We went out twice this weekend....both times she said i have somehow been different...i have no idea what i am doing wrong,,,,i told her im going to try my hardest to fix this and be the usual me....but the real fact is i dont know what is making me sem different
2006-11-26 07:03:38 · 10 answers · asked by peter r 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe it her 'unaware' thought that she herself has changed in her feelings towards you. If I'm offbase about this, sorry, don't mean to cause doubt in your relationship. Sometimes in a relationship one will begin having different feelings towards the other and rather than step up and have the compassion and courage of saying they don't feel the same about you anymore, they will instead say that you have changed. If, I'm wrong about this in your case...sorry...not my intent to put a bee in the mix. Also, you said you have no idea what is wrong and that you're trying to " fix ' it ' ". How do you know what to change or fix if you don't know what that ' it ' is. Didn't you ask her very specifically and clearly what it is that she has seen as a change in you? If she has replied with a vague "I don't know, you're just different" than that's a cop out on her part. Clear C O M M U N I C A T I O N. I don't understand why that is such a hard concept and courageous place to go into.
2006-11-26 07:12:46 · answer #1 · answered by onelight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly don't be disrespectful and take a verify out pushing something on her if she isn't mushy with it, cuz dud thats in order that rude in my view. Which to me it feels like she isn't, she in all hazard merely says those issues to get you to stop declaring it or carry it up etc. men particularly do no longer undderstand how terrifying it particularly is understanding that no rely what you do their is the possiblity of having pregnant. And that ruins a woman existence imediately. She in all hazard is accustomed to her mom won't permit her get on beginning administration, and thats in all hazard why that fell by additionally. women do no longer think of of doing sexual issues 24/7 like hormonal men do, sorry even though it particularly is authentic. women desire an emotional realationship and men continuously desire a actual one. and that i certainly do no longer see how its "egocentric" because of the fact it particularly is afterall, her physique and that i doubt she Owes you her physique....merely yet another element. additionally a solid question to ask your self is do i choose to be a dad impressive now? Cuz which could take place. I merely think of you're able to prepare self administration, be information that your gf does not choose to be a mom or benefit 15 lbs as for this reason beginning administration and appreciate her possibilities. in case you are able to no longer do this, then do her solid and wreck it off because of the fact of incorrect intentions/motives and bypass come across a random common female...they are everywhere.
2016-10-04 09:39:21 · answer #2 · answered by regula 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She said you are different. Did she say how? She needs to tell you specifically what's different now as opposed to your behavior before. Once you know what it is that you are or are not doing, then you can fix it. Right now it would be difficult to fix what you don't know is broken!
2006-11-26 07:08:10 · answer #3 · answered by Arleen J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to write you a list of how, in what ways? Maybe SHE has changed instead. Some people do not grow together for one will not change.
2006-11-26 07:06:47 · answer #4 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she must clarify more and state what are the exact changes that she noticed on you , because if she really wants to keep this relationship she should high light out the changes that she noticed on you .
2006-11-26 07:07:03 · answer #5 · answered by cuttiiee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude there is nothing wrong with you why would you want to change who you are. if she doesn't like you for who you are then why be w/ her when you could go out w/ some one who likes you for who you are and not who you aren't.
2006-11-26 07:11:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u stopped calling her so much or seeing her so much or forgot to open doors like u used to and complment her as much as u did buy her some flowers and tell her how much she means to u and how much u love her
2006-11-26 07:08:17 · answer #7 · answered by cc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you still cuddle her and kiss her as much as you did before she started saying this??
if you do, then you will just have to ask her, as she obviously is upset about something.
Good Luck Hon xXx
2006-11-26 07:10:17 · answer #8 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can u fix something if u don't know what is wrong. ask her what she means
2006-11-26 07:05:30 · answer #9 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree. how can you fix what you don't know. ask what's so different. Maybe she's different.
2006-11-26 07:08:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋