Family & Relationships - 26 November 2006

I am pregnant with my b/f's kid. When I told him he said he would be there for me through out it all. Would you guys have ditched or stayed?? Does it mean we may actually have a real relationship?? Should I be glad he wants to help??
We are 19. Would he have left me if he didn't care??
He says he has something for me tonight. My friend says that his friend says he's gonna propose. Should I say yes??
we have been together for 4 years today.
We have talked about getting married eventually but I thought that was far away. Is 19 too young to get married?? I do love him.
His friend said he was thinking of proposing b4 but I wasn't ready then so I told him b4 he asked. He said we could give it some time. It has been a few months.
My friend just asked him and he said yes, he's gonna, but not to tell me.
He says he loves me and this should bring us closer not break us up. Is he right??
I want to marry him but should I tell my parents about the marriage or baby first?? We are in love.

2006-11-26 07:17:19 · 5 answers · asked by Michael 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 07:14:55 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He came home for Thanksgiving and he didn't call me once.

2006-11-26 07:14:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What is the techninque for ice skating, i just came back from a session of ice skating. it was so much fun, except for the fact that i had to hold on to the side rails all the time. i couldnt skate on my own and i was so envious of evryone that was able to do it on their own, ild love to go again, but only if im sure i can do it, so ill appreciate your answers. thank you

2006-11-26 07:14:17 · 8 answers · asked by abii 1 in Singles & Dating

I IMed a girl I know from college whose birthday is today. I told her I got her a present (I happen to have an unopened copy of Hoosiers which I plan to give her tonight once she gets back from her house.) I don't know her very well at all, but she lives in my dorm so I run into her a lot and I want to get to know her as a friend. I have social anxiety disorder, so it's hard for me to get to know people, despite the fact that she's very friendly. I don't think she's really into sports movies, so I feel kind of guilty giving her an unpersonalized gift. Should I feel bad about it or just assume that she'll be happy that I got her something?

2006-11-26 07:12:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Been out of the single scene for a long time, so I know zero available women. If you want to catch a fish it is useless to cast your hook into a swimming pool, or a lake that is overflowing with frogs. Where do the single women go? Everywhere I look it is 20 guys to a girl. Where do I go and be the one guy to 20 women?

2006-11-26 07:12:10 · 13 answers · asked by tenbadthings 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 07:12:09 · 8 answers · asked by jaymills123 1 in Singles & Dating

I loved a girl for six months. my lover and me were very happy while we love. One day she went to his native place their his uncle`s son proposed his love to her so she accepted the love. now i am thinking
of her i can`t forget her. i don`t want to leave her in any circumstances. so i went to her and ask why you do like this . for this she say that " Before you proposed me i am thinking of him and he was so soft and kindful to all ". I don`t know what to say to her she loved me and also she now loving another person. while i heard about him he was seem to be genuine person and loving her very strong for 3-years without exposing his love to her. i don`t know what to do now.

2006-11-26 07:11:38 · 21 answers · asked by harikrishnan R 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why do we sing "Rock a bye baby" to lull our little ones to sleep when the song is about putting your baby in a tree and letting the wind crash the cradle to the ground?

2006-11-26 07:11:33 · 12 answers · asked by Broken_Inside 1 in Family

I am 21 years old. I have a full time job and PT college.I been arranger marriage twice before. it didn't work out.. my mom was trying to get me married again. Refused to do that for the third time. for that time my parent are giving me hard time. I cant go out anymore. they don't trust me. they just want me to do what ever they want. I don't know what to do. I love them . but . I want to leave my life the way I want it. I know this guy hes 23 and I really like him. hes really respectful and sweet. he really want to go further with me. I do too. but my parent wouldn't agree because hes from a different country.the apartment where my parent leave its under my name I pay have of it. in fact I pay have of everything. I can afford to leave by my self. but i just don't wanna leave them because I know they need me. but i just want to stop it, because I cant take it anymore>??!!

2006-11-26 07:11:28 · 8 answers · asked by I_belong_to_me 3 in Singles & Dating

the eldest is 12. no probs. the 7, 6 and 3 yr old always fighting and screaming. i need supernanny! peace and quiet, whats that!! any advice would be better than nothing.

2006-11-26 07:11:06 · 25 answers · asked by ruth h 2 in Family

...what should I do to discourage it?

2006-11-26 07:10:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My neighbor (well he lives below me in apt) is into and I dont like him I have tried telling him off, kicking him out of my house, ignoring him phone calls, and even pretending to have a boyfriend. This guy just dont get the hint. I have told him numerous times I dont like him and he still wont leave me alone. He is that stupid fly that is in your room when your trying to sleep. All you want to do is kill and have some peace. Please help me. If you need more details click my face and email me.

2006-11-26 07:10:11 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know her for four years and i treat her as my friend.She
started(first) sending me good night messages a few months ago.I did reply her sometimes.She smile,wave and say 'hi' to me whenever she saw me.She finds things i said/did amusing and can laugh for really long.She once found an excuse and touched my hand.
(Suddenly)But she stop SMSing me for weeks.She no longer smile to me and say 'hi'.
I started to miss her and even dreamed of her several time.This is when i realised that i like her.

2006-11-26 07:09:58 · 10 answers · asked by wraith 1 in Friends

I was in a bad 10yr relationship with my children father, he was an alcolholic and abuser. Three years ago my kids were removed from my home, they wanted me to leave him and i did and my children were removed from me anyways, now i have my 2 oldest back, which is great, but my 2 youngest are up for adoption, i just dont understand why am i good enough for only 2 kids and i been fighting hard to get them back and its not happening. Does anyone know what else can i do??? They system goes after the wrong ppl. I never did drugs nor drink, I just need some opion on how can i get them back...

2006-11-26 07:09:17 · 7 answers · asked by sweety4ya76 1 in Family

im 14 live in the midwest, im goth, she is a "goth" but realy she is a poser, she told me when we were friends that if she lost 30 pounds she would switch to hollister, and areopostle. ect. first she got pissed cause i didnt agree with her political views/morals. Well she got bored and staRted rumors that i was stalking her and calling her all the time. Realy one day in june she asked me to spend the night on im. I sayed why not. I didnt realy want to go but i did anywayz. we had a good time. she tried to get dirt on me but i never said anyting because im smarter than that. But she told me things like ex. shelby was a virgin and never touched drugs. And a couple other people at my schoo. that were her "friends." then she told all her friends that i was stalking her and that i was talking bad about them when realy she was doing such things. then this girl that is her friend nicole got dumped by this guy chris that i didnt like then breanna started stuff that we were dating etc. HELP!!

2006-11-26 07:08:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

went on a date with a guy & slept with him. All my idea. Do men feel this wretched after a one night stand? Why the difference between the sexes?....sigh, I know its foolish

2006-11-26 07:08:01 · 24 answers · asked by Christina S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

another state instead

2006-11-26 07:07:49 · 4 answers · asked by andykpln 4 in Family

me and my b/f have been dating for almost 4 months but all we do latley is fight about everything. he is always putting me down and telling me how his ex g/f were working all the time and how they looked sexy clothes and things i have two kids from a past realtionship and he gets pissed when i talk about them. but i let him talk about his all the time and now hes treating me like a piece of ****. i love him to death but i want to see what everyone thinks is he online cheating? he online alot when iam not upstairs or not in the room. and hes has to be right and iam wrong what is so wrong with us? please help soon i feel like iam losing my mind one more thing he thinks i can get a job with out a high school diploma or even a ged and only 7 years expernice in child care.

please help sooooooon.

2006-11-26 07:07:02 · 19 answers · asked by brandy_hollifield2000 1 in Singles & Dating

ive tried tellin her a million times but all she says is that im just jealous...

2006-11-26 07:06:38 · 18 answers · asked by Brittany J 1 in Singles & Dating

If a man is seeing a woman but not living with or married to her but tells her their relationship is exclusive and cheats, could he really care about her. Do men cheat just for sex and it means nothing to them or do they only do it when they are not truly in love? Isn't this a sign that the relationship is dead end?

2006-11-26 07:06:33 · 16 answers · asked by LDR02 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm in the military and overseas and i need some advice. I want to find something she can make her own and have fun with or find something she can use to relax. She's 28 and is back home watching our daughter and working i would like to get her something that says thank you for being such a great wife while i'm gone even though i know it's hard when i'm gone. Please help me out ladies SSG M.

2006-11-26 07:06:27 · 7 answers · asked by spanish_fly63 1 in Family

2006-11-26 07:06:27 · 11 answers · asked by latehana98 2 in Singles & Dating

after only knowing them for 4 months?



Because that's how I feel about my boyfriend. I've been in love once before (when I was a freshman in college), and that was five years. I haven't felt that way again until now. Is it possible I'm in love again?

2006-11-26 07:05:28 · 6 answers · asked by skichamonix515 3 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i keep talking about having sex. we cant find the place to do it cause my parents are over protective. we dont always be with eachother but when we do its just for bout 5 minutes. we both get turn on alot when we are with eachother. we both want to do it soon but im not getting to go anywhere with him. Any suggestions

2006-11-26 07:04:15 · 19 answers · asked by lil babe 2 in Singles & Dating

We went out twice this weekend....both times she said i have somehow been different...i have no idea what i am doing wrong,,,,i told her im going to try my hardest to fix this and be the usual me....but the real fact is i dont know what is making me sem different

2006-11-26 07:03:38 · 10 answers · asked by peter r 2 in Singles & Dating

As in, i talk a whole lot--almost all the time, not to mention laugh so much that i cant breath sometimes--i'm a total blonde! I dont usually get the jokes my friends tell all the time! On Y&A i do real good w/this! :) i can talk to ppl really well, and am very outgoing. I can actually keep a friend!! but can b very wierd--lol not in a bad way!!!!! lol i can b funny and i socialize. idk what my personality would b labeled as. tell me about urs!!!!!! :)

2006-11-26 07:02:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-26 07:02:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am pregnant with my b/f's kid. When I told him he said he would be there for me through out it all. Would you guys have ditched or stayed?? Does it mean we may actually have a real relationship?? Should I be glad he wants to help??
We are 19. Would he have left me if he didn't care??
He says he has something for me tonight. My friend says that his friend says he's gonna propose. Should I say yes??
we have been together for 4 years today.
We have talked about getting married eventually but I thought that was far away. Is 19 too young to get married?? I do love him.
His friend said he was thinking of proposing b4 but I wasn't ready then so I told him b4 he asked. He said we could give it some time. It has been a few months.
My friend just asked him and he said yes, he's gonna, but not to tell me.
He says he loves me and this should bring us closer not break us up. Is he right??

2006-11-26 07:02:06 · 4 answers · asked by Michael 1 in Singles & Dating

My older sister is 16. She always wants everything to go her way, and lies all the time. She doesn't do drugs or anything like that, but she isn't afraid to confront our parents and argue with them. She shouts at me for putting my feet on the couch or the table, but then she does it herself a couple minutes later. Every time I oppose her, she raises her voice and threatens to steal/hide or break my items, like my computer, homework, etc. She has done this multiple times before, so it's not a dry threat or anything (I'm not really the kind of person to do the same, but I do often when she provokes me). Sometimes she yells at me to leave the TV room because 'she was there 'first', even though it isn't her room at all. But when she is hanging out with her friends she becomes shy and quiet, while at home she is demanding, loud, and mean. In addition, she ALWAYS comes into my room and follows me around. I could go on and on and on, but I don't have enough space. It's a pain. What do I do?

2006-11-26 07:01:54 · 7 answers · asked by Bob R. 6 in Family