Family & Relationships - 26 November 2006

When I asked the question of how long you would keep trying before you gave up on someone. I got bashed for being the cheater! I even said in the question that I was asking that it was not me that did the cheating. So why is it that some people don't read the whole thing before they answer a question? All I wanted to know was from someone that had cheated on their mate....how long they tried to get them back before giving up. I know there is a lot of cheaters/excheaters out there that could answer that question. Hope I don't get bashed again. I know there is more than one question here so you can answer all or none. Just please don't bash me, I did nothing wrong. I was the good person!!

2006-11-26 07:01:41 · 10 answers · asked by SapphireB 6 in Marriage & Divorce

If not, do they have a reason??
(keep it PG)

2006-11-26 07:01:28 · 11 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

My Girlfriend jumped into a pre-marriage ring, shortly beofre we started dating. She has no clue what the details are. Clearly we can't have sex, but what about a shower, sharing the same bed, oral? If anyone has any answers by all means plz respond

2006-11-26 07:01:14 · 4 answers · asked by praetorg 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in my mid-20's, a professional woman and a full-time college student in the evening finishing my degree in business.
I am in school 3 nites a week, for 4 hours with the same group of people. We have all became very close and hang out outside of class often, email, text, etc.
One guy is in his mid 30's married with 3 children- he and I have the same personalities and have a ball together in and out of class. While we are not attracted to each other- and nothing has ever (or will happen physically) we always hug good nite, blow kisses to each other in the commons area.
A few nites ago a huge group went out for a drink after finals and he gave me hug goodbye in front of everyone and said"Love ya sweetie"... without hesitiation I said it back and winked.
A few minutes afterward a guy friend told me he thought that was inappropriate, and that out friendship could be considered an affair.
I don't think so- what about u?

2006-11-26 07:00:27 · 8 answers · asked by Rae 3 in Singles & Dating

I have known this guy for over 3 years now. We have this on again off again thing. We see one another once and then I don't see him for months but only through e-mail. I've told him how mad he makes me and why he does this but he never answers me. He just suggest I see a someone to talk to about my youth BUT he is the problem why I get mad. I really cared about this person and so it makes it hard to make the goodbye cause when I am done with someone that is it. I know deep down what I need to do just want to hear some feedback.

2006-11-26 07:00:06 · 6 answers · asked by homesweethomediana@sbcglobal.net 3 in Singles & Dating

my friend needs a girls night...............and so we planned it.....but then she told me something............and ok, like everyone knows that girls eat ice cream, but this is beyond the ice cream=bandaid thing. what comes after icecream? when ice cream doesnt work, then what do you turn to?

2006-11-26 06:59:51 · 8 answers · asked by myra 1 in Friends

anything at all now, don't be shy,
I like funny and mushy equaly

2006-11-26 06:59:19 · 30 answers · asked by Yeah yeah yeah 5 in Singles & Dating

He is two years younger than me!

2006-11-26 06:59:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the love of my life left me becaus ehe said we dont see eachother enough (even though we see eachother almost every day) i know he loves me back, but it seems like he was looking for an excuse to not be with me now. he said we could try again later, and i didnt know how to take it. it hurts so bad to not be with him now, and ill do ANYTHING to get him back. what should i do? any words of advice will be of great help to me.

2006-11-26 06:58:19 · 19 answers · asked by Chelsea 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a drama teacher and she's really upset because I missed 2 very important rehearsals and we're like a week and a half till the school play opens. She's the kind of teacher that likes to scare you in order to make you do things her way. Have any of you guys felt this way with any teacher? Anything I should think about so I won't be so scared?

2006-11-26 06:58:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok well i am going out with this guy and he says he loves me but we never get to see each other out side of school........and then there my x who i really like and has asked me out a couple of times and we hang out but his family hates me what do i do??

2006-11-26 06:57:10 · 10 answers · asked by Chelsea J 2 in Singles & Dating

when we go to the mall and go inside the store she wants me to buy her some thing that i dont want her to buy and she has a fit/ gets upset and acts like a kid. she wanted me to buy her air jordan shoes that cost $80 and i dont like to buy shoes that are over $50 and told her we can go to another store.

2006-11-26 06:56:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's this guy I know to see for months now. He hangs around in the same social scene as me and I often see him staring at me. He is so so my type and looks like good fun. I never see him leaving with a girl even thought he knows a lot of them so seems to be single as I've seen him wkends & wkdays like this. One day at a club we were both at the bar and he just said to me out of the blue 'when are you going to dance with me?'. I nearly died of shyness and just stupidly replied 'I don't know you'. Talk about looking a gift horse in the mouth! I don't blame him for just dancing with another girl. Still, last week he sat 3 metres away from me at another table and stared looked at me. I'm so shy I can't return the stares or I blush. What on earth does all of this mean? What can I do?

2006-11-26 06:55:20 · 1 answers · asked by sonia 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend at school is leaving to go back to his home in France and then I won't see him again. I don't know what to get him as a leaving present.

2006-11-26 06:55:15 · 16 answers · asked by daisy_chain23 1 in Friends

we had miss understanding about how he was withdrawing money from our accounts and he insulted me in the face.

2006-11-26 06:53:59 · 39 answers · asked by Esther K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

right my girlfriend wants to move in with me she is 17 and i am 18 we are both ready for this and i have everything ready for us a house i have a steady job and i go to college i bring in about 800 a month but she is scared to talk to her parents and ask them i wont be tehre because she lives in england and i live in scotland i is hard she is scared if they say no or disown her she is stil going to come but she doesnt want to lose her family they are not very nice to her they treat her very bad and treat her wrong does anyone have any sugestions on how to help please?

2006-11-26 06:53:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-11-26 06:53:12 · 18 answers · asked by calimexgirl!! 3 in Singles & Dating

It is on Wed. 29th this week...

2006-11-26 06:52:45 · 8 answers · asked by BORED AT WORK 5 in Marriage & Divorce

what are the causes of divorce in cities in UK?

2006-11-26 06:51:41 · 9 answers · asked by 11 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, so here is the story! My brother Derek and I have the same mom's but different dads and well, his dad has a son my age, so that would make it my brother's half brother I think! Well, my brother Derek's brother like's me... And, I kinda like him. Would, it be insest or strange/weird if we would date... Im so confussed on this. I just don't know what to do. I mean it feels weird cause it's my brother's brother, but he is no blood to me! Please help!
Serious answers please, not just for points....

2006-11-26 06:50:49 · 30 answers · asked by Cherries 2 in Friends

I am pregnant with my b/f's kid. When I told him he said he would be there for me through out it all. Would you guys have ditched or stayed?? Does it mean we may actually have a real relationship?? Should I be glad he wants to help??
We are 19. Would he have left me if he didn't care??
He says he has something for me tonight. My friend says that his friend says he's gonna propose. Should I say yes??

2006-11-26 06:50:13 · 11 answers · asked by Michael 1 in Singles & Dating

One that shows them who's the boss in certain situations?

2006-11-26 06:50:08 · 6 answers · asked by Monisma 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 06:50:06 · 4 answers · asked by gracenot15 1 in Marriage & Divorce

death, public speaking, and spiders i can all deal with...not so bad.


but women frighten me....why is this???

2006-11-26 06:50:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my wife dident say anything i dont remember doing any thing but woke up nude as well as the younger chick in my bed wife acts like nothing was wrong what should i think

2006-11-26 06:49:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

do u think it would be a good idea to try waxing down below do women find it attractive? some people say its not very manly but must men in porn seem to be bold...let me know. thanxs

2006-11-26 06:49:36 · 17 answers · asked by ryan s 1 in Singles & Dating

I am constantly accused by my guy of being too nice to other guys in social situations.
I am in no way the most attractive woman, I just have self confidence that comes from being funny and intelligent. Anytime w go out I end up getting a free drink from a guy at the end of the bar, or things like that.
My man gets so flustered that I can smile and guys want to talk to me. I never flirt- I always keep things platonic, and I never ignore my guy-
Is smiling to everyone in a room being too nice?
I just always considered myself cheerful!

2006-11-26 06:49:11 · 9 answers · asked by Rae 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband and eye have known each other a long time we went to the same elemetary shcool.My dad and his dad work for same company his dads the president of claims for the insurance company and my dads the vice president.We became friends when i was 10 and him13 it was love at first bite(no joke he tried to give me a hicky to win a bet).Anyway highschool we dated on and off but broke up when i was in my last year.We met up again when i was 19 in college i got pregnant and we married it was hell it lasted 2 years before we seperated and we divorced the next year.I graduated college and we tried again to make it work after 7 trys we remarried again.We have been married a 1 1/2 now and i am now 25 yrs old and he is 28.We cant agree on anything not even house decorations we own 2 houses one is my old home wich is used as a vacation house or weekend home to avoid the problem.Everything is a fight we have a love+ hate relationship and are driving each other crazy.do we divorce again?

2006-11-26 06:48:28 · 14 answers · asked by Jessia h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

please post what you like in a girl,,,
physical and emotionally..
and what you like for them to do?

2006-11-26 06:48:23 · 7 answers · asked by musicalxcrash 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I like him but i dont like him because he is always all over me

2006-11-26 06:48:16 · 4 answers · asked by Chelsea J 2 in Singles & Dating