My boyfriends mom is a total B$%^ and I cant believe her she treats me like crap all the time because I told him about his mother talking badly about me to one of my friends. He went and well told her off for it. and now she is treating me even worse. She has never liked me and then when I got pregnant she got worse.And then she treats him horribly, screams and haulers at him, tells him he's not gonna get very far in life. Is there something I should do? Im no kiss ***. I just want to make it a little easier for him and her to get along. He is even afraid that she will kick him out. Its getting to the point where Im afraid that she is going to take it out on my baby. And I dont want my baby to be around that much haustility. Anyways Please I need advice on what to do with all this. Should I just leave it alone or so something about it?
2006-11-26 08:26:13 · 5 answers · asked by lil_frosty93654 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I don't know the dynamics of your relationship, like, where you live, do you live together, is he living at home, you live at home?? If I were you, I'd stear clear of the mother. Give her time to cool her heels. Maybe after a few months, years, decades, she'll come to her senses and stop treating you so horribly. Have you thought about asking her why she dislikes you so much? Could be something very simple, that for the sake of the baby, could be fixed rather easily. A hostile environment is no way to live, nor raise a child. If she continues to treat you with hostility, avoid her. It's really that simple. Life is too short. No one deserves having any family member, whether or married or not, treat them with such disrespect. You could try- talking to her. Make an effort to make ammends. If she's not willing to try, then bag the whole idea and move on with your life- without her in it.
2006-11-26 08:31:34 · answer #1 · answered by restless_nymph 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why isn't your boyfriend out on his own? If he's having a baby with you, how is going to support the two of you if he's not even living on his own?
His mother is probably viewing you as the evil girl who is ruining her son's life with a baby he can't support. There is nothing you can do about that attitude. Only your boyfriend can do something about that by stepping up the plate and proving otherwise.
2006-11-26 16:40:20 · answer #2 · answered by Karen L 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well my mom had the same problem w/ her new husbands mother and she just sat her down and talked w/ her about their problems b/c my mom had left her husband and went to this other guy and then they got back together a few months later and her mom and his daughters hated my mom but after my mom talked to his mom about all the problems between them they get along great now so just tell her yall need to talk and tell her your sorry and im almost positive she will say the same!
2006-11-26 16:33:10 · answer #3 · answered by breanna d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kick her outa ur life....stay away from her...it wont get any easier....ive benn married for 9 yrs and we FINALLY dismissed her....these past 4and 1/2 years have been soooooo peaceful...NO drama!!!! good luck
2006-11-27 00:52:00 · answer #4 · answered by truthgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mostly let your boyfriend handle it. she is causing enough friction between you and her anyway.
If you butt in, she will have something else to hate you for.
If she continues when you have the baby then you tell her
to butt out.
You will have the right to do so then..
2006-11-26 16:33:35 · answer #5 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋