So I wrote her a long and PoLiTe letter. I didnt say one mean word to her in the last two years or the letter. I asked her to please respect our decisions as parents and brought up boundary lines, and to please explain her side, so we could understand her. She wouldnt write back. Now she is telling everyone she is afraid to come over and see her four month old grand daughter, because she fears what I might do to her. AS IF! One example: At my boyfriends mothers birthday party, We said to her we did not want anyone who had been drinking to hold our baby. What does she do? She passes my baby to her uncle, who was clearly drunk! what to do?

2006-11-26 08:21:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My mother is a sociopath and only believes what she says, how do I overcome that? She made money from my daughters death after refusing to pay for the cardboard box to cremate her in. And she is wealthy! It was their gun, and they yelled at her right before it happened. He is a doctor and she is a therypist. And she has told me that it is none of my buisness what they do with their money, or how they got it! I havent spoken to her for over 5 years, since my daughters funeral (when I walked in on my step father working on my daughters life Ins. policy at her funeral). It has also affected my relationship with the rest of her family. They seem to forget the iron, telephone, and cast iron skillet she beat me with as a child. Why do they forget that? They saw it? Why do they not hold her accountable, instead they blame me? Tell me I need to fix this because she is getting old.It is because she has money isnt it? Sad but true...Any advice would be greatly appriciated.

2006-11-26 08:21:50 · 6 answers · asked by April was here 1 in Family

we live with my parents...so i understand him having to pitch in around the house, but i will make plans with him a week in advance...and then the day we are supposed to do whatever he will cancel to go hunting with my dad or brother or want to go out with his friends...or offer to work an extra shift! it really bothers me and i've made that clear...i work 50 hours a week, so i really only have the weekends to spend with him...but he'd rather do something else! what can i do?!?!?!?!?!

2006-11-26 08:20:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Anyone know how I should test the guy i am inlove with.... or does neone know what i can do or say to him to se if he does like me....???? anything??????????????????????

2006-11-26 08:19:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am very smart and interested in adult, not teen-ager things. In Septembre I met an older man (32 years of age) on the métro. He is from another country and travels around the world. We talked well with each other and went to dinner. I decided to give my virginity to him and it was very happy but I thought it would be just one time. But he did write to me like his promises and then we write and couriel (email) and telephon and when he come again I introduce him to my mother and grandmother and he stay with us.
They approve of him as my lover for now but not of course to think of marriage. He is really nice to me and treats me as equal. He is everything a teen-age girl dreams for in a older-man lover. My problem is that I tell him I am 17 when I am just 14! 14 is age of majority for make love in my country. I am afraid when I tell truth he think I not honest about other things. How to tell him? I ask my mom and grand-mere to leave it for me to do but I worry. Help, please!

2006-11-26 08:19:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what type of girls do polish uys like

2006-11-26 08:18:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 08:18:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My husband dad gave him and idea to camp out over night to get on and sell it on ebay (calgirl30) and now that there are on ebay my fatherinlaw is giving my husband pressure what the deal?

2006-11-26 08:18:20 · 1 answers · asked by Erica 1 in Family

I have a picture of donnie boise at about 10 years on on my yahoo 360 please look at the pic and if you know or have seen this pic before let me know. Donnie boise today would be in his 30's and his step dad is James Mercer he did live in Ardmore, okla. please contact me if you know him. littlesilvereagle97@yahoo.com

2006-11-26 08:17:49 · 6 answers · asked by da 2 in Friends

what did you do? or have you been caught in the act, what did they do?

2006-11-26 08:16:59 · 5 answers · asked by nodumgys 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-26 08:16:42 · 17 answers · asked by Haley 3 in Friends