I IMed a girl I know from college whose birthday is today. I told her I got her a present (I happen to have an unopened copy of Hoosiers which I plan to give her tonight once she gets back from her house.) I don't know her very well at all, but she lives in my dorm so I run into her a lot and I want to get to know her as a friend. I have social anxiety disorder, so it's hard for me to get to know people, despite the fact that she's very friendly. I don't think she's really into sports movies, so I feel kind of guilty giving her an unpersonalized gift. Should I feel bad about it or just assume that she'll be happy that I got her something?
2006-11-26 07:12:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if u wanna get to know her a sports movie is really impersonal... i mean most girls arent into sports so she'll end up throwing it out or not using it... u want to give her something that she uses so everytime she uses it she thinks o so and so gave it to me and she thinks of u... hmm idk wat to get her something fast but i would not give her that find something shes into and buy her that
2006-11-26 07:15:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She'll be happy you got her something. You should never feel bad about getting someone a gift. The people are would make you feel bad that you did not get them a "personalized" gift are not worth your time.
2006-11-26 15:16:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can't expect you to get her something personalized when she knows that you don't know her very well. If she doesn't like it, she can always return it and get something else. Either way, she will recognize the fact that you got her a gift even though you aren't the best of friends yet.
2006-11-26 15:16:50 · answer #3 · answered by cutiedudie2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's cool I think she'll like that gift. As you get to know her more you'll know more the kind of things she likes. Don't worry too much. Have fun.
2006-11-26 15:18:10 · answer #4 · answered by Valerena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should feel happy that you thought of her
2006-11-26 15:14:14 · answer #5 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a good movie. relax. she will like it.
2006-11-26 15:15:42 · answer #6 · answered by bunny2112 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋