ok i asked earlier if anyone thought if my husband was cheating. here are details, he leaves a whole weekend without contact, says he is going hunting,turns his phone off..never brings anything back. and has girls on myspace call him...now do you think he is cheating?
2006-11-26 07:45:02 · 14 answers · asked by m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Since you put it that way, and we know he is not in the woods, or atleast your's. No pun intended. If you really think he is cheating, hire a Private investigator and have him followed. Thats really the only way you will find out. Most men who are cheating wont come right out and say it. As far as his, myspace page.....If you know his password. I would get on a cancel his account, make him think that myspace cancelled it for whatever reason. Oh yeah, then I would break that cell phone of his, this way his hoochie's cant get a hold of him for atleast a while.
2006-11-26 08:39:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you are asking this question - it seems like a second time - that tells me right there that there is a problem. whether he is cheating or not - there is a break in your trust and that alone can make or break a relationship.
first - i don't understand why he feels that he can leave all weekend (or for ANY amount of time) with out any contact and think that is acceptable!?!?! hunting or not there is just no reason to have no contact between the two of you - not if he isn't hiding something.
the act of speaking to other girls - is not the cheating gage you need to focus on. i would gather all of it as a whole and think about what you expect this relationship to bring to you. if he didn't cheat - will that be enough to make it work? are you asking this on line to really get an answer or to make a choice(that you may have already made subconsciously) that will make you happy.
all in all - trust is huge....no matter how it was broken you have to decide if it is enough to keep building the relationship on it.
2006-11-26 08:13:08 · answer #2 · answered by litlbigdg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he is cheating, he is not out there hunting in the woods, he may be on a hunt but for other women. he turns his phone off because he doesn't want to be bothered with u. next time i would say i was going hunting with him, and see how he reacts.
2006-11-26 09:53:40 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? What's the deal with girls on myspace calling him? How does that work? How do you know that for sure? Yes, I think he's cheating and I think you shouldn't put up with that junk!
2006-11-26 07:55:40 · answer #4 · answered by butterflylover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Offer to go on one of his hunting trips with him , or ask a brother or a friend to ask him to take them along for a trip and see what his reaction would be !
Or just have someone close to you that you trust follow him when he goes on one of his hunting trips..
Best of luck
2006-11-26 07:54:22 · answer #5 · answered by Samantha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes
You should go hunting, turn off your cell phone, and disapear as frequent as you like. When you can't see-um compete with um
2006-11-26 08:00:09 · answer #6 · answered by Reenell W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, only you can answer this question. You know your husband, not us. Have you talked to him about your feelings?? If you feel that he is cheating, trust your feelings and talk to him.
2006-11-26 08:05:47 · answer #7 · answered by k1e9r6r3y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably hunting for the elusive "home wreckeritum, either europeus or americanus." Maybe get a lawyer?
2006-11-26 07:55:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, Yeah, Same old story.
Yeah, maybe he is Cheating.
2006-11-26 07:48:58 · answer #9 · answered by Latino_Lifestyle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!
2006-11-26 07:49:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋