I loved a girl for six months. my lover and me were very happy while we love. One day she went to his native place their his uncle`s son proposed his love to her so she accepted the love. now i am thinking
of her i can`t forget her. i don`t want to leave her in any circumstances. so i went to her and ask why you do like this . for this she say that " Before you proposed me i am thinking of him and he was so soft and kindful to all ". I don`t know what to say to her she loved me and also she now loving another person. while i heard about him he was seem to be genuine person and loving her very strong for 3-years without exposing his love to her. i don`t know what to do now.
2006-11-26 07:11:38 · 21 answers · asked by harikrishnan R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i dont understand what ur saying it makes no sense!
2006-11-26 07:13:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi Harry,
Life is full of ups and downs. Right now you are down but you have to get up. Only time will heal you broken heart no words that we write will solve you problem but they will definately encourage you. Just forget her she has gone she found what she was looking for. And you will eventually find you match too.
Right now what you need is forget about her. Do something that you like the most. Take a break from your routine life and go for a vacation if possible take some friends with you and have a good time. U have to make things work for your self. Just give your self a well deserved break from all and do something that you have never done before i am not saying that you will forget all your problems but at least they will become light. Basically keep yourself occupied just do something or the other.
Some relationships work some don't but the hope should always be there.
I wish you all the best in life. Good Luck
2006-11-27 01:59:56 · answer #2 · answered by Blueberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try your best to forget her. I know it is not easy but you have to do this. Try to do something when you are not doing anythings. It will help you to forget her. Try to stay busy all the time for the next two months. Remember she left you for another guy. As far as i understand she never loved you truely. If she did then she never left you. Take care.
2006-11-30 00:57:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anjon28July 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she wants to be with someone else. The only thing you can do once you finish grieving is realize this wasn't meant to happen. Trust the process of your life- there is something better for you my friend.
I am sorry- I know that a broken heart is the absolute worse feeling.
2006-11-26 15:19:19 · answer #4 · answered by MeaCulpa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I can tell you ....forget about her ...but only time can tell you ...I was in a situation like that and only time and patience can help you....there's only one question you need to ask yourself and find the answer for it
Why I keep insisiting to be with someone that does not want to be with me .......something I learned in life and that is ...where there's love there's no doubts this means that you can not think that she is confuse or anything like it .......just let time pass
2006-11-26 15:19:23 · answer #5 · answered by Yami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget her and find a new girl, who loves you. There is no point in wasting your life for some one who ditched you in the half way.
Remember:
Don't let someone become a priority in your life, when you are just an option in their life...Relationships work best, when they are balanced
2006-11-28 00:28:00 · answer #6 · answered by Electric 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget her as an Ex friend take the EXIT from her life and enjoy the outside environment.
2006-11-26 22:12:33 · answer #7 · answered by C P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on man. i know it is difficult. but she chose another man over u. To forget her, try focussing on the things u hate about her. blow it up and invent imaginary things that u would hate. eg: she will become after a few months with him, weep and cry all over him....see the point? or just give it time.. it will be alright in a few months...try seeing other girls
2006-11-26 16:30:45 · answer #8 · answered by faiz ali 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry that happened she probley still has feelings for u but her feelings are stronger for him, u just need to be a friend to her and get ur self another love it will be hard but she dosen't want to be with you so do not waste ur love on something that is not there good luck and u sound like a sweet guy
2006-11-26 15:15:05 · answer #9 · answered by A soldiers wife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all u gotta do it remember dat she aint da last girl in the world yh theres plenty of gals who wud wanna be wiv u lol so dont watch dat and by goin out wiv another gal will make u foreget about this gal
2006-11-28 13:01:44 · answer #10 · answered by Lurve Doctor!!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself this why would you want to be with someone who betrays you and doesnt feel the same way as you feel i can imagine how difficult this may b for you but the best thing to do is move on good luck
2006-11-26 15:16:07 · answer #11 · answered by monieluv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋