Family & Relationships - 26 November 2006

I gave him a job and he screwed me over - then he bad mouthed me to all my business contacts. On several occasions I have left my home intent on causing him severe pain but came home before I got to him. These impulses are getting stronger and closer together. Help ?

2006-11-26 07:49:08 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How do i get back at this girl that made my life hell?
im 14 live in the midwest, im goth, she is a "goth" but realy she is a poser, she told me when we were friends that if she lost 30 pounds she would switch to hollister, and areopostle. ect. first she got pissed cause i didnt agree with her political views/morals. Well she got PIssed and made rumors about me and i wanna get back at her. i know its not nice and imature but come on people. she won if i dont get back at her. just please help!

2006-11-26 07:48:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so yeah i might be a bit young but i supose it could be called "Puppy love" because i am only 13. Well anyway, my x boyfriend and I were going out for about four months, then about a day after we "properly" kissed, he started to ***** about me, saying i was a rubbish kisser and also he called me a fridge, he is 13 aswell but even though most girls dont find him atractive, he belives that he is "gods gift" , if you get what im getting at? . We dont go to the same secondary schools and we are both in year eight (English system of schooling) I dont want to go back out with him but i sort of want him to "love" me again so then if he did ask me out, i could hurt him back and say that i dont want to go out with him because he bitched about me.. etc.
so is this normal or is he just driving me crazy!
Sorry if my spelling and/or grammer is wrong bt im dislexic

2006-11-26 07:48:43 · 4 answers · asked by XxXToMuchToThinkAboutXxX 2 in Singles & Dating

we've been together for 18 mos and i'm totally in love with him. he's my soulmate. there is no chance that he will stay and no chance i am moving. he's leaving in 1 month, how should i handle?

2006-11-26 07:48:14 · 12 answers · asked by sunshine 1 in Singles & Dating

here's a link

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2006-11-26 07:47:36 · 3 answers · asked by entranced82 3 in Singles & Dating

I just can't decide.

2006-11-26 07:47:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He' my ex-boyriend. I'm 17, he's 19. I think That a true friend should always be there.

2006-11-26 07:47:16 · 15 answers · asked by hunnybee032001 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

He stated that he liked me very much.My feelings for him were genuine and it was a lustful attraction for me too.We got to know one another for about a month.His wife had no clue about us.She still doesn't.He sent me pictures of his family life and I sent pictures of myself and my kids.He wanted me physically and offered to pay half of my airfare to fly down to where he lives.I turned his offer down for personal reasons.Anyway later he's like we have to break up.We weren't a couple in the first place.He kicked me down and then later again he hurt me emotionally by saying I still have strong affections for you after he kicked me down.Now we are no longer friends or aquaintences.I think he's a playa and a dog.He's a 45 yr old ,married with 2 kids.I can't stand him now..All pictures I have on him he sent Im going to cleanse my computer free of him.Should I let him be and sit back and watch what he deserve's.Im a 38 yr old female.What's your opinion.

2006-11-26 07:47:11 · 6 answers · asked by atinanoskcirenosrebor 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I love this girl so badly in my class. In class she always sits beside her friend, (not near me, but we cant pick out seats). She is in all my classes, and sometimes we talk (not much). Two years ago in school my friend suddenly went, Ill give you his number over at her (she must of been starring at me), but Im not sure. Is there anything I can do to sorta give her a hint (or even asking her out) about my love for her. Something that wont erupt the class in OOHHS!!. You know something like needed help with work. Something that will attract her attention, or get her talking to me! HELP PLEASE!!

2006-11-26 07:47:06 · 5 answers · asked by matthew 1 in Singles & Dating

like how are their personality how do they look like how do they treat their girlfriends, what are their best features??

2006-11-26 07:46:53 · 5 answers · asked by vamp32annie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 07:46:28 · 20 answers · asked by ♥Olivia 69♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been through so much. I've cheated once, he's lied to me so many times. Things are very good between us now, but there's still days where I wonder if he still lies to me about stuff. I've caught him sending girls messages on myspace (not just friendly ones) and I don't agree with him getting high, but he's gone behind my back and done it before. Sometimes when he hangs out with his friends, I worry a lot. I tell him how I feel but he just tells me not to worry. He also cancels plans on me a lot. and the excuses he makes up don't seem real to me. Its just one bad thing after another. I don't have that bad of luck. How can I feel better about this and trust him more? Maybe I'm just overreacting.

2006-11-26 07:46:20 · 1 answers · asked by Skyla 1 in Singles & Dating

I`m a sophmore in highschool and feel lonely most times. I suffer from shyness and feel ackward even among my friends. There are some people I want to hang out with, boys and girls, but they seem close and I just feel totally ackward whenever I see them.
My crush is in that group. I talk to him almost everyday and I think he likes me as a friend, but I want to get closer to him and hang out with him. The main part of this whole problem is my shyness around practically everyone! I talk to myself to practice, but it never helps. I just freeze up when I`m with other people. What I`m trying to say is how do I open up and feel more comfortable around people, maybe make some new friends??

2006-11-26 07:46:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my bro and his friend are fighting over it, make it stop

2006-11-26 07:45:53 · 3 answers · asked by bailey4mail 2 in Friends

I have a crush on this gurl at school. She is the same age as me and is very pretty. I dont think she knows i exist...? Everytime i wanna ask her out shes alwayz with her friends, i wanna ask her out - just me and her-. I dont want anybody else to hear it or else rumors will spread all over the school. What should i do and How do i ask her out?

2006-11-26 07:45:37 · 5 answers · asked by PetShopp 1 in Singles & Dating

whatever i do nothing satisfies her.. its like i was just a big mistake.. i have great education. bought a house a few years ago and have a kick a ss job.. in a lawyers office.. and yet i seem to be a failure in her eyes .. what should i do ..?? is she just doing it so i could keep up the good work?? are moms secretely proud and dont admitt it...???

2006-11-26 07:45:20 · 6 answers · asked by jack jack 7 in Family

ok i asked earlier if anyone thought if my husband was cheating. here are details, he leaves a whole weekend without contact, says he is going hunting,turns his phone off..never brings anything back. and has girls on myspace call him...now do you think he is cheating?

2006-11-26 07:45:02 · 14 answers · asked by m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I`m a sophmore in highschool and feel lonely most times. I suffer from shyness and feel ackward even among my friends. There are some people I want to hang out with, boys and girls, but they seem close and I just feel totally ackward whenever I see them.
My crush is in that group. I talk to him almost everyday and I think he likes me as a friend, but I want to get closer to him and hang out with him. The main part of this whole problem is my shyness around practically everyone! I talk to myself to practice, but it never helps. I just freeze up when I`m with other people. What I`m trying to say is how do I open up and feel more comfortable around people, maybe make some new friends??

2006-11-26 07:44:55 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What do you do when you are interested in them? When your not? What about in a classroom setting with lecture going on? Do you stare back?

2006-11-26 07:44:43 · 9 answers · asked by DannyC 2 in Singles & Dating

Have moved away with husband and 1 year old. Have left family and friends behind. I dont know how to make new friends as am quite shy. Any suggestions?

2006-11-26 07:44:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-26 07:43:46 · 8 answers · asked by AL 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my husband is trying to get some help . we are trying to get him home and the cost is higher than we exspected it would be . so we wanted to know where could we go to get help with that . we have kids and where we live the exspense is high so we don't get enough for any thing else .please help me if you could

2006-11-26 07:43:30 · 4 answers · asked by sweet&low 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my bro and his friend are fighting over the capatle, pleas ehelp me.

2006-11-26 07:43:22 · 4 answers · asked by bailey4mail 2 in Family

my best friend died, she was about to get married, and have a baby, and i think it was my fault. i had called her to come pick me up, (she is 7 years older) and on our way to the movies we were hit by a drunk driver. how do i get over it?? i cant eat, sleep and cant stop crying!

2006-11-26 07:43:10 · 6 answers · asked by ladypiper04 1 in Friends

when i saw her at a first site i loved her and say my love to her and she also accepted my love and now we were very happy still that day. one day i saw my past lover i loved her sincerely 3yrs before. oneday her father get transferred to a another place then i am thinking of her and wait for her fo 2-yrs. Now, her father get transfer and come to her old house were i first met her. yesterday she come to me and ask about her love she is still loving me but i dont what to reply her.
Now i am loving another girl and i dont know what to do know still i have feelings on my past lover.

2006-11-26 07:43:02 · 7 answers · asked by harikrishnan R 1 in Singles & Dating

my father in law still talks to and visits my huband(been married 9 yrs) ex g-frd. He thinks she a damn angel...i do everyhthing for him, i make sure he eats dinner and i go shopping for him.include him in all family outings...alot...i do it cause i want i but as soon as se comes into town or calls him for money he drpos evrything or her...should i tell him how i feel or just drop it and try to ignore it?

2006-11-26 07:42:54 · 2 answers · asked by truthgrl 2 in Family

2006-11-26 07:42:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when i saw her at a first site i loved her and say my love to her and she also accepted my love and now we were very happy still that day. one day i saw my past lover i loved her sincerely 3yrs before. oneday her father get transferred to a another place then i am thinking of her and wait for her fo 2-yrs. Now, her father get transfer and come to her old house were i first met her. yesterday she come to me and ask about her love she is still loving me but i dont what to reply her.
Now i am loving another girl and i dont know what to do know still i have feelings on my past lover.

2006-11-26 07:41:43 · 5 answers · asked by harikrishnan R 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy that i know and we are pretty good friends. He always likesto bug me and talk to me. I really like him, like more than just a friend, but i am so nervous whenever i am around him, well pretty much around most guys? I am pretty sure that he used to like me too. What do i do?

2006-11-26 07:40:42 · 3 answers · asked by Mals 1 in Friends

How do you know if you or someone else is "really" shallow?

2006-11-26 07:40:16 · 9 answers · asked by Dwaine 1 in Singles & Dating