my boyfriend and i keep talking about having sex. we cant find the place to do it cause my parents are over protective. we dont always be with eachother but when we do its just for bout 5 minutes. we both get turn on alot when we are with eachother. we both want to do it soon but im not getting to go anywhere with him. Any suggestions
2006-11-26 07:04:15 · 19 answers · asked by lil babe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be patient the time will come and when it does it will be the most wonderful exprience for you and him.Don't rush it that takes all the fun out of it all the wondering about it is what makes it so interesting plan it make a way for your parents to think your staying with a girlfriend and then you two go to a hotel or somthing make it special because just remember the first time will only come once.
2006-11-26 07:25:40 · answer #1 · answered by chickonthego06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sneak out in the middle of the night and meet up somewhere private, like a friends house, or somewhere where you can be alone for more than an hour.
Although, you should realize that your parents are just trying to protect you from getting into a complicated situation... So give them a break, it means that they really do care about you and your best interests.
2006-11-26 15:07:23 · answer #2 · answered by polar_kodiak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well little lady sex is no light thing. It should be saved for the man you're going to marry. Sounds to me like you're also a little young if you can't find a place to have sex. You could always sneak him into your room. That's what me and my girl did when I was a teenager. When her father came in I hid under the bed or in the closet. We never got caught. Except this one time at school. Anyway don't listen to me I'[m bad.
Rich
2006-11-26 15:16:51 · answer #3 · answered by Roll'n Bluntz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't going to like my answer but I have to say you guys should not have sex anyway!!! If you get pregnant then what will you do??? If you get a nice little disease then what will you do??? If you really love this guy and he loses respect for you because you were easy then you'll hate yourself and you can't make him respect you after that! You have to THINK things through. Don't just go on the fact that you "get turned on alot". Don't let him use you. Protect your integrity and tell him to get lost if that's whats on his mind!!!!!!!!! I promise, you'll feel good about yourself and your decision. Know what else? NO ONE WILL STAND UP FOR YOU...SO, STAND UP FOR YOURSELF!!!!!
2006-11-26 15:14:36 · answer #4 · answered by butterflylover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a couple years until you turn 18, get a place of your very own, and do whatever you want there.
2006-11-26 15:06:27 · answer #5 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since neither of yas have a place of your own...it sounds like you are too young to actually have sex! Why don't you wait til you're older?
2006-11-26 15:07:23 · answer #6 · answered by mich 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are alone only 5 minutes ,then wait till it can be for as long as you both want it to be.'don't spoil the first time by haste.
2006-11-26 15:09:06 · answer #7 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hotel room, if his parents arent bad go to his house and tell u parents u went to a friends house and explain to ur friend the situation and if they call looking to talk to u have her cover for u... if u need ideas on convering i can help you out there too lol so let me know... umm at a party at someone house?
2006-11-26 15:07:25 · answer #8 · answered by Becca 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your not even getting pleasure or orgasm so why risk it? Going bowling or ice skating sounds more enjoyable so if he can't wait dump him and hang out with friends instead.
2006-11-26 15:08:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if theres a place where your parents trust you to go then maybe the both you can meet eachother there(remember to use a condom)
2006-11-26 15:07:29 · answer #10 · answered by jovene_cunningham2000 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋