My neighbor (well he lives below me in apt) is into and I dont like him I have tried telling him off, kicking him out of my house, ignoring him phone calls, and even pretending to have a boyfriend. This guy just dont get the hint. I have told him numerous times I dont like him and he still wont leave me alone. He is that stupid fly that is in your room when your trying to sleep. All you want to do is kill and have some peace. Please help me. If you need more details click my face and email me.
2006-11-26 07:10:11 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont think I should have to move cuz of some creep.. My lease is not up and I want my 699 back
2006-11-26 07:15:16 · update #1
Tell him you'll call the cops for harassment and mean it too. He has no business being near you. Also give him no reason to see or talk to you. Don't pass his place on your way to do things, if you see him go the other way. If you see him in a restaurant ask to be or sit somewhere else. Flat out avoid him! He has no reason to be following you. Also I'd suggest taking a walk by his door when he's home and you have a date and start kissing if he doesn't get the hint then, well yeah dial the cops for a harassment charge!
2006-11-26 07:17:56 · answer #1 · answered by charleston_chic_323 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You could come down the stairs one day when you know he is outside his door and act like you're crying and when he asks you what is wrong tell him that your doctor just called you and said you had Herpes. Seriously though, all joking aside...us women for some reason always try to be nice and not hurt the guys feelings...for some reason despite not liking him that way we still don't want to come across as mean and nasty and ignorant...which I guess is where most men get the misconception that we are teases because we can never come right out and be so mean! Unfortunately, if this is effecting your level of enjoyment for living, this is one of those times where you are just going to have to tell him, and if you have done so tell him you are prepared to get a restraining order or to file a motion for harrassment in court if he doesn't cease pursuing you in that way. Whetehr or not you shoudl give him the I like you for a friend only talk may not be such a good idea since he seems to obviously not get it. Also talk to your landlord about the situation and see what he or she suggests. Write down every unwanted advance with the date and time and a brief description of what he did in case you do seek the legal avenue for this. Also if you stress to your landlord now about this guy and nothing is done to remedy the situation on your landlord's behalf, that could be a justified reason to leave and breech your lease, you are not expected to stay anywhere that you are being put in danger or harrassed. By writing that stuff down and talking to the landlord about it you will have supporting evidence shoudl you breech your lease and your landlord tries to squeeze you on it. Good luck, sounds like this guy just won't get it!!
2006-11-26 07:46:16 · answer #2 · answered by slinkster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like hes stalking u i would say put a restraining order on him or the next time he trys to call or trys to get near u tell him ur going to call the cops or if u want call them right there in front of him or when ever u cant get rid of him. but what ever u do dont kill him cause that just make all h*** break lose well i hope this helps. i knew a guy like that yeh after i got done with him he got the pic. well get rid of that creep
2006-11-26 07:19:31 · answer #3 · answered by babe72hottest16 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How does he get in your house? You must be nice to him sometimes. If he just walks in try hitting him with pepper spray, on the other hand why can't you just be polite to him but mostly ignore him. put a block on your phone so he can't call. If he continually calls you complain the the phone company, you can also call the police or get a restraining order to keep him from bothering you at home, i mean keep him from knocking on your door. He will get bored eventually.
2006-11-26 07:24:58 · answer #4 · answered by Jim V 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
POLICE RESTRAINT lol. seriously i would tell him. don't be nice about it. I know how you feel. I didn't want to hurt his feeling cuz im nice in general but this guy no one day he started with his talking and all and i just started yelling i don't like him and for him to leave me alone or im getting a restraining order. He quit but got really mad. SO you may want to watch what you say lol but some guys are like psycho so you have to be careful. Good luck.
2006-11-26 07:16:03 · answer #5 · answered by everlasting_matchstick 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why dont u tell him if he doesnt leave u alone u r going 2 move to a place that is really far away(like china) (but dont really) and if he still doesnt stop ask a guy out thats not him. then invite him over to watch u guys kiss and talk baby to each other. if he still doesnt buzz off slap him and tell him u never want to see each other in ur entire life and stomp of all angry.
2006-11-26 07:16:05 · answer #6 · answered by Cole 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can do 2 things..
1. tell him your a lesbian. this can go both ways though, he might back off or as for you and your girl together.
2. get a freaking restraining order on his ***, tell the cops hes been stalking you and they fix him right up.
if none of these work, act all freaky around him, have him over, take on a psycho attitude and freak him out completely, go all out with a knife, screaming, and maybe some dead animals, that will scare the crap out of him.
2006-11-26 07:16:09 · answer #7 · answered by alton956 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just act really different around him like pick your nose and talk about things that would make him not like you, otherwise just sit him down and make him understand that you don't like him and you want him never to come near you again. Mean but sometimes that is what you have to do.
2006-11-26 07:13:57 · answer #8 · answered by yoshi10581 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Have you tried being really mean? That normal gets most guys to go away. Or act really crazy. Watch a good 'killer woman' horror movie and use thoes ideas(though not for real, just to scare him away).
And it would not hurt to move.
2006-11-26 07:13:40 · answer #9 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You really need to bring a man home with you, ask a brother or friend, if that's not an option ask a friend to ask a male to come by, have him stop in often so this "stalker" will see him, tell this man to make it certain tha he knows he's around...
2006-11-26 07:14:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋